Do guys really think it’s okay to fuck without a a condom when barley knowing the person?

[Anonymous]

So, I met this guy through a friend of mine. I wander looking for anything serious and he hasn’t either so I decided to give it a try. The situation itself was very overwhelming because that was the first time we had actually ever hung out. I’m usually a girl who would never remotely think about hooking up with someone I barely knew, let alone not in a relationship with, so for me this was stepping way out of my comfort zone.
So one thing led to another and I’m in the back of his car. Before this, we have had many talks on the phone, and I had let him know that I only practiced safe sex. I’m not on birth control, and had intention of getting pregnant. He said that was completely fine, and that he respected that. So can you tell me why I’m in the back of his car, and I ask him where the condoms are, and he proceeds to look at me with this Dumbstruck face and says, “ you didn’t tell me we needed them." He then to tries to persuade me into having sex with him without a condom. I forcefully tell him it will not happen, but that we can still fool around. He after that gets into this shitty ass attitude about the situation even though I still said I would give him head. He then tries's to give me a bullshit excuse saying that he doesn’t “come from head”. Well guess what? He did that night.
The situation was an absolute shit show. After I had finished he didn’t even return the favor, and it had been a complete waste of time.🤦🏻‍♀️

[Passinggas]

All encounters are different for all people but I have yet to have sex with a woman that didn’t want it in her. They told me to and some held me. However, I am not in sex for the satisfaction only but rather the instinct that drives it and the same has gone for almost all of the women I had. Most of them wanted to get pregnant and a few years back was insane timing for me so this protection thing goes both ways. That is just the way it has been for me. Not saying that is right but I think pleasure seeking only is drab without the risk and associated uncertainty of life—just my view.

However, you just need to find your equivalent on protection and a condom is absolutely your right no doubt. You did the right thing and he should have backed off immediately. Personally, I would have shut down once I was told. Some are fools to attempt to continue. This isn’t worth your time or energy because you two are incompatible on this.

[reptocarl]

You can’t get pregnant giving a bj but you can still get diseases. I’d be more concerned about my image of fucking anyone in the backseat of a car. He’s such a loser he couldn’t even spring for a motel? If condoms are such a requirement for you then why don’t you supply them?

[Asker]

The situation itself is a mess. He told me that he wanted to supply his own condoms because “ I might not get the right ones." Before even meeting up with him, I asked why we couldn’t just hang at my house or his, and he said he had roommates and he didn’t want them to hear.

[reptocarl]

What was wrong with your house?

[reptocarl]

Not only that but if you supply them and he doesn’t have any you can say it’s these or you’re not getting in this pussy. What was wrong with him driving to buy the ones he wanted? You really fucked up here

[Asker]

He gave me some excuse that he was in a hurry and that if we laid down we’d start cuddling, he wouldn’t want to leave.

[reptocarl]

All I can ask is wtf were you thinking? Why didn’t you leave?

[4eyes2mouths]

Hey man car sex is hot. I have a house but enjoy car sex from time to time lol

[reptocarl]

@4eyes2mouths not like this. I know what you’re saying but not in this instance

[Asker]

I don’t know honestly. I wasn’t thinking, and spontaneously I wanted to have car sex.😂

[reptocarl]

Was it worth it?

[Asker]

I didn’t get any personal pleasure out of it, so no.

[reptocarl]

He couldn’t even lick your clit to make you cum?

[Asker]

He was being way too rough. He kept rubbing my clit like a DJ booth. He maybe touched my pussy 3 times.

[Asker]

Very disappointing experience

[reptocarl]

My God. Fucking pathetic

[Asker]

Very

[reptocarl]

Next time supply your own condoms and kick him in the nuts if he won’t make you cum

[Asker]

Haha will do. Lesson learned

[reptocarl]

Make him make you cum first before you do anything

[Asker]

Yeah that was the mistake I made. I should have made sure he pleasured me first then given him his reward.

[reptocarl]

Good lovers will do that automatically

[Asker]

Thankfully he’s not my lover

[reptocarl]

Lesson learned better luck next time ttyl

[4eyes2mouths]

I would always have a condom on me and it would be proper to use one. The only time I didn't is when I was in a steady relationship with a person. Though that guy seems like an idiot. He should know better.

[Asker]

Agreed. I just don’t understand how he acted so surprised when I brought up using condoms, He knew way before he picked me up that we planned on fucking

[ClosetHoe]

Idiots do. Intellectuals don't.

[Asker]

*drop my mic 🎤 *

[elite665]

Lol what a retard he is
And to complain about a bj is like just... Jesus

[Asker]

I know I was so surprised by how he acted. I’ve never had someone act that pissy.

[Dargil]

I do not think it is OK to fuck anyone you barely know.

[broken_heart_at_48]

Not all guys but you have all the say when it comes to your body if he not wanting to use a condom tell him to go jack off then. Trust me he'll wear a condom

[Browneye57]

A shit show. Your picker is broken. :)

[JermalTheBlackDog]

If your pull out game strong, then yes

[9ncredible]

It's imprudent, but it feels so much better.

[one1wild00]

I tend not to carry condoms as I prefer bb myself.

[Asker]

Ah Okay

[one1wild00]

Sounds like you like that fact?

[Asker]

I completely understand wanting BB, but if you barely know the person wouldn’t that concern you? Like you don’t know who they’ve slept with?

[one1wild00]

As long as they are DD Free I'm good, otherwise I'm not taking the chance.

[Asker]

Gotcha. Thanks!

[one1wild00]

Your welcome :)

[Nerdvana]

He was an ungrateful ass. You were a good girl. Did he cum in you mouth?

[Asker]

Yes lol.

[Nerdvana]

Not all guys are like him. I would have understood and been happy with cumming in your mouth and I would have returned the favor. You deserved it. It's his lost.

[COMMODOREII]

Yep that is a waste of time. Even though guys like not using condoms like me its always best to take one in case. Besides you really need to trust someone really good before dipping in just any girl.

[Twalli]

Since zi only have sex in relationships I don't use a condom. It's not like she can get pregnant with me even if she isn't on bc.

[Asker]

Yeah I get that if you’re in a relationship that’s bound to happen, but if you didn’t know the person wouldn’t you wear a condom?

[Twalli]

I don't have like that. I would have oral with a girl I don't know and I wouldn't wear a condom for that

[GreenGold1992]

yeah, lots of guys are really that stupid

[Exorcist_Rampage]

All people should have procreative sex. Contraceptive sex is of the devil and glorifies pleasure without responsibility.

[Anonymous]

Absofuckinglutely not gurl. Thats a high risk of getting transmitted STDS right there by going raw. Yeah, fucking raw is the best shit blah blah, but still, an act like that with a person you're never closed with, then boom, you noticed odd symptoms by getting sick often, then once you get tested, you find out you have a permanent disease in you.

So, no, it is not okay to hookup without protection with someone you don't even know fully.

[Asker]

I thought so. You would’ve thought it was the end of the world the way he reacted. Crazy

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, better to be safe than risking your life to suffer over a sexual act that's fully physical or properly getting to know the person first before doing any sexual stuff

[Asker]

Yeah lesson learned.