Do you see every hot guy or hot girl with someone equally attractive? Usually, but not all the time. Hot girls especially will make exceptions for average looking guys if they have something else going for them (usually their mouth)
Are you just looking to get laid? Or a relationship? If you are just looking to have sex it's not going to be difficult at all if you are least semi pretty and a woman. When you say thick and curvy, what do you mean? Do you just have a bigger butt, but workout and it's firm/muscle? Or you obese? I've met women who were a bit thicker but were athletic. They had sexy confidence when they walk around. I could tell they had something going for them. Even though I prefer cute petite girls I would made plenty of exceptions for them.
If you are heavier I would focus on resistance exercise, especially squats. It will firm up your legs. Also guys are much less picky than women when it comes to sex. There are plenty of athletic guys out there who are NOT born natural comedians/extroverts but we still want to get laid (that was me in my 20s). Just being good looking as a guy doesn't give you free pass to bang anyone you want. It only gives you leeway to act more aggressive/forward and make sexual jokes/comments without repercussion. A average looking guy doesn't get away with this (he gets called a creep).
With that said even good looking guys can still be paranoid (thanks to all the metoo crap) so some play it safe. Many are genetically introverts. Also some have a low self esteem because if they have been single for a while people question their sexuality (not fair). But even the best looking guys have to put some effort in and still have insecurities.
Just get on tinder and post a few moderately (but not over) suggestion pics. Smile at some guys you see around places. Don't be too aggressive, but start a pleasant conversation. He will get the hint. If they are interested they will take it from there.
But do NOT expect them to fall in love with you. They
Hot guys, by definition, have lots of women who find them attractive, and many of those women will throw themselves at him, which means a hot guy will have a lot of options for sex, and, since he has plenty of options to choose from, will often choose only those who he finds really attractive (and that doesn't necessarily mean skinny girls, though that's often the case). But those guys might also choose a girl because she's convenient and no-hassle about giving him casual sex, even if she's not necessarily his type.
It's incredibly difficult to get a RELATIONSHIP from a hot guy unless he thinks you're hot too (and, unless he thinks his friends will think you're hot as well), but if you're willing to give him convenient, no-hassle casual sex, you can get a pretty hot guy fairly easily. Just don't be under any illusions that it's going to become more than just sex.
Yes! not going to lie men are shallow. Guys moan about being friend-zoned the reason that doesn't happen to women is because if a guy doesn't like the way you look he won't make effort with you. The amount of average-good-looking guys I know that moan about shallow guys and talk about their girlfriends having more about them and that he chose his for personality blah blah then I meet the girlfriend and she looks like barbie and is incredibly high maintenance with the personality of a fish and I'm like "yeah you sure chose her on personality alone". I know hot guys with curvy girls but they've been with them from being young and they have kids together so the girl was hot when they met.
I fully expect to receive 1000 thumbs down and argumentative guys claiming this isn't true but find me a celeb couple with a good looking guy and a curvy girl that started dating when she was curvy and he's not with her for money. I bet you can't. I used to be fat now I am not the attention I get is so different. Also if I put makeup on I get looked at a lot more than when I don't. They say they want a natural girl but what they want is naturally perfect. Girls have make up for a reason if girls based their choices solely on looks guys would be the ones wearing it!
Girls choose guys based on looks too specially for sexual attraction. You have to be tall, muscular or fit and extremely confident to be seen as hot by girls. Other than that girls just use you for their emotional needs or resources.
@Mamamialetmego For me no everyone I have dated has been the exact opposite of that. I tend to steer clear of relationships as they are too time-consuming and emotionally draining.
So you dated short, skinny, insecure guys. Do you find them hot? I bet you not.
1st off the average Instagram "model" is as shallow as a puddle; self-centered look-at-me bimbos. Back 1980ish their sort was called Valley Girls & wasn't viewed with much respect. Trophies in a way & to be blunt disposable if something 'better' comes along because there's no real connection in the relationship (aside from sex).
The same could be said of look-at-me "hot" guys. The dimwitted muscle-bound jock laughed at in spoof movies because he thinks he's grand but ultimately as useless as mud. I've encountered "hot" guys (as a naturally attractive never-needed makeup woman) who I wouldn't touch with a ten-foot barge pole if they were the last man on earth their personality is just that shallow, self-centered & all-around boring.
Now it depends on what you mean by curvy? I am curvy. Most men actually like a woman with curves over some half-starved omg I’ve put on a pound bimbo. But I am also a physically fit curvy. It's a curvy that attracts a lot of attention that as I’m with a guy I widely ignore.
If it’s curvy as in fat/obese then yes anyone is gonna have a problem & that includes heavier guys. It also depends on what you want. If you’re just after casual sex or a relationship.
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Everyone likes something different, especially when it comes to features and body builds.
Some like curvy, others like thin.
Some like blondes, others like brunettes (or any other hair color).
Some like short girls, some like tall girls.
I think it really depends on the guy and what he's into.
Yes, it's possible. I've lost 117 pounds (330 lbs dude) and I still find curvy girls attractive. I like em thick, skinny, don't matter honestly.
I don't know, but I bet that girl's waist was naturally quite slim and the photoshop applied to make her look skinnier was unnecessary
They have to have something to offer. Hot girls don’t fuck ugly guys, and hot guys don’t fuck ugly girls.
Simple and factual answer
Bloody truth, though
No.
but hot rich guys are probably wayyy over and out of your league.. rich hot guys don’t settle for average looking women for the most part, much less a chubby or worse...
hot poor guys to average income... don’t need super fake or attractive women.. just don’t look like a whale or a full circle and they will be there..
in general men find most women attractive unless they have a big stomach really. Or extremely ugly face wise.
Nope, my boyfriend is physically toned and sexy as hell and I'm no instagram model.
Men like women with a WHR of 0.7 aka a hour glass figure with well proportioned figure, symmetrical face with symmetrical features, glowing skin-tone and healthy hair. Natural look is preferred also. Sensual and easy to talk to personality with certain level of needing a man e. g. helping her use a map or opening a jar. 😂
A "skinny" or "chubby" and women of any skin colour can meet these requirements.
It's actually very rare to have all of these requirements met.
People look for others like themselves in a way. So finding a girl who also puts effort into her body makes him appreciate her more. Since this is something he values himself.
not they don't have to be think instagram girls, but gonna have to look the part of healthy female and vibrant with something to offer.
She should preferably not be on Instagram at all. It's all stupid.
I am not a hot guy by any stretch of anyone's imagination.
But I am going to say "Yes" just to mess with your head so you waste inordinate amounts of time, money, and energy pursuing whatever you feel is the pinnacle of sexual attractiveness when it probably was never necessary because most guys will screw anything with a wet meat hole.
I guess it depends of the guys preferences.
Well... yeah, a girl has to be hot in order to get sex from hot guys. She doesn't have to be hot to get sex from just... guys. But hot guys? Yeah.
Granted, attractiveness is not universal, but there is a pattern that few men stray from. The overwhelming majority of men are only attracted to women who:
A) are neither significantly overweight nor underweight
B) have a good waist to hip ratio
There are outliers, but those are pretty much the only 2 constants. Men will differ in what range of weight they prefer within the healthy weight range mentioned earlier, as well as how fit they prefer, preferred boob size, etc.
But if you don't have those 2 things, sorry, you are very, very, very unlikely to get the opportunity to have sex with a tall, fit, broad-shouldered guy.
If you two hit it off, personalities match, your humor is similar, hell yes it's a possibility.
Not at all. Sex if offered will usually be accepted by a guy unless he just doesn't want it for moral reasons or already has a girl
No, not at all. Here's a dirty little secret- if a guy wants to be promiscuous, he has to lower his standards.
Guys tend to go for women interested in them.
The package that comes in isn't that important.
No, but it helps.
sorry but not for me, i look like an offbrand of that guy, imagine him just a lot less tan. Curvy girls dont turn me on at all, im sorry but I've fucked larger girls and reaching around and feeling a gut is an instant turn off. But I've also fucked a super skinny girl, also sucked. Just dont have a gut and you'll be fine, oh and no double chin, take care of yourself.
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