Boyfriend won’t eat pussy?

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We finally had that talk and he said he “just can’t do it”. I suck his dick all the time and enjoy doing it. After the refused to eat my pussy I stopped sucking his dick and he didn’t mind. He accepted it and wasn’t being selfish or immature about it. He grabbed me and hugged me and said “he’ll make it up to me”. I then told him I wanted to “end things” and he got extremely upset and his eyes started testing up and he refused to break up. At this point I gotta think about whether it’s something I can live with going forward since he has said he will NOT do it. Do you think it’s a valid reason to break up with someone? Is he being selfish? I don’t know what to think because what we have is real but he just won’t go down on me?
Now before anyone says that I’m not clean down there. He said it’s not about me but it’s something he has never done and doesn’t feel comfortable doing. Your take?

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

It depends on how important it is to you. I'm not a fan either but on that rare occasion when I do do it, the thing she can do to maximize the odds of a repeat performance is lots of real time feedback showing me how much she's enjoying it and lots of appreciation afterward. As for your stopping something you enjoy, that strikes me as pretty spiteful.

markscott · Accepted Answer

You simply have to decide how important having a guy go down on you is. If it's very important to you, and will be a continuing problem, then end the relationship. It may be that he is being selfish, not trying something new, that you like. Or he may have a real aversion to going down. Most likely it's being selfish, but not necessarily so.

northerngal · Accepted Answer

This is tough. But sex in a relationship is important to me. I love receiving oral and have rarely met men who are not happy to lift my dress... not that they all are good at it but at least they try. I think eventually this would be toxic for me and I would end the relationship. Yes I am selfish... but he is also being selfish.

HedwigInABox · Answer

I'd move on. Live is to short to have an unsatisfying sex life.

ushagomez · Answer

Time to trade him in for a more normal version.

ecfresh · Answer

Valid deal breaker, move on

LiamSawyer · Answer

He doesn't have a clue what he's missing out on. It's auger turn on to eat hot, wet pussy. Using the tongue to slide the clit hood back and forth on her fully aroused, erect clit and hearing those gasps, moans and groans of pleasure escaping her lips is such a pleasure.

Shiver · Answer

Yeah, break it up. There's always tons of guys who will eat you out. How the hell did he plan to "make it up to you" anyway?

Ripper_E · Answer

So he doesn't feel comfortable doing it and understands that you don't want to do it if he won't reciprocate, but you consider leaving him for that?
You are the selfish one, petty and shallow. It's ridiculous to lose someone over oral.

brigfrey25 · Answer

Is he gay? 🤔😅✌️

Nessygurl · Answer

I have one word for him, bye 👋

Makeushiver · Answer

I love it and have eaten do many pussies. If be happy to eat yours if boyfriend won't co-operate. I love getting my face tuckered by a 30oman who's really horny

moststrangestguy · Answer

100 guys happy to eat you out you find a decent bloke and your gonna break up over that serious fuck you he deserves someone better then you

Pejtu · Answer

I dunno what the fuck is wrong with him 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ But i personally love eating pussy untill The girl is shaking left and right  I guess u need a real talk with him

bangyourhead · Answer

I've broken up with a chick because she wanted to borrow a cassette tape and I didn't want to loan it to her because I knew I'd never get it back.

Steve-ram · Answer

What will you tell your friends after broke up? Oh we broke up he wasn't licking my pussy! That's why we left! Be smart, try to encourage him to lick it if that so important for you! Clean it and drop some chocolate on it did you try that?

Hogoblin_of_Venice · Answer

Why does every thing have to be 50/50, maybe he doesn't do that but maybe he fixes the lawn mower.

Trooper205 · Answer

He should at least take a "no thank you bite". That's what we called it at home... eating something just for the sake of trying it, even if we know we won't. As ironic as it sounds, He should stop being such a pussy, and taste your pussy! He should AT LEAST lick once! Who knows? He might fall in love!

Steve37 · Answer

Sexual compatibility is extremely important for a relationship to last. You don't want to spend the rest of your life sexually frustrated.

Sambo22685 · Answer

Stop sucking his dick untill he starts pleasing you to.

Twalli · Answer

Do you have sex? Will he finger you? If the only thing you lack is oral sex I would stay with him. Maybe try to understand why he doesn't like oral and see if you can work past it, but if he's good for you emotionally and sexually (sans oral) I would stay with him.

YHL6965 · Answer

Wait, you want to break up over that? He might just need time if you keep insisting, if you are kind and understandable with him. I don't think it's a matter of being selfish, I think something "blocks him" with that specific task. Try to talk it out with me, find out together what blocks him and maybe, with time, he might give it a try eventually.

DanOh2018 · Answer

If he won't respect and meet your needs you don't need to stick around. Lot's of men like eating pussy, if you're sucking his dick then it's only fair that he eat you out.

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