If you do what you both enjoy and please each other and you should enjoy it very much. If that enjoyment isn't there, there are some underlying problems that need to be solved.
What do you feel bad about? It is an expression of love
I don't enjoy it, and sometimes I feel something bad will happen.
Hmm. I know what the bad-intuition feels like - if that is what you mean. You can try and follow that thought, fear included, to see what it is about - maybe it is about how you would raise a child that resulted from it. Or something you consider you'd lose if you did get tied down with that person (I guess your finacee). Are you feeling loyal to someone else instead on that level, and unhappy you are betraying them? Those are my best guesses - it doesn't mean it is that. I don't know if it would help you if you discovered the end-fear anyhow - the relationship advice tends to say you can talk things over with people, but for the deep seated wants and beliefs, I have so far not seen anyone who was willing to change their position one bit - in my case, they would hear it out, even understand it, but nothing would change (and so I am no longer in that relationship, even if it hurts leaving that otherwise good and committed person)
That's very good reasoning. I think that in my case it could be that I had a majority of bad experiences with sex, so it's always a big issue to relax and enjoy it. It happened with all women I frequented, although sometimes it gets better.
Hmm I don't know, odd question for a guy. Usually i thought y'all liked it more?
I never feel bad because i really like it so I don't know really how to answer this
This sounds terrible to say but maybe you should drink before sex to destress. I've done this a few times and it works for me
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Maybe you should talk with your partner for he can help you feel good and more confortable. I think maybe you dont have enough intimacy to have sex with your partner.
What issues? Have you considered seeing a professional to talk through this?
Don't have it if you don't enjoy it.
You keep asking the same questions, over and over and over.
It would seem this one just isn't a match.
I really have no idea what "feeling bad about sex" means?
It means not enjoying it and hating it.
You hate sex, and she knows this, and she still wants to marry you, AND there's a pre-nup? Good Lord, who ARE you guys? LOL
She enjoyes it and that's what matters.
Start by working out WHY you feel bad?
How can you feel bad about sex? 😉
It happens. I feel bad, I don't enjoy it and get anxiety. I try to shut up and hide it to not make her worry.
I have never felt bad when getting laid
I just kept doing it if it gradually felt better to do so.
It may take time.
What is the issue you're having?
I don't enjoy it, I always feel something bad will happen. Sometimes it gets better, but not always. I mostly do it to make her happy.
I'm sorry that you're having these issues. I went through a period of anxiety about sex and I understand, or think I do, your perspective. Have you talked to her about this?
I understand, I'm sorry you had to go through that. She knows about my issues, but I don't want to make her worry so I tell her it's everything alright.
Try researching about different kinds of foreplay and try them with your partner. If you're truly engaged in bed then your sex life might also get better.
Figure out why you feel bad in the 1st place and find a way to make peace with whatever that issue is or you won't move past it
What makes you feel so bad about it?
I don't enjoy it, I always feel something bad will happen.
Maybe this is none of my business, but is it with lights off
No, lights on
Man this might be a sign of homosexuality or asexuality.
I never felt bad about sex though
Then don't answer.
Maybe it’s the partner
I thought you were engaged?
We are
Are your questions a reflection of how you feel?
About sex and my issues, somewhat.
Pal, be honest. What happened that made you loathe sex so much?
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