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I'm getting the vibe that he doesn't actually cum sometimes?

So my boyfriend and I have sex very frequently. Usually he cums and doesn't want anymore action for the rest of the night. he's 21 and says that his refractory period is long, meaning that he can't have sex again for a long time after the first round. Well, tonight we fucked. It was a good fuck and he seemed to. enjoy it. I teased him before sex a lot and then he fucked me in doggy and he came inside me. He seemed satisfied and I felt the cum running down my legs. Then not even an hour later goes by and he's asking to fuck again. And he's completely hard again. That doesn't usually happen. So I fuck him again and he came again, but he said that he couldnt feel the orgasm during the second round, but there was a lot of cum afterwards. Does it sound like he didn't cum very good the first round or something? I felt his cum run out of me after the first round, but he usually doesn't get hard and want to have sex that close together in one night. What happened?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • No, this sounds about right. When a guy orgasms multiple times in a short duration, he sort of "runs out" of semen with each one. It also sounds like he ejaculated without much of an orgasm, which happens sometimes. I will say, an hour is, all things considered, a pretty long refractory period. Most guys are ready for Round 2 by around 30 minutes or less, so this doesn't seem too out of place. And besides, refractory period has nothing to do with pleasure and orgasms. It has everything to do with erection and ejaculation. (That's why girls can just keep going.)

  • Sex and sex organs are finicky complicated things! Changes in patters of desire happen naturally over time, but they can also be influenced by environment, stressors, hell even what he had for lunch that day. If you're still feeling weird about it though, it's best to have an open and honest conversation with him about any concerns you may be harboring!

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  • more we sex more thin the sperm become and if he cum then he must have felt orgasm and if he is hard again means he definitely want it again..
    for me personally when i use to masturbate once i have done it about 11 times a day and that day nothing was cuming outside just few drops of watery liquid but still i felt orgasm...

    • Yeah, but he usually doesn't want sex that soon after cumming the first time. Does this mean that the first round wasn't satisfying?

    • it may be opposite to that means may be he liked it more than before

  • Dear over thinker.
    It's fine. He was horny. You both got laid. Be happy. Enjoy your time with him. Smile more.

    • Yeah, but he usually doesn't want sex that soon after cumming the first time. He has even told me that he has a long refractory period.. Does this mean that the first round wasn't satisfying? And he told me that he couldnt feel his orgasm during the second round, but there was a lot of cum..

    • It just means he wanted another round. I've done it all. It's just sex. 1 part of many of a healthy relationship. You're fine. Promise.

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  • Hmm it happens. Probably a chi blockage.

    • Why couldn't he feel his orgasm during the second round?

    • Overstimulated maybe

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