How many of you think you can go without sex and not get sexually frustrated?

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Sarahr123 Yoda
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I’m a 21-year-old virgin. Been with my boyfriend for six years but we don’t have sex and I never get “sexually frustrated.” However I have been masturbating since I was like five without knowing. I used to first do kegels without knowing what they were and it led to orgasms and then I started playing with my clitoris. Whenever I am horny then I just use my fingers and watch porn. I am kind of scared to lose my virginity because it’s really tight and I have a very thick hymen so it will probably hurt and bleed like a bitch.
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- Asker
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  So you are both content with masturbation then? It also shows you don't need sex to connect with your partner right?
- Sarahr123
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  Yes, we are both content with masturbation. Actually he has much better control than me and doesn’t even have a wank that often. Yes, we have a very strong emotional connection and we love each other so much and what I find so beautiful about our union is that we love each other so much it has nothing to do with lust, it is pure. When we do have sex it will be so special. You definitely don’t need to have sex to have a connection with someone because we are connected for lifetimes and we have never had sex. I think the fact that our bond is so pure actually makes the love stronger.
- Asker
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  Thanks for your honesty. Most people need sex for a connection but I like your opinion. What do you think about this article?
  
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- Sarahr123
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  Yes it’s true. Especially the points where it says that you can have sex with anyone. Lots of people have one night stands and casual sex and they don’t give a damn about the people they have sex with. They can switch off from them instantly. It hurts more when you know your partner has an emotional connection with somebody else and is emotionally cheating on you and hasn’t even had sex with that person because that person is that special to them. Sexual desire is a selfish thing, and yes it can be passionate and romantic if it’s at the right time and the right place and with the right person but it’s not a requirement and it doesn’t directly have anything to do with love or emotions otherwise people would fall in love with a one night stand. And yeah when you think about your most cherished memories you think about the beautiful moments you shared not the sexual things that you do with someone. I think about the first time I met my boyfriend, the first time we hugged (we took it veeeery slow), I think about the time he gave me a kiss on the forehead under the stars in the park when the streets were filled with Christmas lights, the first time he said “I love you,” and our very many late night phone calls where we would speak on the phone for hours about life and the future and fall asleep on the phone. I think about the things I loved about him when I first saw him because we fell in love at first sight and I think about how we have been through hell and back and we’re still together stronger than ever. I think about how loyal he is to me and that I am so fortunate to have met a young man in this day and age who loves me and doesn’t just want to use me for my body, somebody who has stuck by me through everything and respects me so much that he wants me to wait until I am ready and preferably after we are married. That kind of love is rare and it’s even more rare in the time that we live in.
ChloeStarlight Guru
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I can since I’m still a virgin
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FatherJack Guru
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I have for years , and no longer care / get frustrated , single FT working dad , so that = celibacy , whether I liked it or not. My Male Curse has greatly faded and good fucking riddance !! Much more of a problem for younger males , most women could happily be celibate... this is according to most of my female friends anyway.
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JamesBlackDragon Xper 7
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I can went about 10 years
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BlondeGoneWild Guru
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I’d have trouble going a day
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- Sorryinadvance1
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  Does maturation help or do u need a partner to relieve the itch?
- BlondeGoneWild
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  It helps to an extent, but I definitely prefer a partner. Luckily I have a lot of those 😜
- Sorryinadvance1
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  Oh ok I was just curious. My girlfriend the same way but I'm her only partner. She will masterbaith and she sayes it helps but it doesn't fully relieve it