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Have you ever gotten sexual with someone 10+ years older than you?

Outside of celebs like George Clooney, I’ve never really been attracted to someone so much older in person. It honestly bothers me a bit although Im sure many of you feel age shouldn't matter. I met this guy on this app and we had so much in common and the connection was strong. Then i found out he was double my age. Yikes. Anyways, he was sweet and funny so I decided to keep getting to know him although I didn't want it to go past friendliness and occasional one liners... Yea we had bombass phone sex last night. I’ve never c*mmed so hard in years. The only other person who ever made me damn near squirt was someone who was 9 years older. I’ve only felt this attraction to like 4 older guys now with 2 being the ones above. I dont want to fall for anyone older because its just not what I see myself with and it goes against the age gap I always say is for me. Maybe they were exceptions but now this dude wants to do things again and again and I don't know what to do. I dont want to just get rid of him or ghost him because I like talking to him but how do I get out of the sexual path? Did i doom myself? Is ghosting the only option? Fauck he even had me call him daddy 😷 And it weirded me out because he's older than my daddy but I just wanted to keep turning him on. Why’d he have to go and be a hot construction worker with the same zodiac as me 😭
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He’s 25 years older. I dont even want anyone 5+ years older 🙈 Its just his voice turns me on so much. He sounds 25 but is 25 years older. Plus we have the same sign so we have so much in common. Then he just had to be a construction worker. Thats like the hottest career ever. I only gave into the flirting because I imagine him to still look young despite his age because he sounds young. It made me squirt for goodness sake. He sounds like the George Clooney of all Clooneys. Why couldnt he be 27
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I think he's on this post 😂 i didn't even meet him here but there's a guy whos a few years younger than him and theyre saying everything he said last night and they both has the same career. What the actual fuck 😂 Dude if thats you then yes i had a great time last night but i can't do this again. I’ll always cherish the experience but i just can't anymore no matter how much of a sexy construction worker you are
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  • Yes I've done sexual stuffs with this 10+ years older than me bug it was just lust n sexual frustration that made both us do things... we had no feelings n no attraction.. it was pure outta thirst... and it was not one time thing... now now i won't do such thing again i guess.

    I think u should tell him that u do wanna stay as friends with him n sexual talks n phone sex might take place at times but not on asking... if it happens in flow then yea sometimes rarely but not that should be the thought of this bond

    • Yesterday was out of lust but also a mental connection of having lots in common. Im afraid to friendzone him the day after cause he may assume i thought it was bad. It was good but he does this growl that scares me

    • But its not like that... if u friendzone him but also give him some hope of sexual activity online then it wong sound like complete friendzzone... its just having fun within the limits... just on phone n just sometimes only when in flow it leads to that.. thats it... do u mind telling if u sent him your nudes or videos? If yes then id suggest dont "send". Show him other way if u want thag too badly... maybe on videocall or anything

    • No just phone sex. No pics. And i dont want to be sexual anymore. I can't call him daddy. he's already older than my dad 😂

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  • God I'm so much better at every thing now then when I was in my 20s. I wish I had those young women again, things would be so different. I used to just be working to make them cum. No I leave them soaked and dick drunk lol. Not my words. Old guys rule ya know. Younger guys are just practicing to be us.

    • 😂😂😂😂

    • Lol yeah... I'm crying too

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  • I like older men personally. That's like maybe 10yrs older for the most. This is because older men know what they want, they are not out for games and they are straight with u. And best of all they know shit (in bed). I dated a guy 10 years older, great relationship only problems is some are insecure with younger people. A man the knows what he wants is a big turn on for me.

    • I think thats all the things that turned me on about him

  • No offense to younger guys, but many of them don't know wtf they're doing when it comes to sex. Older guys know their way around a woman's body. They know what they want. They know themselves. They're good in bed.

    • I think thats what turned me on about him lol

    • Yeah. There's no shame in it honey. They play smarter, not harder and tend to be less selfish in bed. Just my experience.

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  • Yes. In fact I was in my mid-20s and she was in her mid-60s. It was fantastic.

    She was divorced with two sons about my age. She looked hot and to me she seemed incredibly sophisticated. I think for her it was flattering to have a younger guy be interested in her. As to the sex, with no chance of pregnancy it was pretty uninhibited.

    Of course, there was the time her younger son, who lived away but seemed to come and go from his mom's house pretty much he pleased. He caught his mom and I having sex - both very naked and right in the middle, so to speak. That was a bit awkward. On the whole, though, the sex - and not just the sex - was amazing and we had a great time together.

    That said, it did not last. I knew I wanted a family and I think she grew bored with me. Still, for about 9 months, it was a great experience. So I recommend it - not just ten years though. Make it about the person and your (and the other person's) sexual needs - not about the calendar.

    • I rather make it about age and calendar

    • Well, that is up to you. Too bad though. How limited a life that must be.

  • My partner of 5 years is 14 years older than. If it works, it works. And we work lol

    • Im sure it works. I just dont want it

  • Occasionally I'll do "older" but it's only ever just for sex sake and nothing serious.

    • Yea indont want it to surpass phone sex

  • Lol honestly, there’s no harm in continuing to do what you’re doing with him until mr right comes into your life. I tell you this from my own experience. But if you don’t feel comfortable then don’t do it

    • I kinda want to but we’re both the type to fall easily so i must end it

  • Yes. I’d do it again.

    • Okay :)

  • 10years and 17years older. Both tried to play me for a fool

    • Dang how so?

    • Its too long to go into it, but I clearly piss people off acting like I know stuff then people always feel the need to show me I know nothing at all...

    • Yea that scares me about older dudes and rich dudes too. They want to run stuff

  • Well, I hear women say they don't go after guys that are ten years older. But while I'm not "old", I've had girls in their early 20s, like 21 check me out, flirt with me and then older women hit on me too. I've been told I look young though. I've been told to look like I'm in my late 20s like 27-29 instead of the age I am.

    • Yea he sounds young but i dont wanna do more than flirt

  • Yes, and it was great. One was a friend distant friend and we hit it off. The sex was great for both of us. Others were chance meetings rather than friends already.
    My thoughts on your situation... You are looking for someone to share with who likes you and has some similarities. You are not looking for a permanent relationship at this point. So any guy you are with now will not likely be there forever. So forget the age. If you worry about the age on a person you are enjoying a temporary relationship with (as opposed to a life partner) you are limiting yourself. This guy turns you on big time. So enjoy his company and enjoy the sex. At some point you will move on in your life and will not have been hurt by the experience. In fact, you will have been enriched.

    • Im looking for similar interests and similar age and a permanent longterm relationship

  • I have never seriously gotten involved nor gone on a date with anyone older than me. (Not even someone of the same age.)

  • I’ve dated a girl 18 years older and a girl 5 years younger than me. She hasn’t really been a big factor for me.

    • Ohh ok

  • Last fall I got with an older DILF that I have known for about three years, its more than FWB's but not quite dating.

    If your both enjoying it, and both communicate the same boundaries, why not?

    • I enjoyed it but he said things last night to where i can't tell if he was just talking out of horniness or if he was serious. Like i dont wanna get too attached to him cause i dont want that. But he's already planning for our next time

    • So maybe some boundaries need to be established and respected if you want things to continue. Set a pace. I once accidentally yelled daddy (not part of my normal vocabulary during sex) while 'finishing' and he went totally flaccid and couldn't finish. I felt horrible. Any relationship needs communication, try talking and if he can't, then maybe he's not for you.

    • He told me to call him daddy and i did but i cringed so hard 😂 i dont want it to continue in a sexual way but thats all he's probably about now. he's just too old. Im not comfortable in the long run

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  • I have and i don't see that as a problem

  • My girlfriend is 20 and I'm 30.

    • Oh i see

  • My last boyfriend was years older.

  • Nope, more likely someone younger.

    • Thoughts on my story

    • It sounds like you have a strong connection with him but reading your update you claim to not want to communicate with him again. Is that correct?

    • I wanna stay in touch but not physically

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  • Yeah, one of my professors in college

    • One of my professors used to get at me in the elevator and he looked my age so it turned me on but he turned out to be like 10+ years 🙈 when i found out he was married, i stopped flirting

    • Oof, that's a rough one

  • I have always wanted a sexual relationship with a woman in her 40s or 50s but haven't nailed that yet lol. The closest I got was feeling up a 40 year-old woman in her car once lol.

  • Only a few flings with women on their 30s when I was 18/19.

    • I like your advice. Whats your thoughts on my story since he's your age

    • It's not that surprising, really. I think the fact that he looks younger than his age has something to do with it, plus he probably developed a more masculine vibe as he got older.

    • I don't know but y'all are the same age and the things you both say just do something to me. I think its just my make em cum fetish honestly. Im not that into him

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  • I’ve dated cougars as much as 15 years older when I was younger

    • Can you read my story and share advice pleeease 🙈

    • All I can tell you is if you like his company then stop resisting. You’re limiting yourself

    • Damn why’d that sound so hot 👀 whats wrong with meeeee 😭

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  • I'm 18 and most of the women I fuck currently are over 38, so yeah. All my FWBs are 38 or older and I'm a bull for a lot of married women too, so ez pz.

    • Oh heck no 😂

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