Most Helpful Girls

  • Nah, not at all. But just try and strike a balance between 'getting it over with' and making too big a deal out of it. You should be looking for a nice, appropriate person in your life, not just some guy to have one experience with. You can't create a perfect situation on the spot, whenever you want it, but just try not to psyche yourself out and make it into something negative.
    And p. s. lots of guys would be more than happy to meet you, knowing you've never been with anyone. It's pressure on them too, they better make it good, but some men are competitive and don't like the idea of not being the only one. Either way, you're fine. Just relax about it, and wait for the right time, right person.

  • No! A solid half of the people I'm closest to had no sexual experience at 20!! It's perfectly normal!
    Frankly, most the people you meet BEFORE the age of 20 are hardly worth spending the time and effort on!

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, why would it be? Their is nothing wrong for waiting for the right person and some people just get into relationships later then others, nothing to be ashamed about (its honestly a good thing, you don't want to have a lot of partners it can mess you up in the long run).

  • Nope, nothing wrong with that. Plenty of people are at that age, some even older. Everyone moves at their own pace. You shouldn't feel bad just because you have a preconceived notion of when everything is "supposed" to happen, that's not how life works

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No. When the times right and the persons right it'll happen.

  • It is not uncommon at all. What is your reason for being a virgin at age 20?

  • Not at all. You just haven’t met someone that you want to take a ride on yet.

  • Not messed up at all! Very normal. Don't do anything until you feel that it is right for YOU.

  • There are a lot more virgins at 20, than you imagine.

  • It's fine. 20 isn't old.

  • No, it's fine. What is it with girls thinking it's bad to be a virgin at whatever age?

  • Not that's up to you

  • No that shows self discipline. It also shows you're smart enough to see how screwed up the world is and not want to be with the kind of men you often see posting on this board.

  • Somewhat

  • No. Virginity isn't some kind of malady or disability that needs to be cured or fixed.
    Date. Get to know. Pick a great guy and develop a meaningful relationship - the sex will come naturally.

    Girls are keepers of sex.
    Guys are keepers of commitment.
    Don't be giving up yours 'till you have at least a little of his.

  • Not at all. It's great!

  • Nope.

  • no it's not... i mean nothing wrong with not having sex if there's nobody you want to have sex with.

  • not messed up

  • Not at all. I was a virgin until I was 20.

  • Nah man, do it whenever u feel like it

  • What would be messed up is of you had a 7 year old at 20.

  • The easiest way to stop being a VIRGIN is to fuck a guy.

  • No not at all

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