What are good ways to initiate sex with my boyfriend?

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He is usually the one doing it, and it's often enough that I don't really crave more sex, but he has pointed out that he's the only one initiating it so I feel I should get him in the mood once in a while also. What are good ways to initiate sex for a woman? Start touching him, kissing him until it leads to more? Say ''let's have sex? Send a dirty text? Send some sexy photos? Give me your favorite ways a woman has asked for sex

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Shiver Yoda
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My girlfriend usually starts sucking my cock before I wake up, which always leads to awesome sex. Sometimes she likes to sit on my lap and grind against my cock, which is also really good.
I also recommend making out with him, touching him, rubbing his cock through his pants and then making your way down to it with your mouth. Ez pz
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Anonymous
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In the proper setting, take control and initiate a blow job.
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- Asker
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  but if I start doing blowjob he will expect that, not sex
- Opinion Owner
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  Have him on his back. Mount up Cowgirl after you get him hard.

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AustinMan Influencer
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Say or text, "Whatever you want, Bad Daddy!"
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- Asker
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  ew, daddy is not something I will ever call him, but the rest of it is good idea
- AustinMan
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  In this context, this is like a lot of mothers call their husbands Daddy just like the kids do, as a term of endearment. No father issues here.
- Asker
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  I know, I would definitely use daddy in an endearing way once he has kids with me, but never ever for sex
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- AustinMan
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  Understood. We each need to march to our own drummer. How would you feel about him spanking you?
- Asker
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  That can be fun
- AustinMan
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  And if he put on some pretty painful nipple clamps while he was doing it and then gave you a hard all holes fucking when your bottom was bright red?
- Asker
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  Nope, not my thing
danman27 Xper 4
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Actions are much more effective to guys. Kiss him, unzip him, go down on him then get on him? I'm sure he'll love it.
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MysteryZee Xper 4
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TOUCH THE PENIS!!
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- Asker
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  that's it?
- MysteryZee
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  Yep anything that involves touching it. Try to rub it through his pants, sit on his lap and use your hips, reach down his pants we just want you to touch it and play with it
- Asker
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  he would just expect to get jerked off not try to have sex haha
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- MysteryZee
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  So you've done that before?
- MysteryZee
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  I don't believe it but just say the words every man wants to hear "I want you to fuck me"
- Asker
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  do you really think all men want to hear this :D :D
- MysteryZee
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  Yes I do
- Asker
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  maybe sometimes. but I'm sure they don't want to hear that every single time their girlfriend wants to have sex with them. sometimes they want something creative, to use their femininity to seduce them like only a woman would know how. but still it's interesting to hear what are favorite ways to men. so far the answers have been pretty straightforward
- MysteryZee
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  Yea obviously same thing gets boring after a while but still a solid move
- Asker
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  does your girlfriend/ex use that phrase when she wants sex too?
- MysteryZee
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  I wish
- Asker
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  how would they do it?
- MysteryZee
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  First, penis touching like I said before then close to my ear sexy whisper it
- Asker
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  would she whisper to fuck her haha :D or just sth sexy like do you like that
- MysteryZee
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  Whisper the exact phrase "I want you to fuck me"
- Asker
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  when you said I wish I thought girl never used that phrase with you haha ;D aside from that what other ways would you want a girl to initiate sex?
- MysteryZee
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  Sorry didn't realize till now what sth meant
- MysteryZee
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  But I've never actually had a girl say that phrase unless I said "I want to fuck you" first
- MysteryZee
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  Other ways? Be naked/lingerie when I get home or just call me into the other room and be naked/lingerie
- Asker
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  haha ok ;D thanks for answering. it's weird to just say ''I wanna have sex'' so plain and unarousing to me. if I said ''I want you to fuck me'' that would get a reaction I want a quickie, which is not always the case. I guess I still have to be a bit more specific and tell him
- MysteryZee
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  Yea for me I feel a bit like a rapist when I always have to initiate sex like it only happens on my terms so to me it's super sexy if the girl wants to do it on her terms and tells me that she wants it and how she wants it
- Asker
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  rapist? lol that is extreme. not a rapist, not even a pervert, just more sexually driven haha. do you often have sex in missionary position?
- MysteryZee
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  Usually change up the positions during sex but yea missionary is usually in there
- Asker
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  during missionary how much do you look into eachothers eyes? for example before orgasming or during, do you maintain eye contact? I find it kinda difficult. if it's too private just ignore haha
- MysteryZee
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  I find it difficult to maintain eye contact during sex, it feels like I'm being creepy
- Asker
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  yeah, but if you are face to face isn't it more weird not to look?
- MysteryZee
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  Personally I say no but I struggle with eye contact in general. During sex I'm more focused on how it all feels
Maxnanet Xper 7
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Kiss him , slowly on his neck while touching him slowly getting down on his belly
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- Asker
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  where do you like to be touched when she's kissing you this way? and is it weird if she bites gently while kissing your stomach and neck
- Maxnanet
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  No that is not weird ! I actually really like it ! When the biting is just right its really hot ! I like to be touch pretty much everywhere ;) Where do u like it?
- Asker
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  everywhere. but I am asking about the biting because the only sexual partner I had kept pointing it out, so maybe it was unusual and Im not sure if the next guy would enjoy it. I do it painlessly
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- Maxnanet
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  Biting is hot and always exciting in my opinion ! Don’t wanna talk for all the man but i would say that even during a blowjob its hot
- Asker
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  ok good to know. maybe I will make a poll about this how many men enjoy gentle biting during foreplay on neck chest and stomach. I used my question limit today but I am curious how common this is haha. thanks for replying
- Maxnanet
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  Follow me if u want ! I’ll send you nice links with sexy soft biting
AussieGuy69er Xper 1
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Suck his cock... That's a pretty good indicator 😏
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- Asker
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  It's a good indicator for a blowjob not intercourse
- AussieGuy69er
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  Do it to get him hard then hop on and fuck his brains out.
Anonymous
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Just get on him and go! Reach for the dick and grasp it with pride and joy and just go!
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Anonymous
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Start with making out with him and then either put your hand down his pants or unzip them. I love when a woman initiates sexual contact rather than talking about it.
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