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Why do I have weird sexual fantasies about my wife?

Some really strange ones that you shouldn't think about someone you love. Gangbangs, threesomes, watch her fuck other people, spying on her to name some.
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  • Those fantasies are actually pretty normal. It means you have an open mind to sex. You should skate them with her. They can enhance your sexual experience together during sex of you talk about them

    • I would love to do that. But she's not a big talker about or doer of sex to be honest. Let alone anything remotely kinky

Most Helpful Guys

  • A lot of guys and even girls have dreams like that, nothing wrong with you.

    • I know bt usually fantasies are about yourself not ur wife doin stuff to others etc

    • Maybe so but I imagine you must want to be there naked and wanking while watching her though? I'm single but have had chats with other guys with same fantasies, some even saying they want me to fuck them while they watch but too far away to do anything.

  • Because that's who you are sexually. Does she know?

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  • I had the same fantasies. You have to take it slow. And your wife might very well enjoy it.
    I know I loved when my wife was going to see her lovers, knowing they would fuck her. And it also lead to great sex with me and my wife

  • I think fantasies are always weird so it's cool

    • Yeah they are. I do agree with that. But she's not really an adventurous sexual type. Quite vanilla type of sex for her. And I have been with her so long that I think she has sort of manipulated my mind to think it's wrong as she (apparently) doesn't have any fantasies and if she knew these one she would kill me.

    • I can feel. that lol

    • Yup. Its painful lol

  • My friend you have just taken the next step to securing the best possible sex life you two can have.

  • Because you're a wannabe Cuckold

  • That's not really that unusual I have those same fantasies

  • Your fantasy is only weird on this website full of heavily medicated virgins.
    In the real world you're good to go. Of course you're going to need to get her her on-board, but that's very easy to do, because women have the exact same fantasies as men.

    • But most fantasies are just something we don't acutally act on. It's more like a dream-state.

    • @Kamalio That's why women CRAVE dominant men. A true dom can get her to unleash her fantasies, and believe that the depraved things she's about to do, are not her fault. She has no choice in the matter. That's why 50 shades was a best seller. Capture her mind, and her body will follow.

    • That's why there will always be an internal struggle between the good boy VS bad boy theme.

  • I think you watch too much porn.
    Take a month off and see if you still have demented fantasies.

    • That's the thing I don't. she's so dead set against it and sort of twisted my mind to think it's bad too that I don't watch it

    • If you don't watch it how do you get images of gangbangs, 3 ways and cuckolding in your head? Maybe you read too much crap on gag? This place is full if porn addicts and sluts. Gag can be pretty influential as well. Maybe quit this place.

    • Cus I've watched it before I suppose.

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