Why is my new boyfriend upset I used to peg my ex?

[Anonymous]

I'd understand if he was into it and I denied him but he says he doesn't want that... I simply don't understand what is his problem. Can anyone help me?

[DragorOnaan]

A lot of guys get upset by anything that they perceive as "gay." He might think you want to peg him or that it's off-putting that you would even do that.

[Asker]

I've never asked him to do it. How is it gay? I'm a woman...

[DragorOnaan]

It's not. Some guys are just convinced that anything up the butt is gay.

[Asker]

But he wasn't involved at all...

[jirwin7979]

he may not like that you did that with ur ex or he feels like you won't like him if he dont do it... i wish i could find a girl to try it with

[MangoB83]

He’s either jealous that you and your ex had that close of a connection or he’s intimidated that you could be really dominant like that. That’s good that you’re not pressuring him into pegging. He may be insecure especially if you have the same “equipment” you used with your ex.

[Only1day]

Because he sees you dominant now

[Asker]

And that's a problem?

[B0CKSCAR]

It seems like it might be for him.

[Asker]

@B0CKSCAR He already knows that I'm very dominant and sadistic. I don't understand why he's making such a big deal for this while he'd like to try golden showers (which I think is way more humiliating in itself).

[B0CKSCAR]

I don't know, that's a tough call, I'm not sure which would be more so though. I bet it would be pretty close if we polled it. Ha pun intended. But I bet more women then men would think water sports were more humiliating, and the opposite for a guy getting pegged.

[Anonymous]

I'd have enjoyed being your boyfriend instead of being upset about it

[Anonymous]

Has he ever asked you for anal

[Asker]

No, he says he would be fine doing it to women but not the other way around.

[Opinion Owner]

Some guys are just like that they see it as a loss of power

[Asker]

Yeah... But why does it upset him? I've never done it to hom

[Opinion Owner]

Could just be his own thoughs on it as being "wrong" i know a few guys like that

[Asker]

So he just think it's wrong?

[Opinion Owner]

He may jist think that its something guys can do to girls just not the other way around its against the nature of sex