Why haven't you decided /been able to be with someone?
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Phoenix98Master
+1 y
Nothing is holding me back I choose to be this way, always have, had plenty of opportunities to lose it to over the years.
And the reason for that is I can't and won't have sex with someone that I don't love and care for deeply and couldn't see a future with or at least the potential of one my religious and personal beliefs play a part in why I am that way. And I hate the culture of casual/misguided sex, hookups and friends with benefits with a burning and seething hatred so I will never ever be part of it.
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Dchrls78104Master
+1 y
For me it's about finding the right person.
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aspiegirl_Xper 5
+1 y
We both want to wait until we're ready. We love each other so much, I'm sure he's the one for me and he says he feels the same way about me, but we're not ready to have sex. We both want to make it special, many people say it is horrible, uncomfortable, weird, etc. But that's what we want to avoid, we want to be comfortable, we want to be our true selves and make sure the other one is having a good time ❤️. We believe it isn't a game and it must be done with responsibility, love and respect ❤️
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msss98
+1 y
Thats super sweet im sure once u both go for it ill be great ❤️❤️
aspiegirl_
+1 y
Yes ❤️. Also, he's quite innocent, and so am I but I feel like he's more innocent than me. He's my first boyfriend and I'm his first girlfriend. But even though he's quite innocent, he suggested me to undress each other and have a shower together 😂, then he apologised and said that we would do it only if I'm okay with that
msss98
+1 y
U should, ull defd enjoy it plus ur probably just gonna be nore in love with each other
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aspiegirl_
+1 y
Yeah, we do want to try ❤️, because we're not planning to do it with lust, y'know? We care for each other a lot and if we do have a shower together and undress each other, it would be with love and respect, not with lust
mrfooxYoda
+1 y
Finding the right person, and feeling safe and comfortable with them. I don't want to rush it, I am a nervous person in general, so if I rush into it, the risk is high that I won't be able to enjoy it
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msss98
+1 y
Understandable, feeling comfortable and relaxed is the best way to start enjoying it
mrfoox
+1 y
Yes ☺ I almost pushed myself to sleep with someone when I was younger. But in the end, I didn't do it. Now I am glad I didn't, they were ready and willing so I wanted to please them, even if I didn't feel prepared yet. Now I feel prepared for the act, but I have to find the right person first
I'm not a virgin anymore but I had problems attracting women and I still do to some degree, no idea why tho
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Glenn603Explorer
+1 y
I’m not a virgin anymore and I was quite old when I did lose it and it was through a hook up when I did. I’ve always been single and never had a relationship because I find it really hard meeting anyone. So if I hadn’t lost it through a hook up I still wouldn’t have lost it now
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WhiteShoulderGuru
+1 y
There’s other stuff you can do besides actual sex
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DargilMaster
+1 y
A stubborn hymen, perhaps?
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msss98
+1 y
U got a hymen?
Dargil
+1 y
+1 for "gotcha". Just offering possible reasons.
AlexanderBrunnrgaardYoda
+1 y
I will be. When I'm married. I don't sleep around as a Christian.
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msss98
+1 y
So u have found someone?
AlexanderBrunnrgaard
+1 y
I have a girlfriend, yes.
chriscdiMaster
+1 y
im sleepin on it
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SweetnessxoxoExplorer
+1 y
Being scared and not wanting to look easy as well as my parents not letting me do anything
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TonyMetal_1986Xper 6
+1 y
Because they are waiting to get married i think.
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Suhailadil89Xper 5
+1 y
I believe it will take the charm and attraction away from my future wife.
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COMMODOREIIMaster
+1 y
It takes time. Plus finding the right person matters.
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ShamalienGuru
+1 y
Dont want casual women were brainwashed and destroyed a century ago so im stuck
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msss98
+1 y
What
Shamalien
+1 y
Do you actually want to understand or do you just wanna make fun of me for being 'crazy'
msss98
+1 y
I wana understand, u can shoot me apm if u prefer, doesn't mean im likely to agree with you
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Shamalien
+1 y
rofl I'm certain you won't agree with me ... initially
ND4SPD31Guru
+1 y
I’m not a virgin anymore but back in the day I used to be shy so that could be their problem.
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msss98
+1 y
Yes im guessing thats probably a big one but im curious to see
ND4SPD31
+1 y
But I’m no longer shy and if I wasn’t so shy back then, who knows what kind of crazy things I would have done. Lol.
ND4SPD31
+1 y
And I don’t mind being with virgins now but I just have to take it easy on them. Lol.
Will23vXper 5
+1 y
Indont know how or who to approach
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Will23v
+1 y
Where do u even go for a hookup
jointhemilesXper 4
+1 y
How do you approach 😀😀😀
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NachowedgieGuru
+1 y
1. I don't trust women enough to allow myself to be in that sort of situation
2. I'm not interested in anyone right now
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DanZaan133Xper 3
+1 y
I actually never thought about it
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Yo20cmXper 2
+1 y
haven't found someone yet
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DhavalChaudhary69Xper 2
+1 y
We want someone but who was redy?
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msss98
+1 y
What?
DhavalChaudhary69
+1 y
I don't want to stay virgin Who was redy for relationships with me?
Anonymous
+1 y
The guy I’m lusting for lives too far away and no other guy seems to catch my attention. Also, the fact that the guys who want me make me extremely uncomfortable doesn’t help either
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msss98
+1 y
That's unfortunate! How. Far is he
Opinion Owner
+1 y
On the other side of the world😭
msss98
+1 y
Ouch
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Opinion Owner
+1 y
ikr, my trashy luck
msss98
+1 y
Is it reciprocal atleast?
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Fortunately, yes which makes it even more frustrating at times
msss98
+1 y
Could you not try to save and go visit?
Opinion Owner
+1 y
yes but travelling is hard atm since I’m in school, but I’d definitely go if I get the chance after graduating in a few months (if he still wants me)😂
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