Do girls have to look like Instagram models or be thin in order to get sex from hot guys?

[Anonymous]

Do you see every hot guy or hot girl with someone equally attractive? Usually, but not all the time. Hot girls especially will make exceptions for average looking guys if they have something else going for them (usually their mouth)

Are you just looking to get laid? Or a relationship? If you are just looking to have sex it's not going to be difficult at all if you are least semi pretty and a woman. When you say thick and curvy, what do you mean? Do you just have a bigger butt, but workout and it's firm/muscle? Or you obese? I've met women who were a bit thicker but were athletic. They had sexy confidence when they walk around. I could tell they had something going for them. Even though I prefer cute petite girls I would made plenty of exceptions for them.

If you are heavier I would focus on resistance exercise, especially squats. It will firm up your legs. Also guys are much less picky than women when it comes to sex. There are plenty of athletic guys out there who are NOT born natural comedians/extroverts but we still want to get laid (that was me in my 20s). Just being good looking as a guy doesn't give you free pass to bang anyone you want. It only gives you leeway to act more aggressive/forward and make sexual jokes/comments without repercussion. A average looking guy doesn't get away with this (he gets called a creep).

With that said even good looking guys can still be paranoid (thanks to all the metoo crap) so some play it safe. Many are genetically introverts. Also some have a low self esteem because if they have been single for a while people question their sexuality (not fair). But even the best looking guys have to put some effort in and still have insecurities.

Just get on tinder and post a few moderately (but not over) suggestion pics. Smile at some guys you see around places. Don't be too aggressive, but start a pleasant conversation. He will get the hint. If they are interested they will take it from there.

But do NOT expect them to fall in love with you. They

[MrOracle]

Hot guys, by definition, have lots of women who find them attractive, and many of those women will throw themselves at him, which means a hot guy will have a lot of options for sex, and, since he has plenty of options to choose from, will often choose only those who he finds really attractive (and that doesn't necessarily mean skinny girls, though that's often the case). But those guys might also choose a girl because she's convenient and no-hassle about giving him casual sex, even if she's not necessarily his type.

It's incredibly difficult to get a RELATIONSHIP from a hot guy unless he thinks you're hot too (and, unless he thinks his friends will think you're hot as well), but if you're willing to give him convenient, no-hassle casual sex, you can get a pretty hot guy fairly easily. Just don't be under any illusions that it's going to become more than just sex.

[bubbles328]

Yes! not going to lie men are shallow. Guys moan about being friend-zoned the reason that doesn't happen to women is because if a guy doesn't like the way you look he won't make effort with you. The amount of average-good-looking guys I know that moan about shallow guys and talk about their girlfriends having more about them and that he chose his for personality blah blah then I meet the girlfriend and she looks like barbie and is incredibly high maintenance with the personality of a fish and I'm like "yeah you sure chose her on personality alone". I know hot guys with curvy girls but they've been with them from being young and they have kids together so the girl was hot when they met.

I fully expect to receive 1000 thumbs down and argumentative guys claiming this isn't true but find me a celeb couple with a good looking guy and a curvy girl that started dating when she was curvy and he's not with her for money. I bet you can't. I used to be fat now I am not the attention I get is so different. Also if I put makeup on I get looked at a lot more than when I don't. They say they want a natural girl but what they want is naturally perfect. Girls have make up for a reason if girls based their choices solely on looks guys would be the ones wearing it!

[PrimalInstinct]

1st off the average Instagram "model" is as shallow as a puddle; self-centered look-at-me bimbos. Back 1980ish their sort was called Valley Girls & wasn't viewed with much respect. Trophies in a way & to be blunt disposable if something 'better' comes along because there's no real connection in the relationship (aside from sex).

The same could be said of look-at-me "hot" guys. The dimwitted muscle-bound jock laughed at in spoof movies because he thinks he's grand but ultimately as useless as mud. I've encountered "hot" guys (as a naturally attractive never-needed makeup woman) who I wouldn't touch with a ten-foot barge pole if they were the last man on earth their personality is just that shallow, self-centered & all-around boring.

Now it depends on what you mean by curvy? I am curvy. Most men actually like a woman with curves over some half-starved omg I’ve put on a pound bimbo. But I am also a physically fit curvy. It's a curvy that attracts a lot of attention that as I’m with a guy I widely ignore.

If it’s curvy as in fat/obese then yes anyone is gonna have a problem & that includes heavier guys. It also depends on what you want. If you’re just after casual sex or a relationship.

[ShortCircuit]

Well... yeah, a girl has to be hot in order to get sex from hot guys. She doesn't have to be hot to get sex from just... guys. But hot guys? Yeah.

Granted, attractiveness is not universal, but there is a pattern that few men stray from. The overwhelming majority of men are only attracted to women who:
A) are neither significantly overweight nor underweight
B) have a good waist to hip ratio

There are outliers, but those are pretty much the only 2 constants. Men will differ in what range of weight they prefer within the healthy weight range mentioned earlier, as well as how fit they prefer, preferred boob size, etc.

But if you don't have those 2 things, sorry, you are very, very, very unlikely to get the opportunity to have sex with a tall, fit, broad-shouldered guy.

[Киттйлинк]

No.
but hot rich guys are probably wayyy over and out of your league.. rich hot guys don’t settle for average looking women for the most part, much less a chubby or worse...

hot poor guys to average income... don’t need super fake or attractive women.. just don’t look like a whale or a full circle and they will be there..

in general men find most women attractive unless they have a big stomach really. Or extremely ugly face wise.

[Artesian]

I am not a hot guy by any stretch of anyone's imagination.

But I am going to say "Yes" just to mess with your head so you waste inordinate amounts of time, money, and energy pursuing whatever you feel is the pinnacle of sexual attractiveness when it probably was never necessary because most guys will screw anything with a wet meat hole.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Men like women with a WHR of 0.7 aka a hour glass figure with well proportioned figure, symmetrical face with symmetrical features, glowing skin-tone and healthy hair. Natural look is preferred also. Sensual and easy to talk to personality with certain level of needing a man e. g. helping her use a map or opening a jar. 😂

A "skinny" or "chubby" and women of any skin colour can meet these requirements.
It's actually very rare to have all of these requirements met.

[MaximisPryme]

Be careful about looking for 'hot' guys... They often know what they have, and will manipulate to get what they want. Find yourself a quality man that doesn't take your attention for granted.

Attractive guys often do get lots of women, and therefore will choose the best looking woman, since he can be a chooser... You do not want him.

Again, find a guy that is not normally looked at by women, yet, you still find handsome. If he doesn't get much attention from women, there is no worry of him cheating on you, or having the power to choose who he wants to have sex with ;P

Take me, for instance. I am not bad looking, but I never had a woman find me sexually attractive. If I find one that likes me for me, I am no longer worried about it. Plus, it is a bonus for her, as I am not sexy enough for me to cheat on her (Not that I would want to, to begin with).

[Nik1hil]

No.. Not exactly.
Looking like @laurenzz is going to make things 10 times easy for you..
But your attitude and personality should still be held in high regards..
Guy do need to know that you won't play with their mind and leave them a train wreck.

[lucas262]

None of these Instagram women, Victoria's secret, models any of them none look like that 24/7 they would be the 1st to say this.
I mean if I had millions of dollars in Resourese and make up workers, photographers cherry picking my best pics they heavily edited I'd look like cris Hemsworth.


Having 3 sisters
A mom
And a niece

And a host of female friends I can say the ,, beauty industry/media,, has had a negative effect on women.

[AD240pCharlie]

Unless you're morbidly obese, you're not gonna have any big problems attracting partners.
Even if you're chubby, have small boobs or acne, very few people have NO appealing physical qualities whatsoever. Just focus on them. Maybe you have long, beautiful hair. Maybe you have pretty eyes. Maybe you have a clean, high-pitched voice. Maybe you have great legs. Just try to find ways to draw attention to the attractive traits you do have.

[crazy8000]

Just like those girl's you are preferring to. both are rarely partner material. low developed on the inside and emotions. they usually suffers from heavy mental health problems they try to hide. that's the funny way of nature. what you have in some areas usually gets less/worse in some other area.

Just don't go after look. it will fool you for sure.
You will find that out after hand you grow as a person in proper direction.

[LordVarys]

the truth is fat girls feel insecure so they won't go with an average guy preferring to think if they were with a man they will be treated badly so they tend to go after a hot guy they know is an asshole over a decent guy that will respect them. I dont think it matters whether your fat skinny good looking or ugly those guys you think are "hot" will always go for the biggest slut then move on to the next girl.

[Kiran_Yagami]

To get sex? No, but you can't be morbidly obese or ugly either. If you're above average then have you a chance, but he ain't gonna date you. He'll get his lay in and then kick out, won't even make you breakfast. Guys like sex and they're willing to trade down a little bit in order for ease of access, but if you aren't easy then he won't bother.

[DashboardLight]

Why do you think these guys exercise and stay hygienic all day long? What hot women and hot guys often have in common is they are very visually oriented. They care about looks a lot. That's not necessarily a bad thing, it's just the way it is.

You don't necessarily need to look like an Instagram model or be thin, but you'll still have to look attractive to them.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Everyone likes something different, especially when it comes to features and body builds.

Some like curvy, others like thin.

Some like blondes, others like brunettes (or any other hair color).

Some like short girls, some like tall girls.

I think it really depends on the guy and what he's into.

[Volucum]

People look for others like themselves in a way. So finding a girl who also puts effort into her body makes him appreciate her more. Since this is something he values himself.

[Max_Stryker]

sorry but not for me, i look like an offbrand of that guy, imagine him just a lot less tan. Curvy girls dont turn me on at all, im sorry but I've fucked larger girls and reaching around and feeling a gut is an instant turn off. But I've also fucked a super skinny girl, also sucked. Just dont have a gut and you'll be fine, oh and no double chin, take care of yourself.

[AlienParasite]

I don't know, but I bet that girl's waist was naturally quite slim and the photoshop applied to make her look skinnier was unnecessary

[John_Doesnt]

A hot guy can get whatever he wants. Don't stand in the way of an alpha male!

I am untethered and my rage knows no bounds

[Anonymous]

There is an old expression “I’ve never gone home with a fat girl but I’ve woken up next to a few”. Aka “beer goggles”. Guys will sleep with girls fatter and homely but will not want it Public. So, sex -yes. Acknowledging they did- no

[Mexicvn]

Yes, it's possible. I've lost 117 pounds (330 lbs dude) and I still find curvy girls attractive. I like em thick, skinny, don't matter honestly.

[Anonymous]

No. They probably need to be an average plus dressed up, available to fuck at his beck and call, willing to focus entirely on what he wants, and then vanish on queue after. If you're not hot and he is, you're fast food sex for when he's feeling lazy and wants something specific with no effort.

[thomual]

Not at all. Sex if offered will usually be accepted by a guy unless he just doesn't want it for moral reasons or already has a girl

[Duckysback]

They have to have something to offer. Hot girls don’t fuck ugly guys, and hot guys don’t fuck ugly girls.

[parjacpar]

NO as everyone is different and I go for personality and always give people a chance.

Shame not all do

Just remember what BBW is short for

[Shuri]

Nope. But it depends on your definition of 'hot'. I had a guy with a six pack, 6'2, and he was hot as shit. We dated for two years. Dude was an asshole as I discovered later on in our relationship, but even I admit he was good looking.

I, however, am 5'2, 36DD, 173 lbs., and my favorite activity is deciding where I'm going to order my next pizza. I'm not ugly by any means, but I'm far from an instagram model. It's personal preference is all.

[Rippersavage]

At the end of the day a person's face is the most important thing (physically speaking). If he finds ur face attractive he will, if he doesn't he won't

[Unit1]

Easy.
step 1) don't be fat. Don't be overweight.
step 2) grab him by the dick

everything else will follow up on it's own.

if only it was that easy for us men 🤷

[SexyAshh]

If a guy is hot, he wants someone equally as hot.

Unless they are drunk and desperate, then sure.

[spartan55]

She should preferably not be on Instagram at all. It's all stupid.

[Avicenna]

No, not at all. Here's a dirty little secret- if a guy wants to be promiscuous, he has to lower his standards.

[JimmyQ]

Stupid question and you knew that before you asked it. Dudes will fuck anything that moves. So, what is the real question or are you really that dumb?

[meesegoMoo]

Do guys have to be ripped to get with models? Or preferably women better than that?

[TAZZEREX]

It actually depends on person to person. Yeah most of them do like curvy women but there are men who like both.( It depends on the man and the woman he's is interested)

[one1wild00]

Just like girls have various shapes and sizes among other preferences, guys do as well. Personality will also weigh in and on the final decision to like or Love someone.

[WarDaddy1969]

I'm not hott but I like all women I gotta a sayin even goes like this. Fat, Tall, Short, Small. Blind, Crippled, Crazy, or 80 if they can't make it to the bed I'll carry em. Lol now what doya think of that lol I crack me up.

[jtg13]

Guys tend to go for women interested in them.
The package that comes in isn't that important.

[Anonymous]

Not really but on the same token average girls tend to overestimate them selves when it comes to looks, which leads them to feeling entitled to the hottest guys when the hottest guys won't touch them...

[gigglesexe]

Of course there are standards in this world, blame the media for that bull crap. BUT, not every guy is like that, everyone has a preference.

[Games_]

NO LOL. Guys have the lowest look standard. A ig model prolly has higher look standards doe, because he can get any girl

[weldaboi]

If your at least average in look just about any guy will chase after you even the hot ones men are dogs and so long as you are doable they'll be there

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I think people just like what they like when they see it, there's no hard and fast rule

[vinay0312]

Even though guys prefer to have sex with women's with curves rather then the Instagram skinny models. and also they don't approach the Instagram models much due to their unnecessary ego attitude and arrogance.

[20yearsolder]

If you two hit it off, personalities match, your humor is similar, hell yes it's a possibility.

[vxlsir]

If your looking for just sex offer it but know that's all your asking for some will take it some won't

[genericname85]

no. just not being morbidly obese should be enough.

[chriscdi]

there's standards but hot guys might will have different preferences so some might like your shape

[OddBeMe]

Depends on what you find hot. Model thin girls get the model thin guys. I’m a chunky guy who likes chunky women. Win win.

[Einsteinagogo]

No men will poke anything that has a heart beat and there is some who don't care if they have that !!!

[KrakenAttackin]

No, but that would be fair. A recent study showed that women think that 80% of men are below average in looks --- which is statistically impossible.

[Usernamesrdumb]

Different for every one. But if you expect an Instagram model boyfriend you better be an Instagram model girlfriend yourself.

[Anonymous]

Would a millionaire buy clothes from a charity store?

[blondfrog]

Neither. Us men are thirsty enough to settle for average women.

[dthomas89]

I do think that most girls have to look like instagram models, to get HOT men

[Twalli]

It depends on the guy. Not all girls find the same guys hot or vice versa

[Laozi]

That depends on the individual. Some might like that. But sometimes guys (doesn't matter how sexy and hot they're) choose a very simple girl. They don't go for body but personality.

[lightbulb27]

not they don't have to be think instagram girls, but gonna have to look the part of healthy female and vibrant with something to offer.

[Bandit74]

If we're just talking about sex and not commitment then yeah a girl can be just average looking and still get a conventionally hot guy to sleep with her.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Catch one of us when we're horny and no better pussy is available at the moment. We'll give you the dick.

[Anonymous]

I actually prefer average normal looking women. No string beans for me. I like normalcy and a some curves.

[TotallyAlmost]

You'd be surprised. Guys are attracted to all kinds of body types.

[Browneye57]

No, a hot guy will pretty much bang anything with tits if they look good at all.
You're confused about how to get a quality man. And SO foolish.