Why is it so hard to be honest about being a cross dresser?

Question

To begin with I'd like to express that I am 99% straight but since a few years I found it a huge pleasure to dress in female clothes and lingerie but its something I keep secret from. friends and family.
I express my fetish for dresses, lingerie and female domination openly on social media using a different username than my own
I also like the idea of serving girls dressed as a French maid individually or at girlie night parties and I've even played dressuo games with girls online over webcams
I see it as good healthy fun but can only express myself through social media
I've had girls chatting and seeing me "dress" just for a laugh and I've never minded
I do find it a shame I can't be open about it with friends and family

Why is it so hard to be honest about being a cross dresser?

Youryeodongsaeng · Accepted Answer

I have a Godfather who says, "Men who wear women clothing are gays." He isn't against LGBT+ people, but he just doesn't believe a guy can wear women's clothes without being gay. I confronted him about it and it made me angry at him for saying that; that is just like saying girls who wear men's clothes are lesbians when some of them aren't. I was offended when he said that only gays crossdress because I wanted to wear men's clothes and I'm not a lesbian, I'm Pansexual. It is very rare for the opposite gender to like someone who dresses in men or women's clothing.

There is a famous actor who crossdressed in his own show back in the 1900s. He is a black man and his name is Martin Lawrence (don't know if you have heard of him or not). He used to play in several movies called "Big Mama" where he dresses like an old lady. I think he's still married. He's straight and he just does that for comedy.

In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with being a crossdresser. I fully support your fetish. Seeing a crossdresser, in reality, I thought the man has a unique fashion sense and still think that now.

Crossdressing has nothing to do with sexuality; it's the person's decision to wear what they wear. Not theirs.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

🤮🤮🤮🤮 yeah keep telling yourself you're straight. Maybe because you know it's not normal and shows you're mentally fucked.

JinCrocker · Accepted Answer

I grew up wearing my sister's clothes so I never thought anything was wrong with dressing in girl things. I do see some strange reactions in others. Perhaps the best way is to just be yourself and gradually move from androgynous styles toward the more girly when you go out. No dramatic announcement needed.
Good luck in your journey, and remember to have fun!

Dr_Latex_McPeggin · Accepted Answer

It’s a different fetish and its just not very acceptable I most places because of the stereotypes that are still in place. I would like to say we will see a more tolerant society when if comes to sexuality in our lifetime and the stride that have been made in the last couple years leads me to believe its a possibility

pinky_kitty · Answer

bc it's unusual for the society rules,, but who cares,, do what u want

Rissyanne · Answer

this is hilarious... no straight man would do this

boggboss · Answer

Not sure what it asking here it's your choice to not be open

NorthwestRider · Answer

Because soo many people are religious nuts who want to kill or hurt you

OfDeath · Answer

Cause it's gay

bangyourhead · Answer

You hide it because you know it's shameful

Pete671 · Answer

perhaps because other people don't want to hear about it?,,, I xd myself and just keep it private to myself and others who are open to the idea,,, In public I underdress often,,,

ZuzaKera · Answer

Nothing weird in 21st century...

FrenchyRomain · Answer

why? because it's gay that's why.

Anonymous · Answer

I love getting to wear a girls thong and having on a bra just makes me feel so naughty. I like that it's sort of looked strangely at. That adds to the turn on, I'm a bad boy, tell me twice ;)