How would you react if your spouse wanted to invite over the neighbors to watch you “get busy”?

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Its another odd fantasy I’ve always been into. I dont want to do it often but once married, maybe once a month, I’d like to invite over a trusty pair of neighbors to watch us have sex. I totally want them to masturbate to us having sex and then I want us to do the same as they have sex. I see it as a hot version of live porn but i have two fears... #1 I would fear my spouse would consider doing someone else instead of just me. I dont want them to begin an affair. #2 I fear the couples will have to be swingers or cucks. I’m not into that. I’m not trying to screw anyone outside of my spouse and I dont want my spouse screwing anyone else either. Guess thats why this is just another fantasy 🤷‍♀️ But what about you? How would you react?
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IamStag · Accepted Answer

with my wife, we had a long discussion about the same fantasies. we talked to many couples who would be interested only watching and showing without swapping, some would go to soft touches between girls. make sure to be very clear about what you would be ok and what are your limits. every couple has a different way to approach topics like that, but honesty and trust leads to remarkable relationships.

KittyMilk · Accepted Answer

I remember one time I was smashing in Applebees parking lot some Indian guy saw us he parked next to us, I looked at him and started beating on that kitty harder, broad day light it was funny on how close he was trying to park, but my nut and left

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Even though swingers usually swap partners there are some who like you only want to fuck your partner and let others watch. So you could get involved in a swingers organization and only have sex with your guy and others would be happy to just watch and you would also be able to watch other fuck as well.

CHARismatic110 · Accepted Answer

Nah, I'm def the watcher. Voyueristic tendencies 😂😂😂

HugoThe2nd · Answer

I know, old question.
But have you tried telephone as maybe the low-stakes variant to start with?
Or would that not suffice due to the lack of being able to watch the other party?

I once had sex while my partner was on the phone with her friend, she spilled the beans about what she was doing and then asked if her friend wants to keep listening.
We ended up taking turns being on the phone so she could hear both of us and masturbate.

aarnasen · Answer

Call me old fashioned lol but I personally don't want anyone watching us getting busy, and yeah definitely not our neighbors 🤣 I do find the "lets hope we don't get caught" scenario really fun because there's that excitement of what if in public.

cheapshotbob · Answer

i would be with the duck on option D and just look for some bread...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Inviting other people into your bedroom has the potential to start you going down a slippery slope. I really don't need that level of kink to feel sexually satisfied.

Red_Arrow · Answer

I think I would enjoy having se with my partner with another couple or two having sex nearby. They could watch us and we could watch them. Definitely spice up the fun!

spartan55 · Answer

There are couples in the Lifestyle who do just voyeurism. Or, so I've heard. 😁

Aethereal · Answer

That's a big NO from me. Sex to me is a very intimate thing/moment between my partner and I. Getting caught, or having others involved in some way would cheapen the experience (in my opinion).

TremorJay · Answer

The duck meme 😂😂😂

Glenn603 · Answer

I’m single so obviously not an option. But I have had sex a few times with people watching me and I love it. It turned me on so much that other people are turned on watching me. It feels so naughty as well.

Account2 · Answer

Ohh no I didn't even think about that. I might be asexual now. That's great.. Either E or F.

Jjpayne · Answer

That seems interesting... Maybe a couple thinking about new ideas...

Ellie-V · Answer

Being watched would be alright. But I refuse to watch others and I don’t want them to masturbate cuz... eww

Dongtai · Answer

Not my thing. There wouldn’t be a debate. But it’s probably something (hopefully) I’d know she’s into before marriage. I just wouldn’t marry that type of woman. I don’t like to share my sex life

ghostqueen · Answer

I hate cuck shit.

Hans222 · Answer

For me E... that's really private. Imagine you're enjoying each other and someone makes a silly remark :-( No thanks, I'll lock the door. Will call you when we're ready :D

Joey_007 · Answer

E. I prefer it one on one, I'm mad basic and like... I think in relationships it's better when nobody else is involved because more often than not you find people trying to get the appearance of a great relationship instead of pursuing the experience of one. Does that make sense?

foxrider77 · Answer

Just be a peach and grab the lube for me Chris. Oh Megan how is Mattie doing with soccer, I forgot to tell you think I left some of my toys over at your place last time I was at your place.