Is it understandable for a man to feel insecure when his wife goes out drinking with her friends?
Good people can still be overcome by temptation. And when people are drunk they will often do things that they wouldn't normally do if they were sober. How often have you heard people say, "It was a drunken mistake." A woman might not have any intention of cheating on her boyfriend or husband, but she goes out with her friends and gets really drunk. Her friends then meet a bunch of horny men in a club, and they start flirting with each other. One of the men then makes a pass at the married woman, and on spare of the moment she is overcome by temptation and then one thing leads to another.
The point I'm making is that quite often people who never have any intention of cheating still end up cheating when they put themselves in certain situations. And men know what men are like when it comes to seeing attractive women in a pub or club. So why is it a great mystery as to why a lot of men don't like their wives going out drinking? Being protective doesn't make him possessive.
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