I tended to avoid those almost instinctively as a gut reaction if the girl was coming on strong but I didn't feel the same way... not necessarily just for conscientious reasons, but I just found it very unappealing if we weren't close to the same level of feeling. Something about it always didn't appeal to me, including girls I liked initially but it's like they started feeling too strongly for me too soon early into the dating process. It's like maybe I could catch up but something about that made me usually want to abort sooner -- maybe it's partially conscientious like I am worried that I won't be able to feel that strongly back. I am not sure. I just know it tends to ward me away if the degree of feeling we have for each other is wildly different.
I accepted advances like that while I was dreaming a few times, but not while awake. I've also rejected someone like that while drunk, in retrospect...
I haven't done it, but I think I would if I happened to be on a drug that put me in just the right mental state...
Would be something I'd regret, though. Props for not doing it twice.
Thank you
Yeah several times but I did tell them that this means nothing we are still just acquaintances, friends, co-workers, classmates, roommates whatever nothing will change because we are going to have Sex you know that right. They would agree, but half of them did ferl like thingscwere going to be different they started pursuing me more and I said it was just Sex a few got upset hurt how could I be so cold... I'd there I'm cold-hearted now you can hate me... A couple guys had to get Restraining Orders.
I hate that
I know right.
Thank you for MHO.
No, but I have been on the other side. I wish they would have been honest with me though and not lead me on like that because I was young. If I am ever in a situation like that today, I will be honest about my feelings, and the other adult will decide if it's worth it.
Me too. I've been on the other side too.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!ummmm. yea... i sorta seduced a couple nerds this way... sex was amazing, but they were just too nerdy and boring to hang out with...
Least you got amazing sex. And good D&D.
Great dungeons and dragons Gaming sessions!
I bet 😏😏😏
Hey, this pussy ain’t gonna pet itself.
Okay, that was a lie, sometimes it does.
Sometimes you just need someone else to let your pussy
Pet your pussy
Sure, sometimes you just need someone that you can tie to a chair and ride for a few hours while they cry.
Have not had the opportunity, but would allow it if it happened. It would be beneficial to both.
But if the person liked you liked you, and they’re hurt that you just wanted sex (and one sided sex, at that)... I don't know. Just a hypothetical anyway.
I would be honest about my intents and feelings.
Yes sadly I have a past of doing that but I stopped bc it’s so fucked up
Me too
No, I never did that.
WhiteShoulder: That you feel bad about it, shows you care and have a conscience. That's a good thing.
Thanks 😊
Yeah lol
Same...
Yes. I was also in college. I was bored and horny, so I started making out with a guy friend. I never saw him as anything more than a friend, but I knew he had a crush on me. While we were making out he started to slide his hand into my panties to finger me. Since I was horny I let him. I felt kinda bad about it later because kissing him and letting him touch me sexually probably gave him false hope, I knew he really liked me, and I had no interest in him beyond being friends.
Exactly what happened to me!! Except the person went further than just fingering.
Even though he may have had hopes for more, I am sure he was appreciative of having had that much with you.
@Red_Arrow true...
It sounds fun. Sounds like great foreplay
Physically it felt really good
Yep. He was fucking terrible too! Ugh, he wasn't even instructable. I should've learned a lesson, but I didn't.
😂😂😂 Sorry girl. Had to laugh.
It's ok. Hindsight 20/20, I had to have been one of his firsts. He was all happy and shit, I couldn't crush his sad little spirits
Awwwwww 💗
LOL, no, but assuming I'm single, I'd probably be happy to "allow" her to seduce me.
That’s pretty much what I did
Yeah, didn’t go anywhere really though.
Lol yes,
I thought both guys and girls did this equally?🤷🏼♀️
You dont really have to like someone or even be attracted to them in my opinion to sleep with them. I mean i have to have a little attraction but if im drinking, im horny and dont really care. Ill never see them again💃
But its so much more fun when the desire is up to the roof ! ;)
Guys have done it to me and I did it to someone else once
Yeah, I used to hook up when I got horny too
I had some crush pull down her pants and show me her bush
yes it looked great but i never touched her and it was a turn on
and all i can say this was a long story with this one *Blushes*
Did you masturbate while you watched her?
No , but after she left and went home i did 👀
I understand. She probably did too.
Yep sure did. Drunk and stupid don't mixed.
Well yeah But she always stopped me when I tried to get too much in mood. 😅😅
I actually have always tried to avoid doing that, I've definitely missed out on some opportunities but honestly I try not to have sex with anyone I know can't handle it at the time
Good 😊
Yes x
Was it worth it?
Yes it was good
Awesome :-). So was mine.
No I'm not an asshole
Even if people say so
Good
No I stay away from women that are hung up on me unless I like them back. Otherwise your just making their lives harder. Better they don't even see me at all. It's not about me so much it's something I trigger in their mind that they need to get rid of. I try and help them do that.
Guilty as charged. I felt bad too. 🤦♀️
Totally
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