What things do you struggle to communicate to your partner (s) about your sexual preferences or fantasies?

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It can be hard to admit to someone that you want something if you’re scared they might judge you for it, or not be into it. Ideally in a perfect relationship, there’s enough trust and open communication that you feel comfortable discussing everything with them, but that’s much easier said than done.

Data would suggest that the majority of men prefer to be dominant while the majority of women prefer to be submissive. Then there’s a portion of each that are switches - I can’t remember the stats but ill try to update later with the proportions of each. So knowing that the majority of women want a dominant guy and that the submissive role doesn’t match society’s typical idea of ‘masculinity’, do any guys feel shy to admit they are submissives or want to try it?

Do you think guys or girls have a harder time admitting they have fantasies that they think are embarrassing or might be rejected? Or do you think it’s not related to gender?

Girls, are you shy to admit you want to be a dom?

What kinds of things do you find difficult to discuss? Pain play? Degradation? Humiliation? Age play? Role play? ‘Watersports’?
What things do you struggle to communicate to your partner (s) about your sexual preferences or fantasies?
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