If you're capable of multiple orgasms during sexual relations, why don't you have them more often?

Responding to this poll, nearly two-thirds of women (who have engaged in sexual relations & orgasmed in the process) said that if given sufficient stimulation, they would probably or definitely orgasm again within 5 minutes.

However, responding to this poll, less than half of women said that during orgasmic sexual relations, they usually or always go on to have multiple orgasms.

So a considerable portion of women are not having multiple orgasms, despite being capable of having multiple orgasms with less than 5 minutes of effort.

Why is this?
If youre capable of multiple orgasms during sexual relations, why dont you have them more often?
I've never engaged in sexual relations OR I have, but never orgasmed in the process
Vote A
I have orgasmed during sexual relations, but I am not part of the group of people who are capable of multiple orgasms yet don't take the opportunity
Vote B
I typically don't take the opportunity for multiple orgasms because I'm satisfied with just 1
Vote C
I'm either too tired, don't want to be overstimulated, and/or I have other nonsexual things that I need to get to, instead of extending my sexual session
Vote D
I don't want to ask too much
Vote E
My partner isn't willing
Vote F
Another reason
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I can get off twice often with a girl because if I keep fucking before my cock gets soft, it usually just stays up and starts all over again. But tbh its really tiring sometimes and also its much harder to do with a condom on and my current girlfriend and I often use condoms at least at the end when I cum.

    With girls, sometimes they just don't want to get it that many times. My current girlfriend she will cum and if I am having fun I will say get it again, I don't want to cum yet and she will go for it. Or sometimes she asks like hey I want to get another one in and I am like sure thing sweetie pie honey bunchkin muffin cake. I asked her why she doesn't do it more often and she said she's already wore tf out usually and tired (note we have sex about 3-4x a day on average going as high as 8x if we got nothing better to do).

  • I think it has to be how connected i am with my lover. I mean when i was with my first girlfriend i wanted nothing but sex and wanted to connect with her a few times a day. She had the same feelings. Plus i notice not only the number of times to orgasm but the volume of cum i could produce. But if im with someone who causes stress and anxiety and the relationship is not very good. I just want to cum just to get it over with. Im not really wanting to be with her like my last girlfriend.

Most Helpful Girls

  • D. "I'm either too tired, don't want to be overstimulated, and/or I have other nonsexual things that I need to get to, instead of extending my sexual session" just about sums it up for me. However, there days we're both lucky to have an entire day to do the most we can.

    • How many is the most you've had?

  • Technically I've only ever orgasmed once ever during sexual relations without additional stimulation. No matter how amazing the sex is or how turned on I am I just find it impossible to achieve orgasms with penis alone. #SexuallyFrustrated

    • Can I ask you a question

    • "Sexual relations" includes stimulation outside the penis

    • May u get peace with ur frustration

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  • I know a lot of guys are quite selfish in that once we're done, it's done - some guys don't feel a need to continue things after they have climaxed ourselves and so they, often subtly, call it quits or decide the game's over. Women often simply go along with it.
    Remember though, girls, if you don't ask you don't get. 🤣
    I personally have no problem continuing if my girl wants to.

    • Yeah I had a suspicion that might be part of it, because I read a study in which women having sex with women are 2x more likely to have multiple orgasms, than are women having sex with men.

    • Yeah

  • I have multiple orgasms during sex with no peoblem

  • The number of orgasms largely depends on the guy for me. Sometimes I just have other things to do, but usually once I have 1 or sometimes 2, my partner typically stops and I dont really get the opportunity for another one.

  • Even after I finish I continue to touch her. I’ll finger her if she still needs some loving 👌🏾

  • Too many men don't much care after you've had one, especially if it took a while to happen.

  • A bigger penis will give you a vaginal only orgasm

  • I can only have multiples if I use a vibrator and just leave it there when I start to cum. never had multiples with a guy just one big one but that is enough!!

    • What is the most you've had?

  • Most women I sleep with typically have multiple orgasms during our sessions. There have only been one that orgasms once everytime. She would have one big orgasm. The others who had multiple seemed to have less powerful orgasms but there would be plenty.

  • I like to satisfy women give them multiple orgasms, sometimes they aren't interested in multiple times or give up too soon. I like to cum multiple times.

  • After I cum 4-5 times, I am out of cum

  • I don't give up till she says I can't take no more. I aim to please her.

  • Yes but not always. My ex could cum so many times she would almost pass out

    • if I have two or three in a row its really hard to stand up or walk after

    • I love it when a woman cums like that. I would carry you. You wouldn't have to walk..

    • lol usually if im masturbating there is no one around. I only have multiples from my vibrator. its ok I can walk it just takes more effort than usual b/c legs are weak

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  • I want to fuck everyday

  • On JOI videos, some girls like to try and get men to have multiple orgasms, within a certain amount of time. While it's certainly possible, it can be very difficult, and most guys, wind up in a ton of pain, from doing it

    You wouldn't want to be in pain, just from orgasming, would you?

  • For my partner it was lack of interest. By 5-6 months in she was into “everyone gets one then we’re done” mode. And from there on to “weekly is plenty” and then a few time’s a month and then never.

    • Been there. sorry to hear.

  • Because I'm not working alone and although I'm capable of achieving such high perfect mastered notes 99% of the male species are still struggling to get a degree on that.