How would you react if someone the same sex as you hit on you / asked you out?

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Or if you're gay/lesbian how would you react if someone the opposite sex hit on you?

broken_heart_at_48 · Accepted Answer

Gay guys have flirted with me and as long as they keep their hands to themselves they're fine but I definitely let them know I don't get down like that. I've also had a couple lesbian's hit on me one came at me extremely aggressively but she was a homey so it wasn't gonna happen. Also had a lesbian hit on me pretty hard and she was a homegirl and pretty hot so we fooled around she even gave me head and said I was the only guy she ever messed with but we only fooled around that one time and we stayed really good friends for a long time.

XavierSteele · Accepted Answer

Tell them politely, at first, I don't swing that way baby.  If they are persitant I give them to 10 and let loose, I hate pushy people.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

I go to lesbian clubs with other bi/lesbian girlfriends in the San Francisco Bay Area, but not to pick up, or get picked up, but I still get hit on by other bi/lesbian girls.

I will make friends with them but noting more.

The feminine more submissive types I really like, but the ones hitting the most are the aggressive butch lesbians which is a definite turn off to me.

collegestudent96 · Accepted Answer

I'd thank them for the compliment and let them know it's appreciated. But let them know you're straight.

CapricornHoney · Answer

I’d politely decline and move on with life.

raverae · Answer

I'm bisexual, but im always taken aback when someone hits on me.  I was bullied a lot and so it takes me a few seconds to decide if they are doing it to be mean or if its genuine.

summiter · Answer

I have no issues with gays or lesbians... but I would politely tell them I'm flattered but I'm straight and leave it at that.

markscott · Answer

I'd tell them I'm straight, and not interested.

Remarkably_Plain · Answer

It depends on the person.

R4vedave · Answer

I'd be flattered

Agape93 · Answer

Depends on who it is

reptocarl · Answer

I say no I’m not a fag

BellaBlake · Answer

I’d feel flattered 😆

boombastik · Answer

I've been hit on a few times lol. My mom was the manager at a flower shop. Only gay guys and women worked there and they seem to be pretty straightforward but I just tell them I don't get down like that. I'm very secure in my manhood. I think only men who are intimidated or insecure about who they are get offended. Hey I appreciate the compliment but I can't help you... Lol

MackToday · Answer

I'd be disgusted and repulsed. That would be creepy af. This is why we need to get this sick shit out of our society. It isn't normal it's a birth defect. We need to start doing the research to treat and prevent this garbage. Protect the public.