Guys, do you think porn has fucked up your mind and the way you see women and sex in general?

[Anonymous]

Based on my experience, I really think it does and it sucks bad lol.

[Anonymous]

Do not be fooled guys. Women will tell you that porn is fake, but that sort of sex is only reserved for the guys they truly lust for. When it comes to beta bill, or receding hair line John doe in accounts, they don't want him to know he's not getting 'real' sex, because the very thought makes them sick to their stomach.

Porn simply exposes what those guys are missing so it's a problem. Why is it not real? because the girl is always enjoying herself, completely crazy for her guy? because the guy has a big one? What type of guys do you think women have this sort of sex with?

[OddBeMe]

It has messed with my paraphilic desires. It’s like alcohol, good to be legal, but too much can fuck you up.

[Asker]

You got a point here

[OddBeMe]

It def puts women in terribly objectified scenarios. I don’t think there’s one porn vid I saw that was “woke”. Not sure what that would look like...

[Asker]

Porn isn't about respect. What it means isn't respectful in any way lol. It's just funny how most guys seem to believe they are "clean" as they could have been without it

[Obtuse]

I was always able to separate fantasy from reality, fiction from non-fiction. I'm not that interested in porn anyways. If I need a quick release I type "pretty girl porno" into google search. That works. But it's totally different from reality. It's like video games. I don't play much these days but I played Grand Theft Auto when I was younger and I don't go around thinking I should find a car at a stoplight, open door, throw driver on the street, run over pedestrians, and evade police and eventually helicopters and military tanks. I don't let fantasy influence my way of perceiving the world very much.

[Obtuse]

I'm actually super vanilla type in spite of seeing some porno including some really hardcore ones with like 100 girls and they were bent over -- awesome. They were exciting. But you know, can't smell porno. Can't feel it. I can't connect deeply to video girl. I say "hello" and they don't say anything. So it's like, "Whatev." Sperm the tissue and move on. I mostly crave a sense of deep connection with the girl... like with real sex, my fondest memories are like the girl smiling, bumping heads trying to kiss each other at the same time and laugh... even those awkward moments. They are resoundingly real, you know, not fake.

[Obtuse]

What did actually screw up my mind though more were Hollywood films as a teenager. They gave me false ideas in terms of romance. I got swept up a bit with the dramatic flair, the ridiculous ways that rom-coms work out. I think rom-coms are the worst. I learned how ridiculous they were the hard way though.

[anupamagrawal]

Porn is a sexual entertainer and it has nothing to do my sex life or way I see women or girls. Hot shapes have always given me boner and wanted to fuck them hard.
Though, I also admit that many guys have lost their mind and see girls as a porn actress that they can bang the way depicted in porn. They always seek the pussies and asses to hunt.

But I am not one of them and that's a good thing that those on screen fucking have not yet fucked my mind.

[Trolloween]

I am not aware of it, but then I am not able to know exactly how I'd behave if I had never seen porn. Or if my partner hadn't either as I don't know why there is an assumption made here that it affects men more than women. But porn is fake, guys who copy porn are bad in bed.

[Asker]

I actually do believe it affects girls as well. Some studies tended to show it as well.

[Trolloween]

I would guess it makes girls do things that they think pleases men and it normalises stuff that might have been rare pre-porn like anal, rough sex or cumming on a girls face. But with men it makes them want to do these things more. But maybe I'm wrong. Also it doesn't always mean that it's a bad thing, as long as both people are happy and doing what they both enjoy a lot then there's no issue to fix.

[Asker]

Some other effects have been shown consistently

[Trolloween]

Such as?

[InfobotsMom]

No, it hasn't changed a thing tbh. I've developed no weird fetishes and I don't see women as sluts. If you are of sound mind and reasonable intelligence, both emotional and otherwise, you can separate fact from fiction. Just as you can watch a violent movie without killing people.

[R4vedave]

No, not really.

[Dargil]

I was not weaned on internet porn. I discovered sex the traditional way, by field research. I think young teens, especially girls, is as heinously harmful as bloody first person video games are to guys and they should both be heavily restricted.

[Ripper_E]

No because what women have attested to and what you see in porn don't add up. A lot of women never experience an orgasm, and every woman in porn has an orgasm, no matter what. They also take cum to their face and a lot of women don't like that. Porn are just fantasies. Nothing more.

[Asker]

And fantasies don't have any influence on your behavior lol?

[genericname85]

nope. porn is different to normal life. i as most guys can distinquish this.

[naraku]

Personally no. I can differentiate between what's on my screen to what reality is. Porn at the end of the day is supposed to be a form of entertainment. The difference is ANYONE in the world can have sex and I think this is where people lose the boundaries of and perception that it's supposed to entertain in some way. Plus, there are a lot of dumbass guy's out there who "think" what they see is real. They forget that people are paid to do those scenes - obviously home movies aside.

[s2firestar]

Not at all. I don't even know what do people mean by this.