A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.
Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.
And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.
Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.
Also, look into videos for:
A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).
That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.
I'm guessing that guy here already gave some pretty good guidelines. So I'll give small tips and hints people forget.
Uncircumcised dicks have the head half tucked away. Don't be afraid to rub it back to get on it better.
Use rytm.
Touch his body. If he has sensitive thighs, fingers over it will feel good. Balls always work but depends on the person. Lots of guys got a sensitive spot on their stomach or ribs. The base of the shaft is also quite sensitive and often overlooked.
Teeth are scary. I got scars from a girl trying to deep throat but she got spooked by her gag reflex and bit down. If he likes danger it's a way to mix it up, but make him feel safe. It really hurts.
When you hum or moan on a dick. It's like having a vibrator on a clit.
You can take breaks to rub. The temperature difference can make it more sensitive.
Once a guy starts in his orgasm. It wil take a few secconds before the milk comes. And it takes a little more before the orgasm ends. This is when you pull out if you don't want to slick. And where you keep going if you ain't gonna spit.
Nothing is gonna top that quite. But be confident. He is giving you control over what may or not be his future family line. Being insecure or really brash is going to freak him out.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!To keep the answer simple, it like asking a girl why she likes cunnilingous.
More complex answer is oral sex can feel more intimate than PIV.
It also may lead to stronger orgasm for us guys.
And if she swallows, we (at least for me) feel loved.
Eye contact goes a long way. Also, nice and wet and sloppy is good. Rub the balls squeeze them lick them suck them. Any attention to the balls is good, just dont forget them. Also the head is really sensitive any licking or sucking or tounge movement there is going to be wild. I'm aware it takes time and I've never sucked dick so I know I can't say too much, but taking as much of the penis in as possible feels great, but I'm aware that is difficult and not easy.
I guess because it feels good when they cum
Yeah... And swallowing is the best part
A cigarette😉
I feel special like she is really into me by performing an unselfish act on me. In a weird way I feel a little powerful. She doesn't really have to play with anything else.
Oh there are so many things lol... play with my balls (but not too rough lol) - mouthing and kissing and licking them too. Stroke the base... play with my ass (outside and inside...) - feel free to touch my inner thighs and massage my stomach... reach up and play with my nipples... it's all so pleasurable :)
do it slow and play with my balls...
Licking and sucking my balls and then swallowing wow
I like my balls fondled gently, cupped, and sucked if she's into doing that.
Regarding my shaft, I like it stroked or licked.
Regarding my dick head, suck, suck suck. Swirl tongue around.
Please for the love of god do not suck a guys balls like a vacuum cleaner, it fucking hurts.
Cause it feels amazing...
I like it sloppy with lots of spit. I like some variety too like spend time sucking and licking just the head then maybe stroke me and lick my balls and then take me deep. I like finishing in her mouth and don't get upset if she spits but really love if she swallows.
Yea I swallow
Nice
Always😏
The harder an faster u go while playing with them.
God Bless
As long as there's no biting I'm ok with most anything
I prefer pussy on my cock rather than a girls mouth
Why?
@jgirl99 because I like the feel of the warmth and wetness and I want her to cum just as much as I want to cum. If she is going to give me oral, I would rather 69 so we both do oral.
Okay yea I get that
I need a hand on my dick and I love ball play with both hand and mouth.
When she also uses her hand, when she caresses my balls, rhythm changes and her naughty look when she is about to make me orgasm
I don't like receiving at all. But I'd tolerate it during 69.
Why not?
I find it degrading for her.
Really? How come?
Tickle the frenulum rapidly with the tip of your tongue and massage his balls very softly. Let his penis thrust into your mouth
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