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Out of curiosity... why are male sex toys looked down upon?

I know this isn't fully the case, and not all people are against male sex toys, but after a rather tipsy and "adult" conversation with a friend got me thinking, why exactly are certain male sex toys looked down on?

Women can use random objects or insert the most ridiculous looking vibrators, dildos, etc., but I hear about lots of women looking down on flashlights, calling them creepy and perverted. If that's the case, it shouldn't be any weirder than a dick shaped instrument women will use on themselves.

And as for the subject of sex dolls, I dont own one and never will but I dont see the problem with them. They have them for both men and women, and it's just a tool to simulate temporary relief just like any other toy. So I dont understand why it's considered ok for women to have a sex toy that is near lifelike yet its considered a red flag and creepy for a man to have one. That just doesn't seem fair at all...

What are your thoughts on this?
Male sex toys are creepy in general and shouldn't be used.
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I dont find male sex toys creepy at all, I have no problem with them.
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Only certain kinds of male sex toys are creepy (please explain)
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Other opinion (please explain):
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I'm just here for the the comments and results.
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*fleshlight, stupid autocorrect.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I have no issues with msle Sex Toys Sex Dolls whatever. Honestly if they would've made a Female Version Sex Doll that was Truly realistic I may not have become a Sex Addict Could've just Fucked the Hell out the Doll and Been Much More Satisfied, then again I probably would've still ended up a Sex Addict but Never Sought Help for it... LOL.

    I think those who are put off by Male Sex Toys are Self Conscious of their Abilities to Please a Man and Compete with these Toys hust as arevthe Men who are against Female Sex Toys that make comments like "You've got me you don't need that..." My reply to those statements is "I've got so I need this..." It can be taken Positive or Negatively... LOL

    • Thanks for the honesty! Like I can understand why some are freaked out, and believe me some of those things look almost real, but I think its genius because it gets one close to the real thing if they can't get the real thing, or if like you said, have a super high drive and need a release. Hell there are male sex dolls that women use that are VERY lifelike too.

    • I have a very high drive myself but dont think I could ever bring myself to own a toy or doll simply because of the people who are weirded out by them 😂

    • I have many toys no Dolls. Yes Dolls for Women's pleasure have gotten very lifelike... I've had to put the Toys in the Safe, 9 y. o. Son almost found them one day... Hecsaw me using one that waa not fun trying to explain away...

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  • Probably because men are stereotyped as horndogs anyway so people have a negative assumption about it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some women are hypocritical.
    Just do whatever you want.
    Worrying about what women think and want is pointless.
    It's like sympathizing with someone who wants to shame you and control you for their own gain.
    Stockholm Syndrome basically.

  • Wouldn't those women who look down on male toys look down on toys in general tho? I don't want to accept that people can be that hypocritical.

    • Oh believe me there are... I dated one such. She believed only women should have sex toys "because they needed release most of all in a world full of sex crazed men who only want them for one thing." That relationship did not last long... she really was a hypocrite.

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  • I have no issue with them

    • What about the dolls? I hear lots of "red flag" comments about those.

    • If he feels the need to have that then yeah sure it's fine

  • I seriously don't think it's weird or look down apon, My ex boyfriend had a fleshlight and one very good guy friend, Sex dolls are weird.

    • Just out of curiosity, why do you find the dolls weird?

  • Don't worry my guy when sex robots or those sex dolls become a thing I think every guy will have one.

    Hell I can already picture people pimping them out or modding it.

  • I have several and have had great fun using them with a female fuck bud..

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