I can't imagine my wife doing that. She's more romantically inclined and even gets off with very soft things (even like PG-13). But I'd find it most interesting in such a scenario. I'd be like, "What this? You naughty! What's all this stuff with the Disney films you like before?" I don't think I'd be upset though. I'd find it funny. Well, it's hard to imagine, you know. You have to meet my wife to understand how funny that would be. She's as vanilla as they come, into candlelit dinners and broadway musicals. She actually gets sexually excited by a candlelit dinner.
My fiancée is pretty similar. Although horror movies do usually make her amorous, romanticism works just as well. I understand when a romantic dinner or an evening walk on the lakeside are getting her in the mood because she starts gripping on my arm and making those long sighs.
I think artistic types will do that. My wife is sort of creative and artistic in her own way as a writer, prone to kept swept away by romantic ideas, and by the beauty of sunsets, and this sort of thing. You can build meaning into things. "Throbbing dick in wet pussy" is popular for some, or it can be a candlelit dinner, or dance, or the slow seduction of undressing a woman, and for her, of being undressed. I think it can be quite abstract. I'm that way too in my own way.
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If it was the vanilla/erotica stuff to the slightly kinky but still good stuff then fine. I got stuff like that on my computer. But if she's got stuff that would make me dry heave, yeah I think we should just stay friends... At the very least I'd like to hope to god it's not hers...
Typically thats more of something you find on the males side of it, so thats different🙈
Hmm I don't know, tbh i wouldn't really care. Its just fantasy stuff and everyone looks at it
That's true, and I admit I was surprised when I discovered that. I myself can't really like porn, it slightly disgust me but I don't really care unless it becomes an obsession for my partner.
Was this with your last ex? Jean who do you date?🙈😄 I don't know why i find it funny because like i said, thats not something youd expect to find from a girl Another reason to be thankful for your new fiance
Thanks for mho☺️
Break up probably
I think porn fucks up guys mind
Porn ruins the minds of everyone, it's a plague.
Indeed
You don't feel that someone with a strong mind that enjoyed watching porn couldn't keep it as just entertainment? When I was young before I got married I never watched porn but maybe once in a great while and I was running around messing with all kinds of chicks. I'm talking every thing from sweet college girls to crazy hot strippers to women more than double my age. Now I've been married for roughly 26 years together for 28ish and don't run around on my wife and have quit a bit of porn of course I don't hide it from my wife and she was cool with it. I'm just saying not everyone that likes porn has a depraved mind.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I know of a friend of mine who was disabled. Her husband was the only one working and had a job at a world renowned college. Well it was discovered that he had porn on his work computer, which in my opinion was stupid. Anyway he was fired, arrested, tried, convicted of 4 counts of having porn on a state computer and sentenced to prison. My friend lost everything. She lost her husband, health insurance and her home. She had to under the cover of darkness move to another state. She even changed her name on all social media. The first couple of months her husband was in prison the other inmates found out that he was a sex offender and he was beaten up pretty bad. Its very selfish.
That’s fucked up. What kind of society sends someone to prison for porn. As long as it wasn’t child porn and it was all legal then what’s the issue? Yeah fire him but prison is extreme
@jjj101010 I guees I should have explained that the court documents do state child porn.
Ah that makes sense. I thought u meant regular porn.
I'd be unsurprised and unconcerned. It's normal and expected. Much of the porn on my server came from my last few ex's.
It wouldn't be a breaking point, but we would have to have a long and honest conversation about their sexual satisfaction and our compatibility.
I am rather kinky myself though, so, I'd take it with a grain of salt. I'd really just be more upset that they didn't feel comfortable sharing their desires with me.
Depending on how full we're talking... One folder with some stuff, ok.
But if there's a ton of stuff, like folders with other folders in them etc I'd be put off and probably bring it up. Would also depend on what type of porn. If it was very hardcore, like actually... People being hit and stuff I'd be scared
Meh, as long as it's nothing illegal and it doesn't affect our relationship then it's not my business.
No big deal. I also like watching porn so its interesting to see what he's into 😆
For real I wouldn't care but I am the person who will happily watch porn with my boyfriend so...
I would mock her a little.
Who keeps porn on the pc these days, hasn't she heard of streaming?
I'd acknowledge that this is what they felt like but I would want to talk about this with them because even though it's type cast as a male thing girls could have men parts too...
Depending what kind of porn, that could be a red flag
Very true
would get horny and fulfil his fantasies.
by the way i like hardcore stuff too, so no prob
wouldn't bother me. I've probably seen worse
As long as it wan't same sex shit I might be OK with it.
It's girls? Not boys?
It wouldn't surprise me at all. I would just ask why she doesn't look at the internet like I do 🙃
Personally I think that if they enjoy it to embrace it and do anything and everything together with the intention of learning more positions or role playing. IT should never take place of the real life feeling. I understand that some people feel that watching it is cheating but I'm a firm believer in my partner and I didn't just get with someone to leave them im old fashioned and I knew once I meet my wife she was my forever no matter what her past present or future held our souls connected. Try to have an open mind about some things and you will notice a huge difference in satisfying both of your fantasies.
Yeah depending on what it is, I'd watch it with her ✌🏽
Kinky means fun, go all in.
I would like to know why. Only stuff I have on mine is lesbian stuff. girlfriend enjoys watching the same, plus she puts stuff on as well...
I would be like. Eh. Lol
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