Guys, Do guys only think about sex when talking to girls?

[emmajaneg]

[MrOracle]

No. Naturally it's likely to cross our minds at some point, but, the vast majority of us are capable of talking about whatever the subject happens to be and focus on that. Still, if a guy finds you attractive, he's going to have a desire to have sex with you, even if it's only at a very low level. Guys see attractive girls all the time, and we look, appreciate, and then move on with our day. Things are different, of course, if a guy is out specifically looking to find a girl, and some guys are ALWAYS looking and hit on every girl, but most guys aren't in full acquisition mode 24/7.

If you befriend him, and he comes to like you as a person, that desire is likely to intensify, because now he finds you both physically and personality-attractive, and his attraction is always going to affect the way he behaves around you. This is why I tell girls that a single heterosexual man is never really going to be "just friends" with you - with single men, it's NEVER really platonic, and you shouldn't be naive about that. Again, it doesn't mean that he's thinking about sex constantly, but his desire for you is going to be in the back of his mind anytime you're around even though he's probably not actively thinking about it the majority of the time.

[dpg91]

No, I treat women as individuals and am quite capable of having a conversation without thoughts turning to sex. However, if she’s attractive and seems interested then I’ll inevitably be thinking about sex a lot and might try to steer conversation in that direction. Even then, I don’t treat women as sex objects so we can always talk about anything else.

[AustinMan]

Not at all. It depends on situation and context.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, we are all actually that shallow. This is what you believe, right?

[ohshee]

To be honest in real life, yes and no I'm single and depending on the girl and what is going on where we are at tge time,, and what we are doing. Yes and no lol, no if online depending on what we are chating about and who she is. The yes and no ,, in either case if we are talking about sex then hell yesss,, if we are not then yes and no lol😊

[lightbulb27]

No. were' not that shallow... but some might. there's no way around two magnetic poles being drawn though...

[markscott]

Certainly, guys do think of sex when talking to girls, but by no means do we think of sex every time. A lot depends on the guy. If the guy really cares about people, he will care about you too, and not think of sex all of the time. If the guy just wants to get in your pants, then he will be thinking of ways to get your pants off, all of the time.

[Jjpayne]

No, it depends on how she dresses and how she acts. But it also depends on what the guys goal is when talking to a girl such as a doctor or a boss it would take on a different view of them

[pierre7i]

Not necessarily but sub-consciously it's always there and sometimes - especially if she is flirty & tactile - it comes right to the forefront of the mind and it's hard not to imagine how nice it would be to be sexual with her

[pierre7i]

@emmajaneg - do you sometimes find yourself thinking about that when talking to guys?

[SjE78]

some do some dont

[BeMuse]

No...

[Rixon]

Nope thats not true. While speaking we only concentrate on speaking..