Is it normal to watch porn without masturbating while in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[BruinBlue2]

Yea, I’d think it is totally normal. I just started a relationship with a girl I’m head over heels for and since then (about a month ago) I haven’t really felt much pull (pun intended) to look at porn. We don’t live very close (couple hundred miles away) and see each other 3 out of 4 weekends and I just wait to be with her. Porn is good as a substitute when single (tho be aware it can lead to feeling less imperative to seek out a new partner, and love is WORTH it so be careful it doesn’t sidetrack you!) but now I’m fully invested in being turned on by her. So I don’t really feel the desire to watch other women or acts. I just think back on what we have done and what I want to do with her the next time we’re together. I would think this is a fairly common position for men

[Anonymous]

When it comes to sex, it's next to impossible to define what's normal or out of norm. What might get some people off doesn't work for another group.
So watching porn while in a relationship is not unusual, not at all, if you ask me.
However, it would be extremely unusual for me not to get turned on and masturbate, and I'm fairly sure I can say the same about my partner. Although she nearly never watched porn and if she does, it's with me and we don't end up masturbating then.
So the bottom line, each to their own

[SueShe]

To me, watching porn while being in a relation and without the knowledge, approval and consent of the other party is the first stage of cheating.

Mental cheating is just as bad as physical cheating because by watching those perverted clips you imagine yourself being in that situation that the visual depicts and that is nothing else but cheating on your partner since in most cases the depiction is not involving your partner.

That is a toxic relation and a total red flag.

[hammo21]

No it's not Normal

[holidaze]

I remember watching a porn with my girl, it was Tori Welles, "Night Trips", there was a scene that came on, as my girl was giving me a handjob, where Victoria Paris (White, big boobs) was getting it on with Ray Victory (Black, awesome penis), and at that point I lost a;ll control and shot cum everywhere, including my face. She responded with "well, I guess interracial is a aspect that does it for you". hard to argue that that was untrue.

[Adrian2306]

is not normal to watch porn without rubbing one out

[Iron_Man]

I dont know

[TotallyAlmost]

I can't imagine why anyone would watch porn without cumming. How frustrating.

[Lunatic1]

Maybe, it depends on why you are watching it. Your man may appreciate it if you learn some new tricks. 😉

[callymoore]

Very normal yeah

[Anonymous]

"Normal" meaning are you alone? No, I'm sure there are lots of people. But I guess this depends on the circumstances and your relationship. Why are you doing it? Bored? Just like to watch (fetish)? Sex not good or enough?

I personally see nothing wrong with watching porn, for either guy or girl. It doesn't necessarily "mean" anything. I think people often take this too personally as it "means" something, often it doesn't. Especially for guys. It's a visual aid, nothing more.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know how u can watch that and not get turned on and start playing. Lol.

[Anonymous]

You must have a dull sex life if you feel the need to watch porn while in a relationship.