Girls which one would you seek first from a guy? Sexual connection or emotional connection?

[Anonymous]

Which one do you seek out? What do you want first?

[KaraMcNulty]

I think it starts with attraction, because looks attract, but, I don't like to rush straight into sex. It's important for me to have a connection to someone and for the person to have a good personality. Looks are nice, of course, but, you could be the hottest guy on the planet and have the worst personality. So, it's nice to get to know someone and make sure he's not a dickhead before you fall head over heels for him. I've met a lot of narcissists, it only ends up in tears. Don't do that to yourself.

[existing_not_living]

Unintentionally - sexual connection. I'm a flirt and if I'm flirting with someone I'm attracted to it can get a little sexual I guess. But eventually that turns into me wanting to get to know them and figure out if we're compatible in places other than just lusting for one another.

[Asker]

if it was just lust would you hook up or move on?

[existing_not_living]

I would probably hook up.

[TheMendini]

In my experience, girls like to have an emotional connection to lead up to being comfortable for sex. Then if there’s a sexual connection, it strengthens the emotional connection

[ecfresh]

Gotta start with an emotional connection. Need to build some trust initially. Without trust the fear is the hit it and quit it

[CapricornHoney]

Emotional connection. While the sexual connection might be there first, I won’t act on it until I form that emotional connection.

[Asker]

Some girls get emotional connection but don't feel sexual connection but still stick with the guy and some times they cheat on them. Why is that?

[CapricornHoney]

I’m assume they cheat because the sexual connection is not being fulfilled but the emotional connection is.

[Asker]

what i'm wondering why do some women would be with a guy if there aren't any sexual connection but just emotional one? Do women crave to fulfill emotional needs more than sexual ones?

[CapricornHoney]

Well no, women do have sexual needs too. To answer the question I’m not sure why some people do this. I would never do it and can’t understand why someone would so it’s hard to answer. Maybe they just want to be with someone who’s safe.

[pinky_kitty]

emotional connection..

[Asker]

don't you care sexual connection?

[pinky_kitty]

i care but not that much like we not gonna have sex all the time 24/7.. must be feelings even in sex so...

[Asker]

What if you come across to someone you connected emotionally very well but not so much sexually?

[pinky_kitty]

not a problem,, we'll find a way to get it work

[Asker]

i don't think so. If you can't feel sexual attraction you never will.

[pinky_kitty]

trust me happend before and we found a way...

[Emily_R]

Honestly both but it starts with a sexual connection.

[WhiteShoulder]

Emotional. I don’t hook up anymore. That being said, if there’s no sexual spark we’re just gonna be friends.

[Asker]

Let's say you emotionally connected so well, he loves and cares about you and he is average looking and even taller than you. Would you think to be friend or have relationship?

[WhiteShoulder]

I don't know. Is there a sexual spark?

[Asker]

let's say no not much.

[WhiteShoulder]

Then just friends

[Asker]

I see good choice. Some women go for emotional connection and have relationship and even get married with guys that they have no or little sexual attraction but they are good match personally and emotionally. Why is that?

[Anonymous]

Both of these have to be present for a romantic relationship to happen. Connection based on personality is friendship, not romantic connection.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what I want from the guy. If I just want to bang, sexual connection. If I like the guy and want more, I’m looking for an emotional connection first

[Asker]

Let's say you are single and don't feel horny that much what would you seek out?

[Anonymous]

For now, sexual connection. But that might change in the future.

[Asker]

do you hook up around?

[Opinion Owner]

Around?

[Asker]

I mean do you have a lot of casual sex currently in your life?

[Opinion Owner]

Not too much, but I don't want a relationship.

[Asker]

I understand but why?

[Anonymous]

I voted a

[Asker]

Bravo do you want cooky? :D

[Opinion Owner]

Yupe