My first guess would be that you were raised in an environment that was rigid and not accepting of people that are different than you. Perhaps it was your parents, your church, your friends or maybe all of them.
How do you feel about people of a different race or religion or ethnicity? If you don't really like those people either, then maybe it's a general dislike of anyone that's not like you. Sadly, that's a widespread problem.
People like different things. We like different foods, we like different kinds of jobs, we like different cars, we like our homes decorated in different ways, and we like different activities. We're different in many ways, so isn't it reasonable that people have different sexual interests as well?
I wouldn't want someone telling me that I can't eat the food that I like or that I can't work at a job that I like or can't have the car that I like or can't decorate my home the way that I like or do the kinds of things that I like to do on my free time or that I can't have sex with the woman that I love, so it certainly wouldn't be fair for me to deny someone else the right to any of those things.
As a 100% heterosexual man, I personally find the idea of two men having sex very unappealing, but I am accepting of guys that choose to do that. People can have different interests and desires and that's fine.
I'm a firm believer in "live and let live" and that anyone should be able to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't harm anyone else. I think that if everyone had that attitude the world would be a much happier place with a lot less conflict.
It's good that you seem to recognize that your feelings are unreasonable. That puts you ahead of a lot of people. Perhaps if you try to focus on the fact that sexual preference is just one of many ways that humans differ and that everyone should be allowed to do the things that make them happy (as long as they don't hurt anyone else), maybe in time you'll be able to overcome whatever has led you to feel the way you do and be more accepting of everyone, including people that have a different sexual preference than you do.
It also would be good if you can see that gay men in a mutually desired relationship are completely different than pedophiles and child molesters. Pedophiles and child molesters are hurting other people. Gay men that love each other are not. In fact, they're doing just the opposite - making each other happy. Can you really hate people for making each other happy?
Not exactly how would consider making other people happy It's like walking on the street naked , your not hurting anyone but it's not right I only have a firm disgust towards people with different sexualities even though I shouldn't I'm very much comfortable around women , black people , hindus and muslims My parents thought me that they are human beings that need to be respected My parents however thought me that homosexuality is an mental illness , they said it's harmless but not right Even if it's two consensual adults trying to make each other happy And even if my parents didn't teach , I still feel that homosexuality is a deviation from the natural biological design Men and women are literally designed to be mate with each other I'm not forcing anything but it's just how I feel
I think you have your answer right here: "My parents however thought me that homosexuality is an mental illness , they said it's harmless but not right" It's often difficult to overcome attitudes that are taught by parents. Some people are able to, but it can be difficult even if they realize that what their parents taught them wasn't right. And then there are many that don't even try to overcome it and don't even question what they were taught. I respect you for recognizing the situation for what it is and hopefully working on overcoming that. A lot of people don't do that. Here's a question I have for you and your parents. If all the other groups of people you mentioned "are human beings that need to be respected" (which I agree with), why are homosexuals different? They're human beings too. Why should they be hated rather than respected? As long as the sexual activity is between consenting adults and isn't hurting anyone why is that so bad?
Like I said before it's like walking naked on the street , it's harmless because your seeing a human body but it's not right is it? To walk naked? That's how I see homosexuals I see them as humans but just broken ones I genuinely respect my parents and my parents are respectful to others even they have a different view Also my parents are doctors so I guess they have a sense of it But I just.. you know can't make myself accept homosexuals They can do whatever it is there are doing but not in public For some reason I'm more comfortable with lesbians than gay men
I'm guessing you were brought up when that life style was not accepted. Like myself I'm not a big fan of most gay huys. The whole im gay look at me show they put on and there close minded political views makes me really annoyed. With all that said I do have a few gay friends. They are decent people. The are not flamers. They keep there politics to them selfs. I actually enjoy them. So I guess I'm saying thatI don't dislike gay people. I don't agree with there lifestyle. I DISLIKE RUDE BIG MOUTH ATTENTION GRABBING gay people..
I also ask you to focus your anger more on these Pedophiles. Most gay people are good people. All Pedopiles are Evil. There is not near enough being done to protect are kids
Yes but for some reason I have the same disgust for homosexuals just slightly lower than Pedophiles
Do you not like or wish your feelings were different.
At least a bit tolerant I honestly don't think homosexualities is normal but it's ok for them be like that One of the things I'm scared is that pedophilia might be a sexual orientation like homosexualities Which is why I'm a bit hesitant even tho their both different
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Maybe because you were raised that way? Parents? Church? other Family members? ...
But as you said, they don't affect your life in any way.
Yea but I don't like how they show affection in public It's like people walking naked on the street Your not hurting anyone but it's still wrong
Seems like it’s just how you are
But I hate pedophiles and child molester Everyone does But I also seen to hate homosexuals in a slightly lower passion of hate
I read that and as I said, it seems to be just how you are.
Is this bad?
Maybe you could work that out with a therapist. Don't see how it is relevant to the rest of us.
Ur homophobic
Bite me
😄 Dude, u said u can't stand them and that u r disgusted by their very existence. U r literally the textbook definition of homophobia (and u know it)
Homophobia ain't the right word Anti homosexuality is more appropriate Ok so you called me a homophobe , good accomplishment Feel better about yourself now
you don't have to accept anyone... but politically keep your views to yourself and be fake. That's what society wants. Fake acceptance and fake love.
Because they are a disgusting breed.. abomination of humans
You're not alone. Homosexuality is unnatural yet some try to force feed us with it like it's something good. Paedos are pathetic individuals. Both homosexuality and paedophilia are acts of wickedness and things to be disgusted with, not proud of.
I agree with you
You were raised in a society that that isn't used to gays. If you were brought up Greece back in the day you would be sucking cock and loving it.
You’re older. Its a generational thing.
I don't know, maybe evolution?
Get over it & don't worry about how someone else lives their life.
They can do whatever they want indoors but if I'm in a restaurant and they kiss each other is what makes me uncomfortable
No way... not at all interested.
Obviously you know that you have strong homosexual tendencies. Thinking about gay men brings out your innermost desire to suck a cock
I understand where come from most people who are homophobic are caught doing gay stuff I'm the exception I have no desire to even look at a man sexually , even majority of my porn collection is lesbian porn So don't assume things , just to justify my hatred
didn't youu say that lesbians were barely tolerable in your question and now you say thats mostly what you wack off to?
@mohawk3283 yes for some reason I enjoy them in porn knowing that they don't really mean it or are just doing it for the sake of entertainment
That's the definition of homophobia. i. e, ACTUAL homophobia, where you have an irrational fear of homosexuals. But since it's an actual phobia, you're perfectly entitled to state that you can't help it, any more than an arachnophobe can help being afraid of spiders. It's just the way you are...
More like an urge to kill them but yes some what yea I never killed anyone by the way
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