Men, the “asshole” and “nice guy” types are the same... Both just want to use women for sex, generally speaking. Your take?

[Anonymous]

https://youtu.be/2wuDi0i7_ug

Watch up to the 1:02 mark

Women might have unrealistic or romanticized ideals of how men are, but the reality is that men, of almost ALL types, just want to use women for sex.

There are men that try to be different and not like the “other” men but that’s most likely a gimmick just to trick women into having sex with them because they’re “different.”

[Anoniemus]

"Even the men who tell women that they’re attractive or beautiful when they’re clearly not are so full of bullshit."

Attraction is subjective. Who you might think is ugly might actually be pretty to some other man.

We know that most men (since there are eunuchs and asexuals) desire sex. An asshole that pretends to be a nice guy is an asshole, not a nice guy. Nice guys exist.

The difference is if some men want more than sex or not. I feel that the majority of men 40 and under want purely sex and not a relationship.

But who cares? There are plenty of men who want a relationship AND sex who are nice. If you're trying to say none exist, then you'd be wrong.

If you're trying to say that if most men would choose to have sex rather than have relationship and sex, then I agree.

[Asker]

You know very well that men AND women lie to other women about how they look or how that dress looks on them... Women are lied to almost all the time, ESPECIALLY by men.

[Anoniemus]

Yup. But women are less likely to lie to other women about how she looks. I know that men lie a lot. That doesn't mean that you aren't still incorrect in some aspects. What is your issue with this? Are you simply telling us that's all you want (women know this)?

[Asker]

Women might be less likely to lie, but define “less likely.” In other words, men can lie 97% of them time and women only lie to other women 96% of the time. You see where I’m getting at? Women still lie to other women, about so many things, not just looks of course.

[Anoniemus]

No. Women don't lie to other women that much. We just wouldn't pay back a compliment even towards friends. It's different if someone is emotionally hurting though. I disagree. It doesn't matter though.

[Asker]

But how do you know women don’t lie to other women? You may not and your friends might not but that isn’t proof that can apply generally.

[Anoniemus]

The same can be applied to you. You have no definitive proof... which is why I said it doesn't matter. We're stating our opinions. In my opinion, women don't lie to each other as much as men lie to women.

[Anoniemus]

I just realized what you meant about nice guys and assholes: yes. Most under 40 no matter if they are assholes or nice want just sex, not a relationship. And that’s why plenty of women go for older men since they are more stable and desire a relationship. Makes sense.

[Daniela1982]

If he has this hanging on his wall you know it for sure. Frankly I think nice guys feel that they are missing out by trying to be nice and not taking advantage of a girl. Assholes, on the other hand, make it a point to do so and won't pass up a chance to get their dick wet.

[Daniela1982]

Ah ha! The downvoter is one of those of the asshole bunch. ha ha

[Kurαȷ]

I disagree.
Just because your entire existence revolves around sex, it doesn't mean that every other male's entire existence also revolves around sex.

God, there really are very few things in the world that bore me more than this retarded sentiment.

[Thatsamazing]

This seems relevant... "Using someone for sex" does not exist. Stop saying it.

[SydneySentinel]

So which one are you?

[WhiteShoulder]

Not all men are like this, but the majority are.

[CarpetDenim]

This is another big bruh moment

[Avicenna]

That's not quite accurate. It's completely normal to want sex with your SO, and that isn't "using then for sex".

[NerdInDenial]

Of course men just want sex and, in general, touch from women excluding gay men.

[CasaNorba]

agree all the way!

both are two wings of the same birds. the only reason why women are more likely to give it up to the asshole is because they know the asshole will always give them something to brag about in the long run

[Clayaya]

Ew I don't know about this one. Wdym to brag about?

[CasaNorba]

@Clayaya is not rocket science. there are three things that turn women on and they are looks, money, and status. and who else provides more status than assholes? assholes are always the center of attention. they love drama and drama loves them.

[Clayaya]

Sounds like high school & college girls not women. Most that I know want all those things without the asshole title.

[CasaNorba]

@Clayaya yea most of these "women" start going after the nice guys after they've gotten tired of being used up and mislead by the assholes by now they've usually have hitten the wall or are needy single mothers

[Clayaya]

Why do you hate women so much 😂

[CasaNorba]

@Clayaya if I talk about how dangerous snakes are would you ask me why I hate snakes so much?

[Browneye57]

The assholes just don't give a shit. The suck-ups are desperate. There is a difference.

[Browneye57]

On update... Not necessarily. Some white-knights think they are actually defending the bimbo. They think it's their duty to do so. They tend to be the same ones that worship women, women think they're actually weak, so they constantly feel this need to seek general acknowledgment.

[Asker]

Go down a few more layers and it’s still all about having sex with the “bimbo” even for the white knights.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Thanks for telling us man :(

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Very true.

[LuWe22]

Some men actually want a serious commited relationship and actually wanna marry some day.

[PromiseIllBeNice]

Lol I seen this the other day.

[Clayaya]

I don’t think this is true for all men

[JamesBlackDragon]

Not all men are like this besides men can't sleep around if no one is giving it up meaning it's 50/50 both parties are sleeping around

[Anoniemus]

I think his point is that if men had the opportunity to get sex easily, most would opt for JUST sex, not sex AND a relationship. And I agree that MOST would. I mean, I get it. I’ve even said if I were a man I wouldn’t settle down until I was 45 if at all. It’s understandable. My issue is that there are men who want both: sex isn’t all they want.

[JamesBlackDragon]

@Anoniemus They can't get that easy sex if women aren't giving it out but I guess

[Anoniemus]

It’s just in a perfect scenario. We know that it isn’t easy for you though.

[Asker]

It’s not 50/50 both parties are sleeping around. A man can sleep with 26 women, where all 26 are different women. These women could’ve been lulled into thinking sex was a precursor to a relationship , whereas the man didn’t care for a relationship. Also, each of these 26 women, could’ve had a lower than 5 sexual partner count. So, no, it’s not 50/50

[JamesBlackDragon]

One woman can sleep with 50 different man and each of those 50 different man can only have 3 sex difference partners in that scenario it's not 50/50 but if you want to go by statistics which is based on information given and people can lie about the information given so we will never truly know who sleeps around more So 50/50 is the best way to go

[Asker]

Well, if you look at average partner count across the sexes and add in biology as well as women’s own views on casual sex, hookups, etc. AND the stigma of a woman being with a lot of men as opposed to men being with a lot of women... It’s not 50/50.

[JamesBlackDragon]

Where are these averages coming from coming from people right if so a guy will lie and say he had sex with a lot of people when he actually didn't a woman can say she only had sex with one person when she actually had sex with 10 or more people as I said it's based on information given so it's best to just leave it at 50/50

[Clayaya]

Exactly

[Clayaya]

@EmbraceThePain is correct

[Synikal]

Honestly.. takes two to tango. Obviously there are those we want sex too. We just want to branch off and seem different and have the same goal. Doesn't mean that is all we are all about but every person wants to feel or be desirable to a point. Doesn't mean we don't care but in this generation and the last. Always appeared that assholes came on top. We would love your undivided attention too.

[allinit]

Dude don't tell them 👀

[Asker]

Lmao, I have to man.

[Thatsamazing]

Yeah why exactly are you breaking bro code.

[Anonymous]

I’m a man. I love my wife and I could have many other women if I wanted but I don’t, which means actually that I am having less sex overall, and not always a lot.

[Anoniemus]

You’re over 45 though. I think men around your age want to have someone so they don’t die alone. I’m not saying that’s what you did or that’s for all men. It just makes sense to me.

[Opinion Owner]

@Anoniemus Except I have been with her since is was 20