Do you enjoy taking a shower with your sexual partner?

Do you enjoy taking a shower with your sexual partner?
I have always thought that taking a shower with a partner was a wonderful thing to do. I could scrub her back, then she could scrub my back. Next, I could scrub her front, then she could scrub my front. Relaxing, arousing, erotic, intimate. . . how could anyone say no? Two of my recent partners had no interest in taking a shower together and, in fact, refused to allow me in the shower with them. In both cases, the showers were quite large and the physical space was not a concern. Also, I understand that the shower washes away natural lubrication, but I never suggested that we do anything other than some foreplay.

Do you like showering with a partner? Do you like foreplay in the shower? If you refuse to allow your partner to join you in the shower, can you please explain why?
No, not in a million years!
Vote A
Only if they are my spouse or long term, live together partner. . . but no hanky panky in the shower!
Vote B
Only if they are my spouse or long term, live together partner. . . and I will be hoping for hanky panky in the shower!
Vote C
Only if we are in an exclusive relationship . . . but no hanky panky in the shower!
Vote D
Only if we are in an exclusive relationship . . . and I will be hoping for hanky panky in the shower!
Vote E
Only if we have started having sex. . . but no hanky panky in the shower!
Vote F
Only if we have started having sex. . . and I will be hoping for hanky panky in the shower!
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Not into it. Shower time is my alone time, literally the only time of the day when I am really really dedicated o myself only. It's relaxing and I can think in peace.
    That's why no one is allowed to intrude.

    • Makes sense, but never any exceptions?

    • Of course there would be exceptions. 😊

    • Thanks for mho. 😊

  • I love showering together! Even if we dont have sex it's nice to enjoy each others company

    • @Apple1996 you grind your cute ass on him lol?

    • @jason222 oh yes definitely. I do that in and out of the shower

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don’t mind and think it’s fun but sex is no fun in there, definitely right after is good, the shower is the foreplay

  • Yeah it's awesome, not something you do all the time but it's a novelty, to be intimate any time of the day.

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  • We take showers together all the time but not always in a sexual way, but it’s a really
    nice way to wake up in the morning together.
    neither of us drink coffee.

    Sometimes I will was his back. We shower before work or before bed. Two very different things. We shower together mid day before an event we are running late for. We have dual shower heads so it works but sometimes it’s fun to lick and smell their clean skin.

    I don't know not trying to be dirty. I love him and want to spend my life with him.

  • Nah cause one person will freeze their butt off. I’d like a kiss in the rain tho

    • what about sex in a pool or hot tub?

  • My boyfriend and me have showered together a few times. Was always quite exciting. Lol

  • Love Shower Sex take care two things Sex and wash up after

  • It’s not like you see in the movies. It’s a slippery disaster and nose bleed if you ask me!

  • That is just normal fun to shower together

  • Only if there’s two shower heads, enough hot water, he’s not going to put his harsh soap in my delicate folds, and he knows what happens to a naturally curly head of hair when it gets wet.

  • I always thought that was the second part of Foreplay, after cooking our dinner together, and teasing, then eating, and watching a movie, and more teasing/touching in the shower, and drying off, after!

  • Only if we are in an exclusive relationship. . . and I will be hoping for hanky panky in the shower!

  • We'll do it to protect the environment and conserve water.

    • :) :) :)

  • It would be fun check your message

  • Yeah, definitely. It's really hot.

  • yes even non sex

  • None of the above.

  • I have with a few of my relationships, but it's not my thing.
    Having another person in the shower with you gets in the way
    of the main purpose of going into the shower;
    get in, wash yourself, dry off, and get out.

  • Only if we're not in a relationship.

    • Can you explain?

    • Yes. My experimental side dies if I'm aware of the fact that I might displease the person. If it's a one time thing or sex buddy stuff, you know me — I'd just cut a cheeky comment at the given person.

    • One of the outstanding things about a good relationship is knowing that you do satisfy your partner.

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  • I think its a great way to have some very clean fun and save water at the same time. :)

  • What want anyone in my space

    • Fuck no

  • Bang away. LOL

    • 10-4!

    • Also ideal for 'period sex' or 'butt sex'. ;) Some people just can't get enough. LOL

  • Not really too much room in our shower, but I like it.

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