About to have my first time with a girl, any tips?

Iam going to meet my girlfriend on the weekend coming up, and she really wanted to have sex. It will be both our first times. She says she's really tight, and because im pretty large (7 inches long, 5.5 inch girth) Im a bit worried that ill hurt her. Will it even fit? She says she does really wanna experience being stretched out and getting that completely filled sensation, which I think makes it a bit easier as she will want to feel this? Im not sure how to go about this. Any help or tips would be appreciated.
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  • Take it slow, slow, slow. Use a lot of lube. Generally ask her how she feels/if it hurts. Listen. A lot of preparation will be needed, and even then it may not feel amazing for her. If she's down for it, suggest her being on top/riding. This way you can easily give her clitoris love too (just by putting your hands down there, if you have well defined knuckles, she can grind against them).
    If this isn't a position she's willing to try, read up on other positions which could work and aren't complicated.
    Overall be patient, I assume you like this girl a lot and want her to have a good time. So making sure she's not in pain etc is important.
    And obviously, her clitoris should be your best friend, but I'm assuming you know this

  • Take it slow, be very loving so it will be memorable.

    Make sure you use some lube, so you slide in more easily... and make sure you're using protection !!!

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  • It's gunna be bad no matter what I tell you, it always is. But it's really matter that's both of you enjoy your selves so you can both consider it a amazing moment. Just take it slow feel things out and see what works for both of you, also maybe try doing oral or don't penetrate too much if it hurts that bad

  • You got almost same size as i am except im 7.2 and 5.5
    Yes first two times i had sex with my girlfriend were taugh, she was not a virgin but her ex was... no comment like she said
    And i can Tell u one thing
    She will remember that to the rest of her Days

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  • Be sure to have foreplay, this will make penetrating her less painful. Ask for feedback, make sure she likes what you're doing and feels comfortable too.

  • Take your time with the foreplay

  • Yeah, similar size here. 7.6" 5.5"
    It's gonna be fine if you go slow, do tons of foreplay and communicate clearly. My girlfriend had a lot of trouble at first, but she's adapting really well.

  • Have her suck your dick for a little bit first to get a bit of saliva on you, and while she's doing that you can gently finger her pussy so that she lubes herself and gets wet. That should be plenty.

  • It will fit and probably hurt her. Pretty much any size would, to some degree. First of all you are breaking her hymwhich hurts. At the same time a girl's vagina can stretch to let out a baby and I assure you that the baby is bigger than your penis.

  • Make her com a couple times by eating and playing with her pussy and clit

  • I'll never be able to take my boyfriend's length, and I'm OK with that, but his girth is no problem at all. Just go slow and communicate.

    • What's his size?

    • @DenverOmelette 9 inches long in length, but only about 5 or so in girth.

    • That is quite long.

  • I'm about in the same range. (8 X 6)

    It can be a challenge with girls I hookup with, but I do a lot of oral first and get them primed up well, before insertion. If you take your time there's no problem.

    • Oral is always very welcome regardless of size. LOL

    • @TaraCoug Yes, I think most women love that better than fucking.

    • Indeed. LOL