Why for men loosing their virginity is not as important as for ladies?

[Anonymous]

I mean men also looses it sure but for some men, I mean some men, loosing their virginity does not mean that much unlike women for men is just perhaps the physical stuff that comes to their mind when loosing towars that hot attractive sexy lady so is the reason many men ((not all perhaps) does not get that emotional like women, they jsut want to get over it , and even if they are attracted that does not mean they will click and if they dont click men move on.

Should not be important for men to loose it too, even if for them for their biological stuff it could mean only the physical stuff? Just saying.

A female friend told me her story so she just wonder. She lost her virginity when she was very mature (her men experience and love life in her life when she was younger it was shitty, she had had very bad luck in the men department so she did not date or had a boyfriend either ever never) So lets say she met a guy that she clicked righta way of meeting him and the guy seem also to clicked with her just 5 years ago. Now she is 48, the guy is now 46. The guy were clear on something, that he will never be married in his future or have a serious or committed relationship with anyone, he enjoys being single and stay that way, but for him that did not mean he could not hang out with ladies and enjoy their company. The lady also told him at some point she does not think she will marry in her future either and form a familyThe thing is the guy seem to have the hots for her since they both met and she as also attracted to him. In summary even if they met for 5 years but were nothing serious jsut friends that´s all.

She jus tlost her V with the guy just 2 years ago, because she wanted he was the guy she felt so attracted tiat for her it was time to go for it, she did not feel any otehr attractiong with any other guy before, just this particular guy and she does not even know why this guy and not others, and also cause she was 47!!!

[Berethor]

A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, men fuck, women get fucked, and woman are the ones who might get pregnant, at least when she still young enough for that. A woman by her nature is more likely to get attached, a serious relationship tend to be more beneficial for a woman, a man can impregnant multiple women in a single year, while a a woman can give birth only once a year, a woman want a man to stay with her in case she get pregnant, and most men don't want to commit to slutty women and raise a child that is not their own, that's the main biological reasons for why virginity is valued in woman, while sluttiness lowers a woman's value.

A lady's virginity and the number of men that she has been is important, even if she was not aware of that, the lady has lost her precious virginity to the guy, and the guy's is the lady's first, and he would always stay her first, women tend to get attached more than men in general, and women tend to get attached to their first man above all, and it's also one of the reasons why woman's virginity is valued, because being a woman's first is a much more honorable position than being with a woman who was already fucked by many men. There are some men who go to a whore to lose their virginity, so obviously men don't tend to value their virginity as much as women, and men don't tend to get attached as much as women, but the lady's has no way to know if the guy was attached to his first, but after the guy has fucked many women then women and sex has lost much of their value to him, that's why the guy don't want to commit to any lady, the guy might value a ladies enough to want to fuck them, but he don't value a ladies to want to marry and have children with any of them.

The guy didn't even wanted to marry to a virgin lady, who was more of a wife material than the sluts that he has fucked before her, even though their age is likely also a factor for why the guy didn't marry and has children with the lady despite the fact that lady was a virgin and therefore more worthy for the guy's commitment than slutty ladies. Looks like the guy and the lady agree to a casual relationship for a fairly different reasons, the guy don't want a serious relationship because he don't get attached, while the lady agreed to a casual relationship because she become desperate, and felt that cause she is was already 47 that it's her only chance to have some intimacy, so the lady agreed to the guys terms, and lost her virginity to the guy, and the guy become her first, after that happen there is no going back, even though the lady might prefer to be married to the guy and have children with him.

[Berethor]

The fact that the guy's sexual past didn't made the guy any less attractive to her, it's also one of the reasons why men don't tend to value their virginity, if a woman was fucked by many men than she become much less attractive, even if she is looking sexy, if a men fucked many women then it's not makes him less attractive in the eyes of most women, so men and women are different, anyway it's fairly pointless for the lady to worry about guy's virginity after she already lost her virginity to a non-virgin guy, and in a casual relationship, if the lady wanted a guy who is also virgin then she should had thought about that before, but now it's too late, also virgins at those ages are very rare. So yea, obviously the guy is more special to the lady than the other way around, the guy is the lady's first, while she is not his first, and he likely been with many other ladies before her, or in other words, the guy's cock was the first cock that the lady has, while the guy had many other pussies before, that said, the guy should had still appreciated that the lady v-card to him, but the guy is not acting like he is valuing that.

[Berethor]

Because the guy don't seems to appreciate that the lady v-card to him then it means that the guy judge how good is his sex with the lady based mostly on the lady performances, an area in which the lady would have a hard time to compete with other ladies that the guy had sex with, so beside trying to improve so in the future the lady's sex with the guy would be 100% top notch, maybe the lady should texted the guy about how special he is to her, none of the lady's texts has mentioned that, also the guy would want to hear the lady say enjoyed having PIV with him, because it's the most important part for most guys. The guy is special to the lady, and the lady says that she like doing intimate stuff with the guy, so the lady need to keep the guy interested, and yes it's usually harder to keep an very sexually experienced guy interested, and the lady already taken that challenge upon herself, the moment when she has submitted to the guy's terms and lost her virginity to him.

[Haelaeix123]

The idea of virginity means nothing to me including my own when i had it. I also prefer being single and just moving through life outside of the relationship game

[Neko911]

They dont make it a big deal is why. Girls put value into it so they make it more important for themselves

[Asker]

Why for guys is not a big deal? I mean isn't that also impirtabt to have sex?

[Berethor]

It's important to the guy but in different way, for him it's like going to a bathroom, while to the lady it's important because the guy is her first, because the lady got attached to the guy.

[Asker]

@Berethor Guys could get attached too if they want to

[Berethor]

And ladies can have a casual mindset about sex if they want to? guys tend to be less emotional and more lustful than ladies, that's why the guy prefer a casual relationship.

[Asker]

@Berethor even if you are in a committed relationship not all guy sare like that

[shreya62]

Never understood this but I think this is how its works

[Plitty-Tank]

Men don't value it like women do.