Not sure where you are getting that the Qur'an doesn't mention circumcision but it is mentioned in the Hadith literature Sunnah. Even Islamic scholars have debated whether or not circumcision should be carried out by the convert. I personally think you are reading a lot into the Muslim religion. Converting to the Muslim religion isn't like converting to Catholicism. You don't just show up to confession on occasion and your are classified as Muslim. It truly is a religion that is practiced when you feel like it. It's a lifestyle that is all consuming. I think you need to give this a lot of thought and not rush into getting clipped. Also just because someone is a doctor doesn't mean that they have skills in plastic surgery techniques that would be necessary for a delicate procedure such as this. She may be a doctor but how many adult circumcisions has she preformed? That is like going to a gynecologist and expecting to get a knee replacement. I think you would be wise to consult with local Islamic scholar such as an Imam who is the head religious leader of a local mosque. They would be able to offer you guidance and support for making a smooth transition into the Muslim faith.
No, all you have do is go to an Iman and say, "I agknowledge that there is no god but Allah, Muhammed is his prophet"
Every Muslim I've talked to told me it's required
I am not gonna select an answer on the poll because I'm afraid I don't have enough information the weigh in here. Just because she has finished med school doesn't mean she is a licensed urologist or surgeon. Have you thought about where you would do it? With what medications for pain? I have this image of her with a scalpel and you strapped on a table covered in plastic... I would at the very least go to a consult with your fiance to a surgeon or urologist before hand at the absolute VERY least. At the end of the day as a man is skrimping to save as risk worth taking on your penis... if she cuts too much or too little it can cause some pretty serious problems. I would think long and hard before letting someone pick up a scalpel. Then don't think hard for a while after or you might tear your stitches! 😂
More like bad idea, don't get it done, at all! You really wouldn't mind your penis getting dry and scabbing? Your foreskin is your penis. It's a like a flap that overlaps and then goes inward to where your urethra is. Imagine a bridge and then picture the middle collapsing. No more traffic and a long time to repair before anyone can cross again. The repair is your body trying to scavenge what's left of the bridge to make it work again.
I don't like the idea that it's done to kids, but at least they got it done early because they wouldn't have sex for another 15 years. You, on the otherhand, are in adulthood and going to get married, meaning you won't be able to enjoy sex for a while, my friend.
Really? How long is "a while"?
Recommended is supposedly 42 days
That's not too bad
In your situation, I wouldn't have her to do it. If something goes awry, it could seriously damage your relationship.
It could damage more than the relationship
Agreed and you don't want to risk her being the one to do that. Go with an experienced surgeon.
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Every now and again a question crops up that leaves me with genuinely no answer.
This one falls into that category.
Check with her family if it's ok before you go asking.
It's beginning to sound more like a troll to me.
It is usually considered a conflict of interest for a close family member to perform any medical procedure on you. This includes a romantic interest. The exception to this is in an urgent medical situation, which this is not.
It's also a bad idea unless she is a urologist.
There is a lot of pain involved I hear. It's up to you. Just don't piss her off beforehand or they will be calling you "shorty".
Wouldn't you want someone with experience doing that procedure?
Don't snip your foreskin. You will loose pleasure and won't last as long or will last too long.
An adult man who converts to islam does not need to undergo circumcision in order to be accepted into islam.
Are you sure? The Quran says all Muslim men must be circumcised. And I saw a documentary when European men converted to Islam and they got circumcised.
This whole scenario seems highly suspect. Are you telling me you’ve committed to convert to Islam and marry but haven’t done any actual research on the matter of having your penis cut?
From what I know, ALL Muslim men must be circumcised.
get it jone in a registered clinic by someone else if you must get it done at all
Are you sure she is OK with seeing your penis and touching it prior to marriage?
It’s not like she will be able to do it in your living room so there will still be costs endured
Why not?
Because she could lose her medical license. Just because you’re a doctor doesn’t mean you can do pro bono work any where any time. As an adult, this is like a surgery and they usually use anesthesia... it’s not like a newborn having it done. Even then people say there’s pain involved and it’s cruel
If she wants to do that for you and has adequate skill, it seems OK. Hopefully she is not" circumcised" (clitoridectomy).
I had it done as an adult, i prefer it, yes it hurts a bit the first couple days, but its not that big a deal.
As for whether she should do it, id suggest she find someone who is actually experienced at it. By all means she can give her preferences, though most women who have a preference its for tight.
Ew.. no.
Sounds like a bad idea.
I also don't get why you would be willing to switch religions and have your genitals surgically altered for a girl.
She's perfect for me in every other aspect
C: Don't be stupid, just pretend it's happened, who's going to see?
Or have her make a small nick, like the lip service some people do to FGM, if she's really committed.
Since when is C then : a smiley?
Sure. Don't forget to save the foreskin; makes a great garnish for a salad!
Fucking GROSS dude!
Most anonymous (what's up with that?) posters are far grosser. I didn't mean raw? Sautee in oil or stir fry till crispy and break it into bits.
Talk about high stakes
Let somebody else do it.
WHO?
NO GO TO AN ACTUAL DOCTOR
She IS an actual doctor
I don't know I wouldn't do it. Go to a doctors office or whatever and get it done.
fuck it dude, its a freebie 😂
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