Have you ever gotten sexual with someone who was just a friend?

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Can include masturbating together and messing around as well as actual sex. Does NOT include random hookups or someone you’re friends with solely because you like how he plays with your kitty. (Hypothetically speaking, of course.)

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Yup - and the weird part is that I cannot even really explain how it happened. It just sort of did.

We started just by being friendly. We were both movie fans and we would go over to each other's house and watch a movie that we picked. It really was nothing more than that. We would lay on the floor and watch the movie and that it would be it.

Then one night, somehow - and I really mean that, I don't even know who started it - we began to make out. It went further and further and off came the clothes and we had sex.

Then after that, movie night became sex night. Such that it got to the point that where she would come over and we would have sex.

This went on for about four months and then we had a pregnancy scare. False alarm. Then a second pregnancy scare. We even talked about having a baby together but that seemed - - - - off somehow. We were friends and not in love, we said.

So the second pregnancy scare turned out to be a false alarm. We still talked about having a baby together and then we just - stopped. Everything just sort of reverted back to movie nights until I moved away to Washington DC.

Really odd, but there it is. We lost touch and I have since - long story short - met a gal. We live together and have three children and I am totally in love. Still, I wonder about my friend and I think about what happened.

Odd, I admit, but there it is.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

I was a senior high school and not in a relationship. I had a gal pal and we used joke and talk trashy about sex like two guys would. To be honest, I thought she was a Lesbian because she liked to talk about lady parts, not dicks. I'm really not sure she wasn't. But the topic got around to fingering. I said I was pretty good at it and she said "you may think so, but you'd never make ME cum." I said "maybe not... perhaps I'm not your type", hinting that would be a girl. She said "A vagina is a vagina. You've been called out". So found time and opportunity and I gave her this, which I had already "polished" with an ex.
Four-fingering. Turning foreplay into the main event.
If she didn't exactly cum (couldn't tell), she sure liked it.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

I had a male black friend who we used to work together... and once a month we'd meet up to have dinner together... he had a girlfriend and I had dates at the time this was when I was 20-21... we came back from dinner and I invited him into my small apartment to watch a movie... so i'm sitting there in my miniskirt on the couch I notice him looking at my legs... so I jokingly say you want to touch them he answers if you don't mind... so I do the same to him then wonder my hands up to his crotch and feel his cock is rock hard for me... so I ask him would you like a blowjob? he answers i'd love a blowjob... so I undo his shoes put them on my thigh to untie them dirty and all undo his belt and pull down his underwear and see his big black cock... so I kiss lick it and suck it until he cums heavily into my mouth... it was my 1st black cock I sucked... and I say to him don't worry it's okay... meaning we're still friends and all... needless to say we met for more dinners and a blowjob at my place for at least a year... I did lose touch with him but we had that deal for awhile... I guess he was very happy just receiving blowjobs and never pushed for anything else which was perfect for me but we were just friends for awhile... but that 1st night I could almost feel his mind telling me to give him a blowjob and it was beautiful to me.

erandal · Accepted Answer

I had genuinely completely forgotten about my first sexual experience until now. I think it was about 17 at the time, maybe 16, he had been a friend for many years, we were out walking on an abandoned railway one day when I had to 'go behind a bush', he asked to watch having never seen a girl pee before. We were literally the best friends ever and I let him. I then wanted to see him pee (probably my first ever look at a real penis). I don't remember anything else too clearly, I am pretty sure I tried to give him a BJ or a hand job and he then tried to have anal sex with me but I don't recall if he got it in at all. I do remember that not long after that he 'came out of the closet' and moved away. I haven't seem him since.

Obtuse · Answer

Well, I'm a drinker and my friends were drinkers so things happened a couple of times when I was single, and we went all the way. But I actually wanted to see if we could turn it into a relationship, but it kind of became quickly apparent in both cases that we really don't click that way to both of us -- great as friends but not that way -- and ultimately just spur of the moment thing. Actually no hard feelings after, stayed friends, they got date not long after, I got mine.

linds34 · Answer

Yes, I loved having sex with my friends because I could trust them. That's how things started up with my boyfriend too :)

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Was going to say yes, till reread the rules, so guess I'm a no. Lol Did get sexual with someone that it started as friends, to friends with benefits, to ewb (enemies with benefits) to nothing cuz couldn't take the lies and the fact he was fucking other people even tho there was agreement not to. But, just one more thing lied about. 🤷‍♀️

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nahh only with crushes

PondyPand · Answer

No. Otherwise they wouldn't be friends

KC1545 · Answer

That’s how I started with my current boyfriend lol

existing_not_living · Answer

Yes, I have. My best friend. We are still close to this day. And I've had multiple boyfriends since getting with him.

Duckysback · Answer

Sure, isn't that kinda the whole point of having a FWB?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

In my life, friends and sexual partners are mutually exclusive.

summiter · Answer

I did in college. A good girl friend... only that a friend who was a girl... well one thing lead to another... we both had smoked a little weed. She ended up giving me one of the best handjobs of my life... what can I say?

ImSparkly · Answer

I’m guessing this is a higher dimension of FWB’s, where you have been friends and now there’s a bonus. Yes, I have helped out ‘friends’ in the past, and they have helped me.