How would it make you feel if your man could never get an erection?

Guys, what if you couldn't get an erection? How do you handle it?
How would it make you feel if your man could never get an erection?
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  • I would feel sad. I would really value her if she would stick with me even though I can't get hard. I can always drive her dildo for her. I would highly value her and her maturity that the relationship is not only about penetrative intercourse.

  • I mean, I’d worry more about how my partner felt as opposed to me so I’d go to the doctor’s and find some safe and efficient remedies.

    • What if the safe remedies didn't work?

    • I’ll find something lol. If I cannot, then I’d just use my hands, mouth, and maybe a strap-on harness or something.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It would be really bothersome. At least he’s still got his tongue, but I would really miss having regular, penis in vagina sex.

  • Well, he wouldn’t be my man anymore, so I don’t really have anything to worry about.

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  • Well, I'd try chemical aids first, then mechanical like diabetics do. If neither could help me, I'd try to figure out ways go get out with my partner all noodly like.

    Honestly, impotence is less of a terrifying thought than prostate cancer and never being able to get off again. That's when the life insurance would go up high, cheap boat, long trip, one way, life jackets off, big rocks on.

  • Never? Ever? Like hey never had or they lost that ability? Regardless a doctor would be good. I don’t think I would want to date somebody that couldn’t have sex with me in that way. I’d feel bad for them and try to help, but ultimately it might be a no-go.

  • Can’t viagra work for that?

    i Would be bothered bc it prob would make him feel badly... But I wouldn’t mind personally.. you don’t need a Weiner to be a good lover.. there is equipment and fingers for that.😌

    sometimes it even gets in the way.. those things can be impatient 😏😛

  • If I am dating someone, it's not for sex. It's because I love them, I want to spend my whole life with them, I want to be there for them and them for me. My boyfriend sometimes has a problem with getting an erection. His solution was to buy a strap on. Obviously he won't be able to experience as much pleasure as I do, but he only cares about getting me off and making sure I am satisfied.

  • Would he be okay watching you get fucked by someone else as long as you still loved him and wanted to be with him?

  • No no no

  • Never? dep. on reasons. A lot can work through.
    There are other ways to make love.
    How would I feel?
    I would feel, there were issues and we can both work through it. That he should not feel bad about it, we find other solution with or without penetration.
    True love is deeper than getting an erection...

    • What if you wanted to have children? This would severely complicate things. What if your body responded more to penetration than anything else? You're absolutely right about true love.

    • Certain things are deal breakers. Such as wanting children. wait.. can make babies without penetration nowadays... forgot... sex toys? thank goodness didn't have to get to that point. so wouldn't know exactly what i would do. lots of things in life is not predictable. embrace it.

  • I would support him and try to find a solution together...

    • And that is what it takes, 2 people that are in it for the good and bad.

  • they make pills for exactly that problem

  • Coming from a man standpoint if that happened will that's one less thing to worry about right

  • Just remember the marital oath:

    In sickness and in health...

  • How would it make you feel if your man could never get an erection?

    I'd learn engineering and construction ASAP...

  • I guess I would get really good at foreplay. Also find some kind of male strap-on that can do the job.
    Still... I would feel bad if I could not get it up. I would also look into natural herbs, Viagra, Cialis, and any other magic potion I could find that might get things going again. I love to make love!

  • He quite simply wouldn't be my man to start with.

  • It would be frustrating to not be able to please a woman

  • I would see a doctor.

  • That would really bother me.

  • how do you handle it lol... was that an intended pun?

  • Vigorously

    • I'm not sure what you mean by that.

    • You asked how I would handle it, vigorously. Stroking the shit out of it trying to get it hard

    • It was a joke

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  • Pretty much have to cup it and weep.

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