Why do you get limp penis?

I slept with a guy for the first time once and I remember he was a bigger size but throughout he kept going soft.
What are the reasons this has happened to you?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You can get tired, or whiskey dick if you have been drinking a lot. Depending on what is going on, he may need more stimulus (i. e. he might not be feeling it if he is using a condom or too much lube.) If he is older, which he probably wasn't since you aren't, they could have a low testosterone level which would cause that as well. Just have him get a blue pill.

    • First time, he was 33 he kept telling me I was so hot, that I was squeezing him, we did use condoms and he went on for ages. Despite his seminess he'd go in and out of hardness. Maybe stress/anxiety then

  • if it was the first time it could have been simple performance anxiety or if he wasn't expecting sex perhaps he had been wanking all day before meeting up with you... there can be so many reasons and mostly after the second or third helping it will stop happening unless he has more serious erectile dysfunction issues

Most Helpful Girl

  • I agree with lopa dope. My boyfriend was a virgin and he was nervous our first time and he was heavyset as well. He stayed hard during the sex but he kept going soft the first time we did oral

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  • was he drunk?

    • No sober

    • Maybe stress?

    • He could try one of those boner pills. My guy got one when we went on vacation together. We did it for like 5 hrs straight one day lol.

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  • It can be a few reasons. Stress, depression, loosing interest in the person he is sleeping with, medication he is on, erectile dysfunction, whiskey dick, is on drugs, etc.

  • Some guys just can't keep it up or if they're unhealthy, then all of the cholesterol and fat makes it hard to get hard and stay hard or he was nervous

  • If you play with the head of my cock , it would stand up while you
    slightly stroke it , so maybe think about trying something different?

    • I followed his lead...

  • If the sex was boring. I think he have explored plenty of fetish with his hand before meeting you. So nothing might have excited him much. 😁😁

  • I can’t tell you in here

    • Why?

    • Message me

    • No here or not at all

  • He could have had an erectile dysfunction in keeping it hard or he was not fully aroused.

  • Only ever happened to me once and it was after heavy drinking. I still got the job done, but there were some weak moments.

    • Completely understand that. He was sober and totally aware

  • İs your boyfriend is uncircumcised or circumcised. İs your boyfriend foreskin is very tight or long

    • Uncircumcised, hung, loose foreskin

    • İs your boyfriend can pull back foreskin

  • alcohol, fatigue, lack of attraction to my partner.