Help need advice, I caught my husband wearing my lingerie?
I arrived home early one night to discover him in some of mine, and was very taken aback. Initially, he said he was just experimenting, and was a bit embarrassed. I didn't believe him, and challenged him to tell me how much and how often - and eventually he admitted it was something he'd been doing for some time in secret.
Something made me ask him to let me see him wearing his favourites, and while I thought he looked funny in some things, I must admit his legs improved in tights.
Over the next few weeks, we discussed his liking for lingerie, and I reluctantly agreed to tolerate it, on the basis that he didn't overdo it or let anyone know. Occasionally, I agreed to allowing him wear something as part of foreplay, and must admit that his heightened arousal greatly improved our sex life.
With our anniversary coming up, he tried to encourage me to buy some new items - including colours like red which I never buy, and I presumed he wanted them for himself as much as for me. I refused. I'm still a bit uncomfortable with him wearing my underwear, and wonder if this is something that will pass as he gets older. Or should I be willing to buy him what he wants, for his own use? He says he's too shy to buy for himself.
I've heard this problem before, but never experience it. How common is it? Am I wrong to be even thinking of buying lingerie for him, and hence, in effect, encouraging his behaviour, especially as I cannot get over the fear of being embarrassed if someone should finds out?
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