My boyfriend told me that he messed with a tranny in high school is he into men?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend said that he met a tranny online and they messed around. He said she performed oral on him , and ate his butt. He stated that he tried to have sex with her but couldn’t get hard. We have been together for two years and he just disclosed this with me. It just makes me wonder is he into men. He also said there’s more that he wants to tell me but that’s going to take time. With the transsexual he said that she “kinda” looked feminine, but she’s bigger and taller than him. He said that he jacked her off for a “little” but he didn’t like it so he stopped. He told me that he knew she was transsexual before meeting up with her. He also described the size of her penis. I am not judging my boyfriend, but it just makes me wonder is he attracted to men. I know that the transsexual identified as a female , however she still had all her male parts & she hadn’t started her transition with hormones yet. In addition my boyfriend is really into anal sex and he has a fascination with butts and smelling my butt (cleaned and uncleaned) he prefers uncleaned. is this because he has a secret desire to be with a man , but is afraid to act on it? I don’t want to ask him , because I don’t want to offended him or make him feel like he shouldn’t have told me. Regardless of the answer I still love him , I just can’t get this off of my mind.

[Gabriel007]

I think you already know the answer to your question, you are just not listening hard enough to your own intuition, as a woman you should never ignore that voice in your head...
I get that this is a big thing and you want to hear what other poeple think and their opinions and you are scared of making a mistake...
So without knowing him or the grunt of the story it is impossible to say for certain, but in my opinion it does sound like he has curiosities towards sexual contact with other men and has at least thought about it...

[Asker]

I just think he’s curious or was curious I’m not sure. It just makes me wonder because he also said “there’s more” .. not with her but more that he’s done and not yet ready to talk about it. && I don’t wanna pressure him.

[Gabriel007]

Then don't pressure him,,, endure a little, but this is probably already eating, knawing at your brain and is putting strain on yourself? Sooo if you can then endure a while, give him a chance to tell you himself, but if I read the situation correctly, this will mean that it is gonna put mental pressure and strain on you yourself in return, until he talks to you,,, so just watch that and if it gets too much then you really don't have any other choice than to communicate to him that you need to know, which is actually pressuring him into telling you, otherwise it is bad for your own mental health and peace and your own life, it would be like keeping poison in your system willingly at that point and then there really is only a couple of possible outcomes, none are good,,, outcome one, you crack and DEMAND to know now, which will be interpreted as hostile and will make it a hostile issue woth negative effects on relationship fundamentals, such as truts, two, you get past the point of caring and switch it off, in which case the relationship might as well be over, because once that switch is off it is off and him trying to tell you anything deep and personal after that will just irritate you, three, you decide you can't take it and you convince yourself it's a toxic relationship and you leave him after a while, while it is something that could *possibly* be resolved by communication... Disclaimer this is all based on assumptions as I really don't know you nor him,, I am simply putting myself in the scenario and interpreting it through a lense of my own life experiences (especially with relationships), of which I have A LOTA...

[Adolf-Hitler]

Trannies are not permitted in the Reich.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Nah. There's nothing at all gay about that. smh

[Asker]

I am not saying it makes him “gay” I am asking does he have sexual attraction towards men. Simply because she still had all her male parts and he was aware and also engaged in oral and gave her a handjob.

[Nachowedgie]

Yup, literally the definition of it

[Asker]

Because she still had her male parts? Just curious to know why...

[Nachowedgie]

"My boyfriend said that he met a tranny online and they messed around. He said she performed oral on him , and ate his butt" "Him" Because it's a man not a woman. Your boyfriend sucked a guys dick and ate his ass. He's into men.

[Asker]

He referred to her as “her”, also she’s the one that preformed oral and ate his butt. All he said that he did was touch her for a little bit and stopped because he didn’t like it and tired to have sex but couldn’t get hard.

[Nachowedgie]

If he engaged in sexual activities with a man e. g receiving a blowjob and rimming then he's into men, it's really that simple.

[Nachowedgie]

Also because you mentioned it in another comment but not here. If your boyfriend gave him a hand job then he's definitely into men xD