Girls choose guys based on looks too specially for sexual attraction. You have to be tall, muscular or fit and extremely confident to be seen as hot by girls. Other than that girls just use you for their emotional needs or resources.
@Mamamialetmego For me no everyone I have dated has been the exact opposite of that. I tend to steer clear of relationships as they are too time-consuming and emotionally draining.
So you dated short, skinny, insecure guys. Do you find them hot? I bet you not.
@Mamamialetmego I go for personality so I once dated a guy 17 years older than me, 5ft3, he had psoriasis all over and wasn't the best of lookers. He wasn't built he was thin but not skinny. What made me fall for him was the first time I saw him. He was happy and smiling just joking with his friends. I was married to a guy a bit taller than me. He was ok looking but I trusted him as we had been best friends for ages and I got drunk one night looked at him and thought you know, you're not bad looking lets do this. My last boyfriend was faaaar from skinny quite shamefully I went out with him. He was a little on the over large size to the point where sex was limited to a certain position but we got on and had lots of fun.Never have I been with a guy with a tonne of muscle. I used to own a bar back in the day. This guy used to come in and talk to me all the time. Really tall and muscular. He made a comment about me liking him and I laughed and said not that way. He was so shocked I didn't throw myself at him his face was a picture but I was desperate to say go get a personality and come back but I did not. Muscular and tall is not my thing. See looks change people get old and put on weight but if you're with a guy who you can be best friends with that never fades!Needless to say all the guys I chose were as ugly inside as they were out but I never found that out until too late.
Further to that now because I have had bad experiences with ugly or ok looking guys I am now dating about to find my match and ye I am taking looks into consideration now because of what the past guys did. The large guy totally broke my heart he did that because he was low in confidence and self esteem so he enjoyed ripping me down. At least if someone tears me down they can be good looking now
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Simple and factual answer
Bloody truth, though
Not a simple dude.. a HOT dude. And I'm pretty sure they have standards.. because if they didn't you would see hot guys dating fat and ugly girls
Some of you are very slow.So what's your problem? Women from the states? Not a big deal. Trash those bitches and move on to better grounds.Every one is better than the trash from USA. You will learn this one way to van other. L:et then die old and alone with 30 cats.
Yes I do