Is this dude a horrible boyfriend for hitting her?

Shawn is 34 years old. His girlfriend Angelica is 31. One day while in bed Shawn asked her to finger him and play with his asshole. She called him disgusting, called him gay, made a few gay jokes and Shawn hit her in the face and made her leave. She left with a bruise and he started sobbing as soon as he was alone.
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  • I think... you need to add a disclaimer to all your questions: "Note: Hypothetical situation".

    Otherwise... you sound like the kind of girl who would like... have a lot of dolls... with pins stuck in their eyes hanging from the ceiling in your bedroom.

    You know the "type" I mean? Yea... you should add a disclaimer.

    But yes this dude is horrible for hitting her.

    • i am for now on. ;p



    • Hailey had her first abortion at 16, then at 17 she got pregnant again and planned on getting another abortion but her friend told her how horrible she was and wrong it is to have two, so she canceled the abortion appointment and had Jerry. This is basiclly how she treated him as a child once he started to talk and crawl.

      Is this child abuse? ↗

    • The abortion one... be careful with that. That's going to hit a nerve for a lot of people. Whether for personal reasons, or reasons of principle. Careful with that topic. Hypothetical or not... you're best to avoid asking questions like that publically. You're gonna end up leaving someone hurt without meaning to :)

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  • He was wrong to hit her but she was not only wrong but completely misinformed in what she said to him. Do you know if they ever engaged in rough sex where he slapped her with her consent?

    • he punched her in the face. lol

    • no, i don't

    • Punching her is never okay unless she specifically asked and he knows she wants it and can take it, like in a kick boxer.

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  • 1st off no guy should hit a woman unless she full on hits him like a man. 2nd she shouldn't be putting him down like that if they're in a relationship and 3rd off it's still not OK to hit a woman

    • If the roles were reversed would you be saying "It's still not okay to hit a man" I doubt it

    • @Nachowedgie what do you think of Shawn

    • @Dog20 I wasn't talking to you, I would've left an opinion of my own if I was

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  • Ya she needs to move on from him

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  • He physically assaulted her, and that is partner abuse, and something he could be jailed for. The bruise would have been all the proof the police would have needed. He is very lucky she did not call the police and ask for him to be arrested.

  • Yes. No excuses.

  • Hmm lets see, bruses will heal, words she said and how they made him feel might not be ever forgotten. Non of them is right, each of them used weapons of there own choice, one makes scars that will heal, an other makes invisible scars that might never heal.

    Im better getting beated up, than emotialy abused where it hurts. Have no idea how its is for woman.

  • sounds like a wonderful relationship

  • Weird question in which everyone is aweful.

  • If it's ok for girls to slap him for insulting her than it ok for him to do it too

    • Lol why do you think no girls are responding

  • Shawn was wrong to hit Angelica; he should know better. Angelica is not a girlfriend; she's a b! tch. Period.

  • I wouldn't say horrible but she should probably leave him if he hit her once he might do it again you

  • They're both pieces of shits. He needs to have his hands chopped off with a butchers knife and she needs to have to tongue cut out of her mouth and vocal cords cut out of her throat. People should never hit anyone else and nobody should make fun or belittle anybody else based on their sexual preferences. Treat others how you want to be treated.

  • She was definitely wrong for saying those things to him, very rude. But violence is never the answer.

  • Neither gender should hit each other

    Of course, I once overheard an elder lady at the social security office, saying that if her grandchildren ever talked to her the way trump talks to women, she'd slap them

    Yes, trump supporters, that's how much trump is a fucking dipshit