She sounds borderline. Bail out before she causes major disruption in your life. Borderline disordered women are toxic. Women are three times more likely to have the disorder than men. Give them a wide berth. They are emotionally unstable; exhibit dependent personality traits; demand constant attention; are often promiscuous and exhibit hyper-sexual behaviour.
Read this account below from Wikipedia of the disorder, then watch the Paul Elam video "Let's Chat About Borderline Women" on youtoob. Damn good advice for men.
From Wikipedia: "Borderline personality disorder (BPD), also known as emotionally unstable personality disorder (EUPD),[8] is a mental illness characterized by a long-term pattern of unstable relationships, a distorted sense of self, and strong emotional reactions.[4][5] There is often self-harm and other dangerous behavior.[4] People may also struggle with a feeling of emptiness, fear of abandonment, and detachment from reality.[4] Symptoms may be triggered by seemingly normal events.[4] The behavior typically begins by early adulthood and occurs across a variety of situations.[5] Substance abuse, depression, and eating disorders are commonly associated with BPD.[4] Up to 10% of people affected die by suicide.[4][5]
"BPD's causes are unclear but seem to involve genetic, neurological, environmental, and social factors.[4][6] It occurs about five times more often in a person who has an affected close relative.[4] Adverse life events also appear to play a role.[7] The underlying mechanism appears to involve the frontolimbic network of neurons.[7] BPD is recognized by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) as a personality disorder, along with nine other such disorders.[5] Diagnosis is based on the symptoms, while a medical examination may be done to rule out other problems.[4] The condition must be differentiated from an identity problem or substance use disorders, among other possibilities.[5]
"BPD is typically treated with therapy, such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).[4] Another type, dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), may reduce the risk of suicide.[4] Therapy may occur one-on-one or in a group.[4] While medications do not cure BPD, they may be used to help with the associated symptoms.[4] Some people require hospital care.[4]
"About 1.6% of people have BPD in a given year, with estimates from 0.5% to 6%.[4][5] Women are diagnosed about three times as often as men.[5] It appears to become less common among older people.[5] Up to half of people improve over a ten-year period.[5] People affected typically use a high amount of healthcare resources.[5] There is an ongoing debate about the naming of the disorder, especially the suitability of the word borderline.[4] The disorder is often stigmatized in both the media and the psychiatric field."
Tension creates those feelings I'd say comes out of the sub conscious mind... you relate to her from your childhood. So underneath the tension is what you'll find out over time... are the things that create the bond... should you continue.
Where's the love? Do you feel for her or just lust?
What I learned is we have to work really hard to protect the emotions of the woman and relationship. You as a guy think you can screw and wander off "la la laaa laaa", that often doesn't work in a female mind. So she's controlling and feels insecure when you are gone... I'd say that's kinda normal, but Im aware a lot of girls seem fleeting these days.
There's obviously emotional problems... abandonment issues and was abused? Odds are good and you aren't helping with your modern day beliefs you can just play and have fun (some can/some can't). If you feel love for her, then stick it out and try to help work it out. YOU WILL SUFFER in ways you didn't know existed. You thought that sex had no consequences didn't you? You haven't experienced misery yet! But maybe you'll help her and yourself, or you'll be torn to shreds.
Else... press the eject button and cast her off to the next unfortunate dude who has to deal with all the broken pieces and cycle repeats until the underlying emotional problems are resolved or a 3rd party (baby) shows up and suffers as well.
I WOULD NOT MATE WITH HER... no matter what she says or pleads or how sexy she is. Good luck holding that line until this is worked out. So, if I were you, I'd get a therapist or leave. Lived a part of this...
And thank the almighty God, pray for yourself and her (couldn't hurt.. even if you don't think there is a God). You gotta wisen up fast, cause this stuff gets serious...
If she's crazy and shows red flags, what does that say about You? Your crazy, and also have red flags. She's only like that because she's in sexual sin as you are. That's what happens when you have premarital sex especially. Other than some form of neglect and abuse, it messed us up. And your not helping.
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The sex better be really good to put up with that because after a while the sex isn't going to be enough to compensate for the crazy.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/FAGAhFHJXuQhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/mqzR21YxSFghttps://www.youtube.com/embed/WXBHCQYxwr0I didn't watch the last video all the way through before I posted it.
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How do you think she got that way? Do you want a life of peace or stress?
Fun, hot sex is fabulous, but if your gut is telling you this woman isn't right for you, exit quickly, while it's easy. You don't want to be seriously involved with someone who isn't stable or reasonable. Go.
Depends on how red the flags are.
if she's already doing that stuff and you're not even officially dating... it can only get worse... the abusive drunk text is the part that worries me.
when you guys are in a calm place after breakfast one day or something you can try calming bringing it up that these things are concerning you... and depending on how she reacts to the mature act of you trying to converse could give you your answer
Red flags are there for a reason - to spare you drama, baggage, heartache, or just a crazy person. Sometimes intuition is your best friend. No sex is worth all of the things I've listed. I say pass and let some other poor schmuck deal with it.
Men love crazy bitches. You’re had now, regardless. Good luck.
Those certainly are red flags and traits that don't often ever change. My thoughts would be that if you are looking for more than some good fucking she probably isn't the one you want to hang on too.
Never worth it.
Well lets think about this logically, how much time do you spend with her having sex and how much time with her do you spend outside of sex? I'm going to guess, giving you the benefit of the doubt, that you spend an hour on sex a day (I think we both can admit this is pretty damn generous). That leaves you with fifteen waking hours, eight hours five days a week being spent on work the rest being roughly divided amongst your relationship and private life. That leaves you with, roughly 50 hours a week with her (more then your job). So is the good sex that lasts (being very generous) a total of seven hours of your weekly time, worth the 50 hours a week of potentially misery and suffering? Seems to me that is not a very good trade off.
You don't need to bail on her but you do need to address these issues imediatley and consider what is gained and lost.
What kind of red flags? Can you give some examples?
Ok saw your update. If you're not exclusive, then I guess it's fine keeping it as a casual thing. However, she seems a little... Unstable. So, you should be upfront about not wanting an serious relationship. Or she may get the idea that you are. The longer she gets such an impression the harder it may be to get away. Sex is great and all, but if she seriously start hurting you mentally or physically, be sure to get away
Red flags. Listen to the red flags. If she is like that when you are both just having fun, think what she might get like in a few years when she can really be herself. Back away. Good sex can be found in someone whose nature fits your ideals. Don't settle for 50%.
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I'd just keep no commitment. I mean on the good side of things, her acting crazy probably means she's not fucking around behind your back. On the bad side of things you have how ever many years she is old of damaged goods to deal with and get under control.
I have met women that can be overwhelming with their baggage though. They become the very meaning of what a blue haired fat lady would call toxic... if it wasn't a man.
You gotta just quit fucking with it... pretty simple. She will probably be just fine moving along if you just outright reject her. Probably why she acts so bratty... she wants you to tell her to get the fuck out... and trip her, then hit her with the door when she stands up. Then turn on your sprinklers as she walks to her car through your lawn. Then text her the vid you shot of her getting pounded from the back, and block her after that.
Send her a letter that says you enjoyed watching batwoman more than being with her.
Lol 😂 sex is always good with the crazys!
Are you good in the bed
@mattgusman you should of asked if she's crazy, you'll probably more likely get your answer then 😉
@jaybob88 @mattgusman... 🤔 no. I don’t think I am one of the crazys.
If she is showing some major red flags, the longer you are connected to her, the more likely it will come back and bite you.
Hell no... Run far away before you get stuck. And never look back.
Have fun with it, but don't take it too seriously, and get out before it's too late.
If you are just in it for the sex, you should have something else lined up on the side if you know what I mean. Just in case things go south.
if you're having second thoughts about it them its not... but either way see how it goes
Best thing to do is savoir the sex. Crazy girls are always the best at sex. However they are terrible for your life. So just balance between the two, but be clear about where your boundaries are & never compromise them. Its easy to get lost in the moment& eventually you end up losing a lot more than just the initial losses.
Oh you would want to leave. I stayed in a relationship with great sex for 3 years... I only had to sacrifice all my mental health.
Hope you recover well, dude
I'm fine now man thanks!
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