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  • Pornography should be banned. It's extremely destructive, especially to young men. And now, with the advent of the internet, it's available to anyone, in unlimited supplies, 24 hours a day. This is one the reasons society is so fucked up these days. Instead of going out there in the real world and finding a mate, all these fools are just fapping and playing video games.

    And it's like how addicts build tolerance to drugs. People gradually become numb to "vanilla porn" so they start needing kinkier and weirder shit just to get themselves off. Soon enough, they're watching extreme, hardcore, pornography and the idea of real sex with an actual person does not even interest them.

    Also, sex is a motivator for normal, healthy, people. They want to attract a mate so they stay physically-fit, they try to look their best, they try to make money, they stay engaged socially, anything to make themselves more desirable. But now, people don't need to do any of these things in order to get sexual gratification. They can just go to Pornhub, jack-off, and then watch Netflix or whatever. It's all a downward spiral.

    Personally, I never watch pornography. It just generally disgusts me. I don't understand how anyone could become aroused watching other people having sex.

    • 100%. When you mention porn and video games, that's vicarious masculinity. It's a lot easier to simulate these things than to go after them in real life, so that's what weak men do. The reason this shit is so easily accessible and free is because they, you know who I mean, want to pacify men.

    • you’re one in a million. Every boy that i meet (asked me if i wanna watch porn together) and i just ignore them

    • At some point I was watching even things I would be ashamed to write here, no pedophilia and other really deep BS but at least it was not okay. I'm happy that I'm now back to "vanilla sex" and use pictures from my girlfriend to masturbate to.

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  • Hmmmmmm... I don't think so... That's TOO SIMPLE an answer for a MUCH DEEPER and MORE COMPLEX problem.

    Porn and violent videogames are are symptoms of a deeper malaise; apathy and desensitization. Our minds and bodies were NEVER designed to be bombarded with an exponential explosion of changes and information. Too much, too fast. Our simple minds are overwhelmed, exhausted and dysfunctional.

    It is time to take back control, and 'slow our roll'. If we don't, our civilization will 'break', collapse and disintegrate into dust as so many did before us.

    Enter stage left, robots and AI, Humanity's biggest challenge yet!

    • rofl AI don't make me laugh XD just programs written by humans

    • @Shamalien With AI he may mean general AI and that is no longer just a program, it is a self-aware and conscious artificial being. But in general terms, you may want to start reading here: en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Artificial_intelligence

    • @roland77 don’t direct me to a fkn wikipedia page mfka I can find that easily enough. Im a programmer and AI is just a buzzword, self aware programs DO NOT exist and cannot exist, at least not with our current understanding of how consciousness works (newsflash we dont know shit)

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  • Porn doesn’t kill love, the lack of self control, communication, understanding between porn and real life kills love.
    The points being made in the video could easily be applied to other situations. Unrealistic situations can be found everywhere. Much like the example of the pool boy and the housewife, a common movie and tv trope we see all the time is the nerd at school who drops all her books only to get help from the cute popular guy and then magically fall in love. When in the right hands we as watchers can go “that kind of stuff just happens in the movies” much like with porn, “that kind of stuff only happens in porn.” When in the wrong hands porn can be destructive to a person, when addictive, porn can be damaging to ones love life regardless of their gender.
    This video seemed very one sided and failed to recognize numerous other factors that could also be contributing to their argument.

    • I don't know of any other situation that affects the brain, visual cortex, dopamine release in the way porn does. I'm not really anti porn, I watch them occasionally, it does affect my taste in women, but I am too busy to watch porn more than three times a week. Just want to point this out, apparently evolution has not prepared human brain for today’s porn 😂

  • Not only does porn kill love but it destroys guys' self esteem and brain cells.

    This industry fills their brain with data and visuals that does not correspond to reality and with biased statistics.

    No wonder that there are so many insecure and anxiety ridden guys that ask this ever recurring penis size question.

    Porn is to the 21st. century what the black plague was to the middle age. It is a gangrene that eats up people's self esteem and installs this seed of doubt in their minds. It is an industry that should be prohibited because it not only falsifies everything but also objectifies a lot of women (and perhaps men) with their visuals.

    • Preach! I thought 8" was unimpressive growing up!

    • No, being proud of our penis size is natural to males. It is common between (especially young) male to brag with their penis size (if natural size, it is awesome for the females).

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  • It does. It's not just that, it destroys ones perception of the opposite sex and sex as a whole. Sex is discovered not uncovered. People don't seem to really care. It's making people unsatisfied and people are getting hurt for real.

    • What do you mean by "[sex] is discovered not uncovered?" It's got a nice rhythm I think.

    • You discover sex when your married to your spouse as sex is not the same before or after marriage and it's different compared to other people. There is no such thing as good or and sex, only good or poor lovers who eiyher loves you or is using you for sexual pleasure.

    • Porn uncovers the innocence of a person's eyes and bow that person has been exposwd to a type of sex that is dirty, perverse and untrue. Then when they have sex outside of marriage they're trying to imitate what they saw and it becomes part of their life. That's why most experienced people don't want virgins because their scared it would be either not pleasurable, which is selfishness. Or end up ruining the virgins life and they will be blamed for it. If they do want virgins, you have to look at how they will treat them. Like prizes, a conquest to boost their ego, or because their afraid of their own sexual performance to be judged by other sexually experienced people. So they want somebody who would praise them and is more liking go stick around regardless of its personal choice to not cheat.

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  • Only if someone is a porn addict could it get in the way of having a normal relationship. If you choose porn over being with or having sex with someone you're in a relationship with, you have a problem that needs counseling. Otherwise, if it's an occasional look see, it's not a problem.

  • Yes its just well known that porn kills love

    • To much of it isn't good, sure. You become lonely when you masturbate to porn to much.

  • First off let me say Porn is about sex.. not Love..
    Sex has nothing to do with love..
    I think the biggest problem with porn is that with todays technology access to it is to readily available.. boys AND girls are watching before they have the maturity level to comprehend that what they are seeing is not what they will necessarily find in real life..
    Porn lacks in showing the connection between lovers who seek to fulfill one another on a sexual and emotional level.. there's no passion.. no intimacy.. it is just sex
    All that being said.. I would be more inclined to think that porn is killing the act of "Making Love"

    • True, having sex and making love is not the same.

  • Once again u have the haters. Meaning they say watching porn kills ur sex drive in a relationship. Well maybe some of that is true. Thier is also another side says it can spice things up. The biggest problem with porn for many people is they can't watch it with out feeling guilty. The gulit is what starts 2 play on a relationship. Meaning a man might start 2 feel guilty. By having the desire 2 want 2 have sex like a pornstar. As for a woman she starts 2 feel guilty. Cause by her seeing all those bigger dicks. It makes her desire 2 want have sex with men that are blessed. What the problem is many people can't watch porn. Meaning they try 2 live out what they watch. In reality u watch for it sexual entertainment. As I all way say watch a little porn and be reborn. Remember all the information they give about porn are largely based on studies of people. Who say that porn destroy their sex life. In reality that's just an excuse they use as a copout. I guess porn causes the divorce rate 2 be so high. Well if that's case then why do so many people that go 2 church get divorced. That's simple cause when u go2 church u you meet other people. Meaning over time u get 2 know these people. Which means thier is temptation. Which many people give in2. That's has nothing 2 do with porn I bet u are saying. In reality it has all the things people feel guilty about. When going 2 Church people don't think about being guilty for wanting 2 have sex with other people. They think because they are in a house of worship. All thier sins will be forgiven. That's not always true. Well enough of all the good stuff. Adults are going 2 do what they want 2 do. Meaning they will always have a reason for things not going like they should. The real truth of the matter is the Devil always has a way of offering temptation.

  • Love how they say its like a body spray advert. So where is the outrage saying everyone is too stupid to know body spray adverts aren't real? They undermined their whole argument themselves by basically saying 'only really stupid people believe this'.

  • Legit, I refuse to even give the video a view.

    Porn has helped my love life.

    Porn isn't the reason love dies. Suppression of emotion and sexuality - all natural, human things - by religious zealots that border on cult-like behaviour is what kills love.

    • BBC porn always helps women in unsatisfying sex life

    • The BBC makes porn? Sounds like a right laugh.

    • Big black cock porn silly

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  • Nope. I think some people go too hard in the paint and can develop a porn addiction. Most people can decipher between fantasy and reality though. I watch porn and still deeply love my boyfriend and we have a great sex life.

  • I think it's about as valid as the idea that video games cause school shootings.

    • Why do you think video games cause school shootings

    • This girl - video games cause school shootings Bullies , irresponsible teachers and staff - ok I'm a gonna head out

    • This should be the MOST HELPFUL OPINION!!!

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  • You want to talk about unrealistic expectations, read a romance novel.

  • No, it merely shows the idiots from the clever people.
    Literally they're just videos of sex like Jesus 😂

  • Meh. Plenty of men wouldn't watch porn if they're SOs would keep the bedroom spicy. Novelty wears off which is why something interesting should be added to keep it fun. I understand why some men watch porn in that case. I don't understand the women who get offended by it and then expect the man not to release his frustrations.

    • About being rejected and denied licking her pussy? Oh my, that is asking for frustrations and it is an explanation, not a justification why cheating may happen one day.

  • It's pretty stupid

  • Blown outta proportion. I didn’t even know there was such a “thing”...
    Porn doesn’t KILL love, how ridiculous

  • This is like the 'videogames make you violent' thing. Yes, there's idiots out there who can't separate real life from entertainment, but for most people this is not true, and theyre just trying to find a new scapegoat to explain their 'bad numbers

    • True, I up-votes still those saying it destroys love because porn is not about love, they don't feel love there for each other, it is purely acting for a movie which is never reality, even when they call it "Reality Kings" or so, it is misleading. Porn is a fantasy, played by actors and actress.

    • And I think the movement points on the extreme, almost-addicted consumption of porn.

  • So, I've watched the video.

    Their entire point seems to be that porn isn't realistic, from how the actors look to how the story unfolds, and this sets unrealistic expectations for real life.

    Clearly, everybody should already know this, unless they've never spent a day interacting with people who weren't actors.

    If the "Porn Kills Love" movement is based on this video, then it is a worthless movement that is bound to fail.

  • i mean if i was in a relationship where my man would rather use porn as a mean to get off then me then there's a problem. rather than half these females saying porn in general kills the romance and sex aspect of the relationship.

    i guess what i'm trying to say is your wife/ girlfriend should be the first option to satisfy your sexual needs not something that is looked down upon? (idk how to phrase the last part)

  • At the very most, porn kills what makes sex seem special. It's been proven to erode libido in some people. It creates an addictive habit, and it perpetuates sexual dysfunction with unrealistic expectations and requirements that usually cannot be met in actual sex. Basically, it's like the junk-food and cigarettes for the sex drive.

    I think at the very least, porn should be more censored away from public viewing on the Internet. They should require some level of security pass to be able to watch X rated content. You shouldn't be able to just click on PornHub and see all kinds of stuff no questions asked. Many underage kids are unfortunately doing that.

  • If you’re partner chooses porn over you it’s a symptom of a deeper problem, not the cause.

    I can enjoy porn while being single and give it up while committed without any problems. My expectations for sex depends on the person and our compatibility. I understand chemistry can vary, I just try to find girls who are most compatible. Overall though porn has never came in between me and a woman. If anything it’s taught me more about my own sexual wants and needs.

  • Omgg finally someone is speaking about this...
    This is why I believe most males nowadays are corrupt because of the freakin porn industry!

    • It's pretty equal on both sides the few one's that actually gotten influenced.

    • "This is why I believe most males nowadays are corrupt because of the freakin porn industry!" You actually believe that "pornography" is corrupting males? What about gangster rap music that started back in the 80's before you were born? Or violence towards women in videos? Or just blame it on something, other that poor upbringing by their parents.

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