How would you feel if your so-called friend and your friends with benefits a 5 years just stop talking to you?

[Anonymous]

So my call best friend and friends with benefits of 5 years just randomly out the blue just stop talking with you. Now, with this so call best friend of mines lol. I kind of don't care, that she is gone tbh, but it dose makes a little annoyed. Yes, we was able with each other this year, about a month ago. And I did confront and asked her what was her deal, or if she was mad at me, and was she still trying to Fuck with me like that. And all she said, was that she was good, and how she was just tired. BITCH!! that's not even an answer, and what does that have anything to do with you talking to me. So just last week or the week before that, I ended up blocking her. Now on to my friends with benefits of 5 years, him and I have always been on and off like, and he usually returns back to months or years later. But with him, yes, it was only a sexual relationship we had. We had a good bond and connection with each other. And yes, feelings did took place back in (2014) on both ends, but over the years we have grown apart from each other, sadly. And yes we both have been sexually involved with others, mainly more of him. He is a whole hoe for the ladies, but for some odd crazy reason, I just can't stop loving and wanting him. We haven't talked since Dec the 11th or 17th, that was are last encounter, it was chill vibes that day. The best time every with him, but by the next day, we both went completely. So I waited each and every day to see if he was going to hit me up. I even went MIA off social media for awhile to see if he would miss me and mgs me like he usually would. But nothing, so I said. Fuck this! So I ended up Blocking him. But, anyways, I'm just curious to why these two loser cut me off and just stop talking with me. With the girl, she is lame af and I have been nothing but a friend to her, even when everyone else cut her off and she did some low down dirty stuff to me. Now with my friends with benefits. I been easy pussy for him continue reading update question..

[Anonymous]

Maybe your friend is going through something or she’s depressed. You never know, but it doesn’t sound like you really care so just let it go. Maybe she’ll reach out again but if she doesn’t, then the time of you to being friends is just over.
As far as the guy, if you guys have an on and off relationship, this was probably an off time and maybe he would come back around later. But also he could be giving his attention to some other girl and that’s why he’s backing off right now. Either way, he has too much control over your relationship, and he probably knows he can just pop in and out of your life when he feels like it. Just leave him alone, find a new friends with benefits and build a connection with them

[Asker]

I like your respond, you seem very wise and you understood me. And yes: with the girl, you are absolutely right. And I was able to speak with her this year like a month ago. And I confronted her and asked her was her and I still cool, was she mad at me. And if she wasn't trying to deal with me, then I understand. And she got back to me later on that day, and said how she was gud and how she has been tired. But truth is, what do you being tired has anything to do with talking to me. She tends to be on Facebook often and tagg a few people in certain things. So, I said fuck it!! And blocked her. It's already feb 6th. And I haven't heard from her since are last talk. And with my old friends with benefits he is a whole hoe for the ladies, but he has made it clear to me when he isn't speaking with me. Then more then likely he is dealing with another girl. It's just crazy- how he just went completely silence and stop talking with me. He didn't block me or anything- and from the last time we talk, it was last year Dec 11th or 17th. It was chill vibes and he said he had a good time with me. So more then likely.. It's probably b. c of another girl smh. But it's whatever he is also blocked too. Either of them haven't been a friend to me.. So I don't need them. Yes I do miss him, because him and I had a better connection and he was there for me emotionally not just physical. And she was there for me emotionally, but certain things I would tell her, she didn't seem like she really cared. Like there was times that I told you that I wasn't feeling good. And all she would just say was get some sleep or nothing. And when I told him, he seemed to have more sympathy and said I hope you feel better and he checked up on me from time to time. I been knowing her longer, but she hasn't really been a friend to me. So letting her go, I'm good.

[Asker]

BUT she is trying to get custody of her kids again. And she is suffering from depression. But I feel like, if she could talk or speak to other people, then why aren't you not speaking with me. She gets mad a few years back, when her friends aka Zoe blocked her and stop speaking with her. But I get it, some friendships are not meant to last for ever. but don't treat me like an outcast just simply let me go and be gone out of my life. There is a lot of ish she has done to me, but good and bad. She really don't have lots of friends, nor do I. But I know more people then her. So she's not the only one I need around.

[Anonymous]

can you just do a too long didn't read version? Your paragraphs are way too long. You need to break them up next time

[Asker]

Okay I will. But was you able to read the whole thing

[misterxxxxx]

I would not care just friend with benefits

[Asker]

And also what about the girl

[misterxxxxx]

I am talking about both sides because were you dating?

[misterxxxxx]

It was just sex with a "friend"

[misterxxxxx]

No strings attached conseqnces for the type of relation ship

[Asker]

I never dated the guy or girl. I been his on and off friends with benefits for 5 years, and with her. I been knowing her since like middle school. But, people do change.

[misterxxxxx]

Why do care it is just friends with benifits

[misterxxxxx]

Wait did you like him

[Asker]

I was thinking to myself. Like: what did I ever do to them.

[Asker]

You clearly didn't read my whole question. Maybe if you read the whole thing, you will understand where I'm getting at. I know it's pretty long. But you should read iy

[misterxxxxx]

I like to think both parties had it part in the whole thing

[misterxxxxx]

See people never bear the full story there is always 2 sideds to one coin

[misterxxxxx]

And i am gonna sleep it 4 am i dont understand why humand care about small stuff like this when world is dying

[Asker]

Yeah. I was able to talk with her this year like a month. And I did ask her what was her deal, was she still talking with me or not. Then all she said was she was good and how she was tired. Tired.. Frfr WOW. That BITCH!!! Never been a friend tbh, and every guy that I allow her to meet she either liked them or try to push me away from them. She is married but cheated on her husband multiple times. And I don't know for some odd reason, I feel like that her and him low key are talking or fucking each other. But he has mentioned to me before how he doesn't like what girls and he wouldn't talk to anybody I know.

[misterxxxxx]

She might use you to get men or get something from men depends she might be a bad person or just be alone and afraid we never know what or who someone really is night

[misterxxxxx]

But you can not change the past better to forget and make better friends and learn from the past

[Asker]

I know I shouldn't care. But I do. And yes!! I do and did like him. I shared my self with him more then enough. My one guy friend! Maybe sex with us. got old and boring to him maybe the new girl he do stuff with and maybe has a new connection and bone work. She said, it's possible that he could return later but why wait around for someone that clearly left you.

[misterxxxxx]

O and a good way to take out rage is to play fighting games and stuff like that it help me or exrices

[misterxxxxx]

He is using you let go

[misterxxxxx]

Dont let him i would let you use me so he does not abuse you by using you

[misterxxxxx]

He is probably a fuckboy

[misterxxxxx]

Look this may take time to get rid and over him but it is better than being used as tool

[Asker]

I mean white. Yeah. Do you think they are fooling around. I know they both have kids. She doesn't even have her two kids with her, there is a lot of ish that She has going on smh. And with him, he says his baby mama was trying to get custody of there son, he still out there selling drugs and fucking.

[misterxxxxx]

I read drugs leave him0

[misterxxxxx]

He is fuckboy drug dealer you might die with him some day and he will use you please

[Asker]

I wouldn't use anyone. I did: but that was with my ex FB. But I felt bad, b c my ex boyfriend wanted to try things again with me. This was like a few years back

[misterxxxxx]

Die horrible death just go to a party with good friends search for someone shy and quiet who looks nervuis around girls that is better matarial because he won't want to use you prob just ask around before hand

[misterxxxxx]

Sorry took long die horribble is becaise drug dealer

[misterxxxxx]

Asker you can friend if you want am a bit tired gonna rest

[misterxxxxx]

Please stay safe and becareful friend

[Asker]

I know and I know. It's just so weird, not hear his voice and having him around. OMG!! I want him in every kind of way. Like, this was the first time that he did his Hit and Run. A psychic told me that he'll be back, and how he's waiting for me to make the first move with communication. But knowing my friends with benefits he is a very bold person, if he really wanted to talk, he knows how too. And I have been trying to make myself not care- but ugh!! I just can't. I think about him like 24/7. He is one guy that I have allowed myself to do more stuff with him smh. And the last time that We physically seeing each other, it was chill vibes like even after the sex- we just listen to music and laughed and talked until he had to go get his son. And when I was sick, he was there to comfort me. He hasn't been a good friends with benefits or friend: but he would check up on me to see if I was OKAY. And when I wasn't feeling good, he always would tell me to feel and get better. With the girl, she didn't even do that. And even when I would tell her How I felt sick. She just said get some rest or sleep. But sh3 wanted me to always hangout with her and drink. I'm like, bitch I have work in the morning. I have been knowing her longer- but him and I vibe better. She understood me to a degrading because she is a female. But I felt more connected with him. I'm not going to say I lost my best friend. B. c he was an ass and a jerk to me years back. and the only difference between them two. No she don't sell drugs. But th3y both smoke weed smh. Sometimes she do.

[sherlocked2]

was it your first sex

[Asker]

No. The 1st time he just stop really talking with him

[sherlocked2]

you were fuckbuddy. nevermind

[Asker]

It's crazy. Like he didn't block me, i felt like I should have Waited a little longer. But, whatever.

[sherlocked2]

if you want. send message be happy dude :)

[Asker]

Well. I have it set up on my mind how I want to connect to him. Hehe. But,.. I don't know he may be seeing or dating someone.. So.. Yeah

[sherlocked2]

Maybe send message come on dude 😂😂