Girls, how often do you have anal/oral sex with your husband/SO?

[Samantha_17]

[wingattebaby16]

Since I dont like it, it hurts, and only do it to please and KEEP my man, I would say we rarely or never have it. I have done it coz he wanted it, but I dont seek it out.

And now that I am going on 15 weeks prego, it is really painful so he respects my wishes.

I am curious just exactly what it is that guys like so much more about anal sex over vaginal sex? I know they say it is tighter, drier, and can go in a lot deeper, but if the girl hasn't enema'ed, he is gonna get poop on himself and wearing a condom is something most men dont like doing.

[Samantha_17]

He comes more quicker during anal I would say probably because of the reasons you mentioned. But fucking a lady in the ass is also a big turn on for them I guess.

[wingattebaby16]

Thanks I asked him last night in bed after we had Sex why he likes and wants anal. - tightness. - cums faster - more friction - hearing me moan and gasp when he first goes in and he likes pulling all the way out and forcing my butthole to restretch as he has to force it in. I don't open easy - doing it doggy, he loves looking at my butt and sexy hips as he rides me. - loves seeing his dick force me open and how hard it is for him to go in, then finally sliding in me all at once. - loves holding my arms back tight or tying my wrists together so my face is in the pillow , while I squirm and struggle. - I have nice wide sexy hips and he loves my tan line as he holds my hips tight while he rides me. So you are right.

[VIVANT]

But You’re morning from pain Not pleasure right 😐

[kim45456]

Wtf your partner is an asshole

[VIVANT]

@wingstyebaby16 I don’t understand why you guys do it that way? Pulling it out and going back in is the worst thing you can do... the whole point is to open it slowly to adjust so its as painless as possible. you don’t open Easy Bc he’s jamming it in. Is it meant to be painful? Like do you like the pain?

[VIVANT]

☺️☺️

[VIVANT]

Sorry lol I meant like I don’t jean to seem as if I’m coming at you Mean.. I was honestly just wondering what you like about it. It sounds dreadful to me.

[MrsDahmer]

Why do you agree to perform some sexual act that hurts you and you don't even enjoy? That's odd to me. Someone who really loves you would never make such a request...

[Kitty46]

I don’t understand either, If women don’t like something sexual, their men should respect their wishes.

[wingattebaby16]

@VIVANT yes, I am moaning/crying out coz it hurts a lot! But I do it occasionally to keep him happy.

[wingattebaby16]

@VIVANT I don't like the pain. He does it that way coz he likes seeing me have to restretch every time and likes seeing his Dick force me open AND SLOWLY go back in. He likes doing it that way

[kim45456]

Then leave him. Dont you have a little selfrespect? Go rape his disgusting ass with a strabon dildo

[smalls95]

This is really concerning. If he wants you to feel pain and he’s not taking into account your own feelings, he’s objectifying you. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been with him or if you’re having a baby together, he’s not respecting your body. I would have ended things long ago if I were you.

[Doncastar]

@kim45456 horrible. Just leave you you fool!

[mewsicprism]

Yea you got to leave him. It hurts you have a right to say no during sex and not fear him leaving. He's an asshole

[likelyOK]

Omg that sounds God Awful he sounds sick he get off on it when it makes u cry and moan and being in pain that is why I use to think men had to be sick to want to do it.

[likelyOK]

@MrsDahmer I agree it sounds really unhealthy phycologically love or not. Messed up

[AllieOops]

And what does he do yo\u make YOU happy?

[wingattebaby16]

To all: my husband is a wonderful man that loves, cares, and cherishes me. While Anal sex is not my thing, in relationships, both sexual and non-sexual, both persons in a relationship "compromise" on things the other wants to do. Yes, Anal sex is painful sometimes, but after our Talk, he understands I need him to make sure I am not dry back there and to be sensitive to how much I don't like it and it hurts. It is just like when having regular sex, if a guy hits your cervix going in deep, it hurts, but also is pleasurable. It takes time for my body to be aroused sufficiently to take his big dick. Or if you are not thoroughly wet enuf, he can Stick and pull your skin going in... And for him, he prefers to be in charge in bed, but I sometimes like being the aggressor (riding him cowgirl both ways, pulling on his balls when he is about to cum too fast when I am giving oral, and sometimes pushing my finger up his butt to make him cum even harder.. he thinks it is very Gay, but he can often cum a lot more and harder). I love giving him Lingam Massages that last 30 mins and he really really doesn't like them coz I control his orgasm til I am READY for it... And Compromise is as simple as who cooks dinner, what brand of milk we buy, etc... I have my likes and he has his... so dont feel I am being hurt or abused... it is part of life... I am happy and loved.

[SnakeBoop]

If he feels the need to hurt you to get pleasure, you ain't loved. Wtf. Honestly to see you so far in denial about what is so obviously toxic and unhealthy is just wow.

[RiverUndertheSkY]

@SnakeBoop how is everyone here trying to tell this woman what’s wrong about her relationship. She said this is her something and her husband comprised on how is this abuse

[SnakeBoop]

@RiverUndertheSkY erm, her partner legitimately puts her through pain, and she just deals with it thinking thats her job as a partner? if you need it explaining, you're never going to get it anyway

[RiverUndertheSkY]

@SnakeBoop She says she’s adapting to the pain and of course it’s going to hurt - I bet the first time you did it the normal way it hurt to right? If she really didn’t feel like this was OK for her I’m sure she would’ve told us this and asked for help, but you guys trying to force on her whats the right opinion about her own relationship is messed up.

[RoseySarah]

Congrats on your baby!

[Elliegirl]

We do oral almost every time we have sex and sometimes just because we enjoy it. So probably about 4-5 times a week. We don’t do anal very often. Like once every 2-3 months. It’s not part of our regular sexual routine like oral is.

[laurieluvsit]

Very sporadic with friends with benefits Slavic boy, as most of the time I spend with other girls actually

[nomadia]

Wow... so many women do it and says its painful. I personally have never done it and will never do it. Pain in sex is a huge turn off for me. ... so I can go from 100 to 0 in no time. For me sex has to be passionate, gentle, fun.. etc I am not going to do anal for any man. That's just me and my view. If he want to leave then so be it... I don't care... if a man respects u he will respect ur wishes. If he loves u he will not leave u because of that 1 thing u won't do.

[MrsDahmer]

Agree 100%

[likelyOK]

No man who leaves you for it would respect you. I have even been with a man who wanted it and he did not leave when I refused.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Never done anal, but do want to try it at some point.

Oral sex pretty much every time we have sex, honestly. We don't often finish with it, but we like to incorporate it as part of foreplay or the whole play aspect. We'll skip if we're doing a quickie, though.

[chrissykerdock]

oral I do the most everytime my boyfriend comes over he wants a blowjob before we do anything else... anal maybe once a year.

[MorticiAddams]

I mean... oral is a near constant thing... anal requires a lot more prep, so usually only a couple times a month, and usually only in kink scenes!!

[Zarapeachy]

Anal wasn't regular. Probably twice or once every month.
Orals were regular. I liked doing it

[CrazyGirl2]

I obviously have tried anal (not with my 1st b/f he was WAAAY too big) with my current boyfriend, we attempted it... IT WAS AGONIZING! I’m a small girl (5’4, <100lbs). My vagina is already tight enough, so he cums fast enough w/ vaginal sex, and there is ZERO poop involved! As for oral... we do that literally every time. After he cums, I go down on him, it’s the quickest way to get him hard again, but that usually only takes like 3-5 minutes! I’ll often just give hime a blow job (just because!) I love sucking his cock, as I said in another post often more than I like receiving oral. It is so wonderful to give the guy I love, such pleasure! He doesn’t have a car, but I let him drive my Jeep when we go out, it also gives me another opportunity for me to give him a semi-public blowjob! So basically, I would blow him whenever he asked, even if he didn’t ask, I’d still offer!

[Aerissa_Jade]

Don't do anal, he can give me oral but I don't give it.

[chevymcgthatsme]

I do it with ma boyfriend sometimes I like when he doing me up the ass doggy stile it feels way better the reason we only do it sometimes is because ma boyfriends cocck Is tht massive it 7 inches nd a bit but by the time he's finished fucking me anal cause he goes on for ages by the time he's done ma ass os fkin aking a can hardly fkn sit down nd a good few times after he's fkt me anal he flips me round nd gets it up ma pussy nd sometimes he's done me three times up ma pussy 1 after another in a row its fkn amazing eez a fkn killer monster wae his big cock it dynamite

[bigmisssunshine]

Never