I think my 18 year old daughter is doing porn should I ask her about it or try and find details / evidence she doing it?

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I think my 18 year old daughter is doing porn should I ask her about it or try and find details / evidence she doing it?

Love2Jackit · Accepted Answer

The key 2 what u are talking about is she is 18. Which makes her legal 2 do what she wants. What I would do is try 2 talk 2 her about it. By all means don't over react. Meaning don't put her down for it. Just try an tell her what u think about. If u can try 2 tell her u will support her no matter what she does. The trick 2 what she is doing. It's something that she likes and gives her pleasure. If u put her down then that will make her want 2 do it. Just 2 be spiteful. Good luck. By the way thier is good money in porn.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Talking to her can look like an accusation. If she is and you ask her, she will be compelled to lie and go underground. Best to only ask questions you know the answer to. It will likely be on her device or on a home computer. You may want to some forensics and then decide what to do.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

Talking never hurt anyone.

If she is not living at home, there is little you can do.

If she is living at home, there is more you can do but at the risk of destroying the relationship since she is at adult age now.

NightFlirt · Accepted Answer

Talk to her, but keep in mind that no matter what you think of her career choice (If she is becoming a porn star) she is an adult and can make her own choices now.

MrOracle · Answer

Before you do anything, you had better think through your plan for what you will do if she is. And that plan needs to be realistic and you had better be able to see it through.

Mister_E_Alaska · Answer

Only ask if you're ready for the truth. As long as she's safe and happy just let her keep doing her thing. Be available to listen to her and her thoughts on her choices. Be supportive no matter what.

purplepoppy · Answer

Post a link to her videos so we can judge her performance

cheapshotbob · Answer

if yu have to ask you already know , that is how it normally works

lightbulb27 · Answer

Getting to be a bigger "issue" from what I've seen on this site alone and hear from others. sounds like a tough talk, but talk. and I wonder what lead to that... there may be worse things that lead up to that... or just that other girls are.

good job being a parent!

Hoss1981 · Answer

Just ask her

wulibuli · Answer

Dont neglect her, she's probably making more money than you. Lol

wankiam · Answer

just ask her but can i ask what makes you think she is doing it?

boggboss · Answer

Even if you did what would you or could you do

foxrider77 · Answer

Maybe tell her the media can steal your photos and videos and make money off of you if your not careful. See how worried she gets.

Agape93 · Answer

Talk to her. If she is, she’s not doing anything illegal or wrong. It’s her choice. Just ask her or leave her be.

Shiver · Answer

What makes you think she's doing porn? You can't confront her with literally only a hunch.

Walrus_au · Answer

She's 18, and I assume consenting. The only concern I would have is that she is safe.

Swimmerdude2013 · Answer

Why do you think she is doing porn? Well she is am adult and it's not illegal for her to do it.

bangyourhead · Answer

Talk to her. She's an adult, treat her like one.

Tunasub · Answer

Talking will less likely cause her to rebel even more than you think she already has. If you go full bore and accuse her without facts that could cause bigger issues.