I am terrified about his size?

[sara4you]

We had been dating for a few months and I feel it's time to give me free pass to have sex. I only had oral with him and I can barely fit half of it in my mouth. He is a big guy and his penis is enormous. I get terrified thinking about him entering my vagina.

I can barely put a finger inside my vagina and the thought of him putting his penis inside it terrifies me.

[HeyMikie]

I've known many women who have had this experience. Some have been able to make it work with much time and patience. But the majority of the women that I have known who have had this happen have moved on. It is often said that a woman's vagina can stretch enough to pass a baby and so should be able to stretch to accommodate any size penis. This argument ignores the fact the childbirth is painful. I've know sexually experienced women who have experienced extreme pain and bleeding after trying to have sex with a man with a large penis. Even when they went slow and easy. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try. Start out very slow and don't expect full penetration on the first few tries. He will have to learn to go slow every time you have sex and also restrict how deep he thrusts. And don't take it as a personal failure if you can't make it work. Not every woman can comfortably handle a large penis.

[Berethor]

You are terrified about his size and yet you was going for the biggest guy around? don't pretend that you didn't deliberately go for a tall guy with enormous cock. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/WomenPreferStrongMen

[erandal]

You have to tell him what worries you and to take it slowly. Just remember that it is designed to have a baby come out of it so it can stretch a lot and easily accommodate most sizes of penis, even large ones. If you are worried maybe try a large dildo first. that way you decide the speed. There is also the cucumber option too...

[Duckysback]

Well that’s Thor Bjornsoon. So I guess that makes you Kelsey Henson then huh?

[sara4you]

That's just a pic to illustrate

[Duckysback]

Fair enough, just go slow. Your body is capable of passing a human head, pretty sure his dick isn’t that big.

[sara4you]

I will ask him

[summiter]

Talk about your concern ahead of time. If you decide to try use tons of lube and you get and stay on top. That way you (not him) can control the depth and speed of entry.

[sara4you]

Thanks. But he is never gentle while fucking my mouth. I am sure he won't be gentle when fucking my puss.

[summiter]

If he can't be gentle then it may be time to move on to a guy who is gentle. You deserve some great orgasms... not just the guy. If he can't learn how to please you dump him.

[sara4you]

Ok. Ok

[markscott]

If he won't stop even if you scream in pain, then don't have sex with him. That could be very damaging to you.

[sara4you]

How damaging?

[markscott]

sara4you. Potentially, he could tear your vaginal lining and do other damage. Not just because he is so big, but also because, if you should get anxious, say about his size fitting, your vaginal muscles could tighten, and make it very difficult for him to enter, and if he kept pushing, he could tear you tissues, including you vaginal wall, and you would need to go to the hospital for stitches, at least. I'm not predicting that this will happen, only that a guy should have enough control, that if your say stop, it hurts, that he stops almost immediately. I'm a guy, and I can tell you, once I start sliding in, I don't want to stop. I really so much want to keep thrusting in and out. Almost every guy is like this. But a guy has a responsibility for the safety and care of his girl, and is she is having pain, and she needs him to stop, then he needs to stop. Just plain stop, no fooling around, and pull it out. Otherwise he could harm you. Understand, I'm not talking about common tightness for a virgin, but if your vaginal muscles tighten and spasm. That can happen if you are anxious.

[sara4you]

Thanks for this science article. I guess I am better off visiting a doc with the boyfriend to clear my doubts.

[sara4you]

You just scared me. What you mentioned happens to children brides in some Asian countries. And it's really disturbing.

[markscott]

sara4you: I'm glad you are seeing a doctor, to be safe.

[sara4you]

Coz I don't wanna die like other Asian teen brides who die on first night. I would rather Consult a doctor. I guess it's just my fear. My boyfriend has a wife and she seems to be fucking with him every now and then

[wmasters]

That monster's gonna kill you 🤣🤣

[sara4you]

😂😂😂😂

[sara4you]

The pic is from Google. It's just to illustrate

[wmasters]

Lol oh bet. Y'all just gotta go realllll slow

[sara4you]

I don't think he will be slow. He is always horny

[Dongtai]

Use lots of lube and just go slow. It all doesn’t have to go in at once. You guys can work your way up over a few weeks. It’s meant to stretch. Don’t write him off completely without even trying, otherwise he deserves someone who will

[Darius_Kel]

Listen, a vagina can pass a baby through it. You'll be fine

[sara4you]

Thanks

[Dargil]

Working in an answer. One question (2 parts).
Have you had sex before and approximately how big was he?

[sara4you]

No. Never

[Dargil]

Then you have a way to go before you can consider intercourse with him. The best thing you can so is work your way up to an... accessible... size. This little girl (age 30) is 4'5", weighs 86 pounds and is "on record" receiving guys like Dave Bautista.

So you can too, if you work up to it. If you are starting from scratch, you might work your way through these convenient household items that hide in plain sight.
Beginner:

Intermediate:

Master:

Always use plenty of lube. If you graduate to Master, you should be ready.

[sara4you]

Thanks

[reptocarl]

Why won’t he stop?

[Shiver]

It'll fit, just make him go slow so you get used to it. Mine is big too, being gentle and taking it slow definitely helps. Clear communication is also important.

[BagoH]

Finger yourself untill you're loose enough for a dick.

[sara4you]

Ok..

[BagoH]

I mean lol you don't wanna be tortured by that dick right? So get ready, get it loosened up and it's gonna take days or weeks too.

[brigfrey25]

😏😏😏

[pigoat]

Don't forget to post a video

I'm curious to see how you 2 having sex will play out

Keep me updated

[I-C3_ME]

Are u ok? Like this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship but if u your looking for a away to not get hurt... like u said "once i let him in" so don't let him in. Other then that use lube or even a sex therapist. Hope this helps

[lookin64]

Read some of the posts and they mention that a human head passes through, yet remember those bones that make up the skull are not as of fused together at birth, and the baby will be proportional to the size of the carrier.
If its as you say in your posts, you are more than likely to be hurt and even damaged. Better to be very cautious and concerned as you are.

[Rangers]

I would answer, but I'm jealous of your relationship, lol. I'll put it aside and say take it one step at a time

[poneglyphs]

Omg use lots of lube make sure to be wet when you're having sex

[COMMODOREII]

You do know that those people are married right? I follow them on instagram.

[Shamalien]

he's gunna absolutely wrek that puss so better be sure ur gunna be together for life cause if he leaves u, no one will ever be able to please u again

[Twalli]

It will probably hurt because it's your first time, but if a vagina can squeeze out a baby his penis can fit

[manofstyle]

If he can't fit inside you properly the relationship is not going to work out. He'll never be happy with a sexless relationship and you will be in terrible pain with a sexual relationship

[Therisinghero12]

Sorry but this is hilarious xD
That aside just try to take things slow and communicate well, you'll be fine.