Is it normal for a guy to cum a lot quicker without a condom than with?

[Anonymous]

I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been dating for about three months and up until recently we've only had sex with condoms. I recently started birth control so we did it for the first time without one. Usually he'd last 20-30 minutes during sex but the first time without a condom he lasted less than 5 minutes. We did it one more time later that night and he lasted about the same time. He was not a virgin before me and he's told he's had sex without a condom before so it's not like he's never felt before, is this normal? Should he start to last longer as we do it more?

[Anonymous]

Yes. But this should also improve over time. The more and more comfortable he is with you and the sex. Have it often. And go for round 2. He can give you oral for example while he recoups. The more relaxed he becomes, the longer he'll last. You can also practice the start and stop technique with him (requires communication). Also try spending time naked together even (if possible), without sex, just being naked together while watching a movie for example. Get used to it and comfortable with each other. But this should get better as time goes on.

[Kkaos]

That's a big difference. I wonder what condoms he's using and whether the fit is good because they must really be limiting his feeling if the difference is that big.

As for climaxing quickly, it's just about self control. If he senses he's going to cum too early, he needs to slow down or even pull out if he has to.

[katiesmuff]

Same fucking question you asked couple of days ago Troll

[AustinMan]

Yes. Condoms significantly diminish sensations.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Yes its normal, condoms do make you feel less, even the super thin extra sensitive ones.

And he probably will last longer as you do it more often.

[wankiam]

its quite usual as condoms have a numbing effect. i dont mean literally but they dont feel half as good as sex without. having said that you still need to stay safe and besides, stamina is often a good thing

[razzamatazzp01]

Yeah, he's probably super excited to do it without a condom, especially if he's cuming in you.. if you let him do it more, he probably will last longer he needs to get used to it.

[Kabluie]

Yeah, over time he should be able to have stamina to not cum so fast without a condom. It's more intense the first time but it may have been a long time since he's experienced it?

[BadAnswers]

he should last longer when you do it more , and clearly its normal , U dont know the feeling of a pussy without condom , best feeling in the world

[Shamalien]

Yipp

[Twalli]

Condomless sex is much more intense. It m. j takes sense that more sensation will make it easier to cum quickly. He may last longer once his penis is more used to being inside of you without a condom

[KrakenAttackin]

Hell yes. A condom cuts a man's pleasure by about 75 percent. Sex is so much better without a condom.

[Anonymous]

You know how they say that condoms do not diminish the male's pleasure? They lie. Of course they do. That said, he'll get used to it and be able to control it better-but yeah, it feels THAT much better! I Hate condoms-I know they are necessary in some situations-but I hate them!