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How do you prepare for the date when you expect you will finally become intimate?

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This looks JUST like me! :) :) :)
This looks JUST like me! :) :) :)
If I have been dating a woman for a few months, I think that we are at the point of beginning a sexual relationship, and tonight may be the night. . . there are a few extra things I will do before a date. I trim my fingernails. I shower immediately before the date and give extra attention to being impeccably clean. I brush my teeth, floss, use a deal pick and mouth wash. I make sure that the boxers I am wearing look nice (and not the black silk pair with a lip print design that was a gift from a previous girlfriend!) I plan our evening's events closer to home so that we can be home sooner rather than later. If I think we might return to my home for the night (rather than her home,) I make sure that everything is tidy and clean. I have clean sheets on the bed and a unopened bottle of KY in my nightstand. I try to always be ready to prepare and serve breakfast the next morning. (If you think that this is too much, understand that I am not looking for casual sex but something more significant, and - long term - I can't expect her to treat me like a king if I don't treat her like a queen.)

Do you do anything special to get ready for that date when you think things will move up to the next level?
How do you prepare for the date when you expect you will finally become intimate?
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