Do you like or dislike if ur partner has had more sexual partners in his life than you?

For me sex was always something quite taboo so when i found out that the guy i was dating (currently my bf) had been with quite a few more even in a casual manner i was almost hurt? And scared to not be good enough, it took me awhile to get over it and he sure helped a lot making me understand it was ok. Just wondering hlw other people feel about it
Do you like or dislike if ur partner has had more sexual partners in his life than you?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Chances are at my age the majority of men have had more partners than me unless they married their high school sweetheart and were married for a really long time. My number is 2. I'm thinking that is going to be a bit shocking to the first man I sleep with after I get back into dating.

    • Shocking sure, but as a woman you have the advantage you can't be 'bad in bed' as easily. the thing they'll care about the most is having to be careful the first couple times

    • @waaromniet I've deff heard of women being bad in bed i don't know what ur on about

    • Heard it from a guy? Who wasn't just talking about a girl with the 'dead fish' approach to sex?

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  • No I couldn’t care less about it

Most Helpful Guys

  • Like it for me personally. most of my male friends are neutral or dislike tho

  • I don't judge them by their history.

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  • I dislike it.
    In fact I racked up quite a few numbers cheating on the girl who made me feel RETROACTIVE JEALOUSY, because she'd been with not only more people than me, but with quite a few people, including casually.
    This wasn't right; it wasn't good, and I regret not just leaving her as soon as she told me the things that I knew I wouldn't accept.
    The thing to consider is whether what he's told you will affect the way you see him, in a manner that makes him an unsuitable match for your future.
    I truly don't know what it would be like for a girl to have some of these worries, because as a guy it's fairly simple to see we'd be wondering if the last guy (s) were bigger than us, better than us, more fit than us, or did things with her she may not do with us in the future.
    Take time to see how this plays out for you emotionally, but if the insecurity passes and you don't care anymore, no harm no foul, if it doesn't, only gets worse, and you start getting obsessive with wanting to know more/ find out more (spending long hours on social media tracking these people down so you can compare yourself to them), and stressing over being better as you are not in competition with fantasy people you've contrived in your mind, then leave. Leave quickly.

  • Like. Experience counts. Just be open to suggestions and encourage them.

  • Indifferent

  • Don't care but I'm a virgin

  • It would shock me for like 3 sec & then get over it, cuz at the end of the day she's still mine now. Doesn't matter how many people she's been with, aslong as she didn't cheat in the past i wouldn't worry myself over it

  • I think i am accepting unless it is too much i’ve had zero so most people have a higher body count than me

    • Understandable, first ones can be tricky

    • You are 18 and still haven't had sex? Have you done anything at all with a guy?

    • @Paige90 just hold hands and cuddle but i’ve never had a first kiss. I am very shy

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  • Dislike

    • Why?

    • Innocence/inexperience is cuter

    • So ud wana date a child?

  • No problem..

  • He has. I'm his last.

  • 5-10 people more... ok, 20-50, ehhhhh

  • She better have the skills to claim that experience 😋

  • Same girl

  • No I don’t wanna know about her past. Unless it holds her back.

  • No, I think quality beats quantity.

  • Nah, not a problem

  • It's a mistake to force someone to tell his or her past. I think women do this more than men. Someone's present and future should be more important than past.

    • I think u should be open if ur serious about a relationship,

    • If someone wants to share then it's okay. Else, there is no point to force. It will do more bad than good.

    • Well he was the one to ask first and it didn't harm our relationship in the long run

  • I might use her experience den

  • Dislike.

  • I definitely would dislike her having more sexual partners than I have had.

    • How come?

    • msss98: Probably it's a guy thing. I wouldn't like the idea that she had a bunch of dicks in her. I especially wouldn't like it if she were still around the guys who had been in her. Honestly, I'm not sure just why is matters. Maybe I want to think of her as more pure that that? Or I don't want to be just one of many?

  • Highly dislike it, but if her personality is really great and she's very loyal, loving and respectful, I could care less of her sexual history. But, it'll be difficult to handle if she turns out to be positive with STDS.

    • Well we both were tested so that wasn't an issue he wasn't an idiot about it, i don't think so at least 😂😂

    • Well, if a girl is still responsible with her own health and gets checked to get tested or always had protection, that would also make me care less of previous partners

    • So ur only fear is stds?

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