My partners friend want to eat me out?

[Maya09]

Im a submissive and love being humiliated so how could i make that a submissive act? Usually pussy licking makes the man a submissive. I want them alphas

[tibit]

Honestly, the submissive component to it is a mentality of power and control. If you are struggling with the balance of power it is because you feel like you would be in control and no longer submissive. The question here is how would you relinquish power within the context of the act? Examples could be getting tied down or pinned in order for it to occur, but the reality is that if they are to be dominant and the idea was expressed then it's up for the dominant individuals to decide how to best do that within the limits set between those involved. This doesn't mean you have no say. Safe words and signaling are always a good idea when engaging in kinky play. Also prep materials as nessesary for the acts as well as recovery (blankets and water, are just as important as the materials used to tie someone down. Always be sure to have communication when dealing with rope work of any kind of restraints so as not to cause injury outside of intended play thresholds.) That being said if you have any other question you can always dm me and i would be glad to assist you in any way I can.

[wankiam]

surely a guy could only see it as submissive if it didn't also give him pleasure to do it in the first place

[mat_username]

He can tie you. And talk to you a little, telling you what will happen next. But the most interesting part is that he can totally control if and when you have and orgasm. You might end up begging him to let you come

[nirraddog]

Have him tie you up so he has complete control and you have none

[Steve37]

Perhaps he can humiliate you with words while he eats you.

[Usernamesrdumb]

How does pussy licking make one submissive? I have way more control over my tongue than my penis.

[CharlieDMX]

Depends. If you're bound and gagged, it is definitely a submissive move. It is a dominant move when you force it on him

[Plitty-Tank]

Not that shocking that men likes to do that.

[AustinSawyer]

I consider it a neutral area considering I honestly enjoy it but if you include orgasm denial and teasing it puts the man in charge

[Maya09]

Men should always be in charge. Im a hole...

[dany018]

Men is in charge by attitude; if hd decides when and how he goes down on you, he's a top. The thing with pussy eating is that your natural lube has pheromones that create sexual attraction in men. That is the reason why we are happy to lick and even swallow the stuff