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What are we? And do you think that he just wants sex?

He hasn’t officially asked me to be his girlfriend but today he met my parents and little brother they left us alone in the living room and we watched movies for like 4-5 hours together while we watched movies he held hands with me for a long time and he put his head on my shoulder and I put mine on his head he also gave me a kiss on the forehead, touched my hair, my ears, and he was rubbing my arms a lot and as he did his hands stroked my chest, he also made his feet touch mine but that I didn’t like i immediately moved my feet away i hate feet lol.
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I was very stiff at first but then he asked me if he could wrap his arms around me and i said okay he held my hands and wrapped his arms around me like in the picture for a long time I didn’t expect that and i think this was my first time feeling really strong butterflies but i still have doubts.
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I just thought that maybe i was being paranoid?
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I am very naive so i really need a guy’s help on this and explanation because I don’t know what the hell is going on. Also it could’ve been an accident my parents told me that he was trying to rub my arms to calm me down because i was so stiff
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The thing is, it's hard to say. Does he want sex? Probably. Most guys do. Does that mean that he doesn't want anything else? No. It's a tough call and you don't always get it right. So if you have doubts and you feel that sex is a big step, don't give it up before you're sure. You may never be fully sure but at least you can make him wait for it to see if he's serious. On the other hand, if you're not that emotionally driven then just go with the flow and if it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out.

    Knowing you though, as I do, I would suggest that you don't rush into things. Hopefully he'll be respectful and won't try to hurry you anyway.

  • How long and how well do you know each other?

    I don't know him so I can't say what he is think or what he wants. Does he want sex? Most likely, but that doesn't necessarily make it his primary desire. What I can say for now is that it's really easy to confuse being infatuated with someone and actually liking them. Also, no always be smart. Don't keep your guard up, because then you'll never let anyone in, but be smart. Don't follow your heart. That's bullshit. The worst decisions come when they are made with our emotions. Be smart, always.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds supper sweet, but it also sounds like u guys are taking it slow, there would be no reason to ask officially until you hookup i think, with my current boyfriend we had been dating for about a month before I!!! asked him to be official

  • He does really like you, but don’t let him touch your boobs unless you want that.

    • He was like rubbing my arm maybe it was an accident

    • Or do you think it’s bullsit?

    • The way you describe it it probably was an accident. Either way, don't get rid of him just cause he tried to touch you there. Every guy tries eventually, even the ones who really do like you. Just gently but firmly move his hand somewhere you feel more comfortable with.

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  • That does not sound like the behavior of a guy who only wants sex. The best way to know how he feels is to ask him.

  • I was really trying to get physical with you... but I cantc surely say that he want sex... just be smarter...

  • i thought you were smarter than this

    • He was like rubbing my arm maybe it was an accident

    • I don’t think he meant to

    • it doesn't really matter if he meant to or not. you like him. i know i've never missed a titty

  • Stroke ur chest?😳😳😳
    Fuck it🤦‍♂️
    Girl he absolutely wants sex🤦‍♂️

    I fucking knew that🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    Stroke ur chest? Seriously?🤦‍♂️😑😑😑

    • He was like rubbing my arm maybe it was an accident

    • I think it was an accident

    • Ok🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

  • You better get pregnancy test hahhhahhaha jk jk jlk

  • I can definitely tell he loves you , but doesn’t want sex. Your overthinking the situation. . Like I said before talk to him.

  • Well definitely he likes you I know it hard to take it slow, but you'll just have to wait and see how it goes. Good luck

  • It best if you bring up that question and ask him.

  • LOL.. I could imagine your little face... anyways, the dude is moving a bit quick even had the nerves to do it at your parents home while they are there.

    • He was like rubbing my arm maybe it was an accident

    • I think it was an accident and he was trying to rub my arms to calm down

    • Yeah, you're not used to being touched though by a man... I know you felt weird but super excited as well. 😳

  • That is more than sex. He really likes you.

  • He was trying to see if he could get you in the mood for the bedroom

    • I hope not because it’s definitely too early for that. If it’s like that I’m a little scared but also it could of been an accident he might have been only trying to rub my arm

    • Believe me guys know not to do that till they ask when your ready for that we know you donf en add a girls space or we hurt them

  • Seems like he's in for the long run, but I'd wait a few weeks before sex.

  • I think he likes you and I know you like him but you two are what you two agree to be. You have to talk to him and the two of you agree on if you boyfriend and girlfriend or if your just talking but you have to talk to him and dont ever assume anything that's how you get hurt okay

  • Have the "what are we" conversation with him. It eliminates all doubts.

  • I would treat it like boyfriend and girlfriend.

  • You and him are love birds. The early beginnings of a relationship.

  • Seems to me he was definitely trying to get things to progress. The "stroked my chest" part worries me.

    • I think it was an accident

    • Equal chance of it being an accident or not lol.

    • I hope it was an accident.

  • yes it 100% could have been an accident. But I guaranteed he knew what he touched once he touched it. Guys have a 6th sense that alerts them once they've touched boobies; accidentally or not. :P and none of that means he just wants sex. It means he wants to take the relationship to a more physical place (which does not necessarily mean sex.) As long as you're clear in what you are and are not willing to do, then he shouldn't be pressuring you to keep going further.

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