Most Helpful Guys

  • Unless I’m having sex with someone I really like and physically attracted to, ANYTHING is better. Contrary to popular belief, at least for me, I believe having sex with someone due to a spontaneous moment, someone you’re not really physically attracted to and don’t really know, causes grand regret and disgust in me. It’s not something that I brag about to friends or anyone, nor do I particularly feel good about myself afterwards and I’m a MAN. I have to imagine it’s like this for the majority of women, probably stronger. This also applies to relationships as well. Being in one with someone you just don’t meld with is worse than anything, even being alone, which isn’t even bad in the first place. People underestimate the negatives of having sex with someone they don’t know well or don’t really like, but because they absolutely have to rid their virginity, they’re desperate to just rid that imaginary status that not even Batman, the world’s greatest detective, can prove. This also applies to relationships, where people just don’t want to be alone, so will settle.

    • I wish all guys felt this way. Some would have sex with anything with a whole.

    • @Clayaya A "whole" what? A whole pie? I'm in!!!

    • She meant “HOLE.” Anything with a hole

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  • Is a cooking show better than eating real food?

    • If this ain't the best answer, I dont know what is 😂

    • The best is watching a cooking show and eating. So is watching porn and having sex the best?

    • @DorkVader Yes, exactly.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • nope..

    porn portrays unreal things about sex...

    - women don't enjoy having semen shot on them.. we prefer it inside where it belongs.
    - most men are not able to stay hard that long.. enter the Fluffer.
    - guys don't really enjoy stroking themselves to orgasm when it is much better to finish inside a woman... the money shot is what porn is about.

    - Pleasuring yourself is not anywhere as enjoyable as having sex with another person!

    • It depends on person

    • @adi7275 No, the person's view on sex. Find real sex boring because 0.000001% of the world's female population was bad on you? See, now you the point.

    • If you have anxiety issues when it comes to sex you're not going to enjoy it so sometimes masturbation might be better because there's no nervousness, pressure to perform, etc.

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  • Definitely not, sex is so much better. Sex is real and full of emotionals and makes you feel so much better after your finished whilst porn is kinda boring and lonely in a way, its always same and you have no one to hold after, it just never feels as good as sex with someone you love.

    • @Madison2628 no

    • Sorry that came off rude. If your not secretly a man looking to sext, we can talk but i have a lot of people on here who some reason want to talk to me and i have a busy life so please don't get mad at me if i don't reply straight away

    • Ok I won’t get mad I promise

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  • Porno is fake. Mostly it's over the top interpretations of sex. I've never heard of real women screaming like that and I've rarely done it. Gives me a headache. Watching someone else have sex is never as good as having sex, unless you have really bad sex. I've had below average sex. But no porno FEELS as good as sex. Even so so sex.

    • Sorry for you having bad sex (below average). I hope your husband still licks you?

  • Yes lol

    • R u virgin hhhhh

    • Are you saying porn is better?

  • Omg is this a real question? Hell no.. and anyone who answers yes, well you doing something wrong and my sympathies to you.

    • This is not a real question. You have just downloaded a deadly virus. You are welcome.

    • Lol lol there's watchers and doers.. Those screams in a porno, paid for... screams IRL awesome sex, just saying

  • Just by asking this I think we all know you're a virgin now. Dumbass

    • That's harsh hhhhhh

    • Bee-Hatch is being a real bi-atch lol

    • Ehmmmm I like it

  • Never. The feel of bare skin against skin, feeling the warmth of another person, sensing another heartbeat, noticing the weight and strength of your partner... it's a part of the sexual experience I love and porn will never give me

    • Sooo... is sex the same with or without a condom

    • @braxypoo You already know

  • Not better but for men it's far less dangerous that a relationship with a western woman so in that regard yes it is better.

  • Porn and sex are not or have they ever been suitable replacements for one another.

  • Not at all. Porn can be exciting, and perhaps fun to share with a partner to increase arousal, but that vast majority of porn out there gives unrealistic ideas about what sex should be like. The focus is seldom on mutual enjoyment, and women who do enjoy the scenes frequently either give forced performances or are branded as sluts. Their behavior is unrealistic and when watched in excess, especially in place of real, human sexual interaction, can give men a unrealistic expectations of what good sex should look like.

    Masturbation to porn can be a way to deal with pent up arousal and tide you over, but in my opinion, the real enjoyment of a healthy sex life comes from mutual satisfaction and learning to give your partner pleasure. With both of you giving and feeding that energy back into each other's arousal, the pleasure builds and builds. It doesn't often look the way it does in porn, but it's amazing. And this is to say nothing about how much better another person's touch, particularly their soft, wet, intimate areas feel than you hand.

    Is a video about skydiving more intense than jumping out of a plane? Is watching "Days of Thunder" a better experience than driving a race car? Is watching cooking shows better than going to a gourmet restaurant? Of course not! So how could an exaggerated, mischaracterization if sex on film be a substitute for the actual experience?

  • Before I state in the affirmative whether or not porn is better than real sex, we first need to establish what we're trying to accomplish. If the goal of both porn and sex is to simply get ourselves off, then--depending on circumstances--either works, but they serve different functions.

    Porn is "good" for what I will dub "5-second orgasms": it is trivial to get started and finished up, done and over with in a matter of minutes. You aren't looking to get any emotional satisfaction, just to blow off some steam and then do something else. Porn is like a Buzzfeed video, it's junkfood; it's only function is to get the job done.

    Sex, on the other hand, is typically something that requires a warm-up period. The shortest sexual encounters I've had were measured in quarters an hour, not a couple of minutes--primarily because nobody has purposeful sex JUST to get it over with (once or twice every now and then can be almost as quick as watching porn, but if you are frequently having sex just to be done with it, a lot of people would say "you need to rethink your life"). Wheres porn is a quick fix, most of sex is spent in the emotional buildup, the sexual tension, leading up to the orgasm between the two individuals--not just getting there.

    The difference between porn and having sex is like the difference between driving a Ferrari and a Honda: you drive the Honda just to get from A to B, you drive the Ferrari to enjoy getting from A to B. While the Honda--for all intents and purposes--can do everything the Ferrari can do, albeit much slower and with less style, it's also cheaper and costs less to maintain. Therefore, neither is better or worse, it's just a matter of your time frame and whether or not there is someone else involved. Also, you can't have sex without a second person. That's called masturbating.

  • No 😂😂

  • Don't know. Never done porn

    • This is MHO! Lmaooooo

    • Haha

    • @Duckysback Good girl, not exposing your genitals/ass on Internet.

  • no because there is no after thought and i like talking or cuddling or having a coffee afterwards.

  • No. If it is then you don't have a good sex life 😂

    • But would you date a guy that dosent have a big penis?

  • Believe me, most successful people have to make a sacrifice. Its fun but not better, especially with different bed partners

  • Hell no. Sex is sooooo much better. Unless you’re with someone who’s absolutely garbage in bed (which I’ve experienced). THEN AND ONLY THEN is porn better than sex.

    • XD I feel that. Or like if you just way outpace their drive.

    • Absolutely

  • In the same way that a hit of some synthesized drug, like alcohol, is better than taking in a fresh, fragrant honeysuckle and taking in it's natural essence in color, touch, and aroma.

    One seems amazing, it's not complete like the other, and doesn't compare... leaving one longing for the real thing with but empty dreams.

    May you find your love, and enjoy her sweet aroma.

  • Absolutely not! I like a man in the flesh that I can touch, smell, hear, and taste. I want to be a participant, not just a spectator. I want a real person, a man with all his desires and imperfections, skin on skin. Porn is too contrived and becomes mundane in abundance. Some amateur stuff is ok but it would be better shared with a partner.

    • Truly said, same thing here with touch, kiss, smell and hear and actually see for real.

  • ummm what,.. lol?

  • I watched porn once. Years ago. Couldn't figure out how such sh*t was popular & that was that. Pretty sad for the porn industry if you consider I'd been a virgin not too long before watching it. My imagination could come up.

    • My imagination could come up with better.

    • Yes, most porn is very shitty and fake.

  • What? Is reading a travel book better than taking a vacation somewhere?

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